When you are strong, the whole world will be good to you.

I remember a classic saying popular on the Internet that when you are strong enough, the whole world will make way for you. On the contrary, when you are weak, there are really many bad people.

A few days ago, an interview with Bo Huang exploded the Internet:

In the past, when I was not doing well, I was always looked down upon cautiously, because you wouldn't pay the bill (no money) and no one would pay attention to you when you went to the bar.

It's different now (getting along well). Everywhere I go, I call you "Miss Huang, Miss Huang", and many people will smile and say to you, "Miss Huang, what would you like to drink?" I'll give you some ","Miss Huang, you have worked hard ".

Actually, I've been doing the same job. Didn't I work hard before?

At the end of the interview, Bo Huang said flatly: It turns out that when you are weak, there are really many bad people.

This sentence tells the cruel truth of the real world: when you are strong, the whole world is good to you, surrounded by kindness and care. On the contrary, when you are weak, there are really many bad people around you. This time is also the time when you are most vulnerable to injustice and injury.

Life is alive, and you really can't see the truth without suffering.

It really makes a big difference whether you mix well or not.

Bo Huang's interview aroused a strong response, because it was his real life experience and because it revealed the sadness of countless ordinary people in the world.

Before becoming famous, Bo Huang did everything, set up stalls, opened a small processing factory and sang songs in bars ...

Especially during singing in a bar, I experienced all kinds of difficulties. Bo Huang later said that in the bar, you will meet all kinds of different people, of course, there are inevitably low-quality gangsters, and sometimes there are many.

Once, before Bo Huang sang in a bar, the "big bosses" in the audience began to shout, "Come down, come down, come down quickly".

The scene is extremely embarrassing. The point is, if it is not handled properly, a wine bottle may be thrown away!

Bo Huang was not angry, but he dared not. As soon as he turned around, he took the initiative to walk down a step, still smiling. "You told me to come down, and I really came down!" Next, I will sing a song "Good luck to those who like me".

Everyone says that Bo Huang has a high emotional intelligence, but everyone knows that those "high emotional intelligence" are forced out.

Later, in an interview, Bo Huang said, "I know this is an insult and a grievance, but I really can't get off the stage because I have no money to take it."

During singing in a bar, Bo Huang met all kinds of people and encountered all kinds of difficulties, and was forced to learn all kinds of coping skills.

Bo Huang said, sometimes when you finish the original song, the guests can't give you money, so you just keep drinking and beg them to give you money.

Many times in life, it's not that there are too many bad people around you, but your position. It costs nothing to bully you.

This situation remained until Bo Huang was admitted to the Film Academy.

Someone said directly in front of Bo Huang, "Even you can go to film school, which is too low! Isn't that for everyone? "

When he finished filming in the film academy, his appearance was still the target of attacks by people around him, which made him lose face.

Bo Huang plays the role of a robber in The Taste of Love.

One day, before shooting, the director shouted, "Where are the robbers? Where is the police? "

Bo Huang quickly stepped forward. "Here comes the robber." . When the deputy director saw it, he gave him a lecture directly for the director. "You are a robber. Who picked these actors? "

If you were someone else, you might go back angrily. After all, this is a great insult to your personality!

This situation didn't change until Bo Huang won the Golden Horse Award for Bullfighting and the Best Actor at the Shanghai International Film Festival for Frozen.

Later, Bo Huang's plays got better and better. In 10 1 proposing marriage, no man's land, full of flowers, he played the leading role as the first hero and achieved great box office success, and was called the winner of 5 billion box office.

At this time, the situation in Bo Huang began to get better and better, so that the face that was originally regarded as a "stain" became a "bright spot".

Many people say that Bo Huang's face is easy to recognize, which is the guarantee of box office. Some even say that Bo Huang is a unique "comedian" after Ge You.

Bo Huang experienced a lot of sadness, met all kinds of different people, encountered all kinds of hardships, developed all kinds of skills, and tasted the indifference of the world.

Many times, it's not whether the world is bad or not, but whether you are weak or not. When you are strong, the whole world is good to you. When you are weak, you are surrounded by bad people.

More accurately, it is not that there are too many bad people in this world, but that there are too many bad people in your position.

In Hong Kong, there is a famous TV program "The Battle of the Rich", which allows the rich in the elite to experience the daily life of the poor and talk about their feelings.

There is a rich second generation who received a good education since childhood. People around you are very respectful and full of goodwill. People with the same wealth accompanied him to the bar to drink, and beautiful girls accompanied her on her yacht. However, when he participated in this program and became a poor man, the whole world changed.

He went through a lot of hardships and tried countless times, and finally found a job of delivering food. However, after only half a day's work, I earned 10 yuan, and I was inexplicably fired!

It turns out that when you are weak, you may become a victim of others' "strategic adjustment" at any time, and you are too lazy to make up a grandiose reason for you.

In the evening, he came home tired and sad, but he was surprised to find that the cardboard "home" was torn down and even the cardboard was taken away.

Look up at the sky and sigh, want to cry without tears.

It turns out that when you are weak, your surroundings are really hostile, and even what little you have will be brutally taken away and mercilessly thrown away.

Coincidentally, there is a famous psychological experiment called the broken window effect, which tells the same truth.

Philip, a psychology professor at Stanford University, found two identical cars and parked one in the Bronx, new york, which is famous for its chaos, and the other in a middle-class area of California. The car stopped in the Bronx, and Professor Philip deliberately took off the license plate and opened the convertible. Only one day later, it was stolen, while the car parked in California was unscathed for a whole month.

Later, Professor Philip deliberately used a hammer to open a hole in the car parked in California. As a result, someone opened the door and stole the contents soon. Then, someone just stole the whole car.

It turns out that when you are damaged and in a weak position, even if you are thousands of miles away, there will be bad people who will smell the smell and hurt you mercilessly to achieve their ulterior motives.

The key is that when you change from weak to strong, your objective environment will be completely different.

When I just graduated from college, because I had no money, I rented a house in a village in the city and rode an electric car to and from work. One morning, when I went downstairs to get ready for work, I found that the charging socket was still there, but the car was gone. It turns out that my electric car was stolen!

No way, I bought a second-hand electric car, but it was stolen again, and four electric cars were lost back and forth.

Besides my car being stolen, the house I rented was also visited by thieves. According to people nearby, it is normal for thieves to go in and out because there is no monitoring and security in the place where they live.

When I sleep at night, in order to sleep more stably, I have to firmly hold the door with a desk and stool and repeatedly confirm that I can't open it from the outside before I dare to sleep peacefully.

I don't know if you can imagine what that feels like. Even if you are exhausted, you should be careful that someone in this position will stab you in the back and steal what you already have!

Later, after continuous efforts, I bought my own house and moved out of the village in the city. The community where I live is monitored and patrolled by security guards every day, and the public security environment has been greatly improved. Since then, I have never lost an electric car, let alone worried about being patronized by thieves at home.

In addition, I am a painter upstairs, and my neighbors downstairs are teachers. Sometimes I ask them for help. Of course, they sometimes ask me for help.

Go home from work at night, chat downstairs together, exchange ideas with each other, and have a brain collision. Maybe there will be a spark of thought.

Sometimes, I think, it's not that the whole environment has become better, but that I have become stronger.

In fact, there are good people and bad people everywhere. However, you have to admit that, in comparison, villages in the city are often not monitored and security guards are often absent, so the environment is relatively poor. And those better communities have high property fees and corresponding service facilities such as monitoring and security, so the environment is much better.

In this world, the harm of bad people is limited. When you are strong enough to reach a brand-new position, you are beyond the scope of their harm.

Just like a popular joke on the Internet:

When I was eating in my pub, the gangster on the side whistled to my girlfriend. Do you want to fight with them?

A: Try to earn money and eat in high-end restaurants, where there are no gangsters.

In this world, the harder you work, the stronger you become. There will be fewer and fewer bad people around you, and more and more good people.

? For example, when you work hard to keep fit, there will be more and more self-disciplined people around you, fewer and fewer people will overeat, and people who laugh at your figure will naturally disappear;

When you despise hard work and achieve something, there will be fewer and fewer people around you who are negative, decadent and depressed, and more and more professionals and elites. Those who originally looked down on you will be full of reverence;

When you have a successful career, earn more and more money and have a car and a house, those who once despised you as a "poor boy" will look at you with new eyes.

This is life.

With each step, you will get farther and farther away from the bad guys, and there will be more and more good people around you.

When you are strong enough, you will be surprised to find that there are good people around you. ?