It's not worth it —— Thinking caused by the event of Toona sinensis bud

Some things are really not worth it, but they just happen. -Edit

There is a clearing outside the garden in front of our building. When it was first developed, the residential property was neglected in management, and some owners planted some trees in these open spaces. There was no unified planning at that time, so there were almost all kinds of varieties.

In front of the neighbor's garden next door, there are two Toona sinensis trees, which are now more than 3 meters long. Because of these two trees, there are some quarrels every year.

It is said that these two Toona sinensis trees were planted by an elder sister who lives on the fourth floor. At that time, there were not many people living in the community, and no one reached out ... So my sister lived for several years. Every year, she harvests many Chinese toon buds with joy and satisfaction.

With more and more people living in the community, the fate of these two Toona sinensis trees has also changed: often the branches of Toona sinensis were green in the moonlight the night before, and the next morning, Toona sinensis trees had only branches and no buds. ...

I heard that it was picked by an old man who got up early and did morning exercises. Sometimes it may be too high to reach, and the branches will be broken ... That big sister often shouts loudly when she is angry, and when she is impatient, she will scold a few words regardless of her image.

This spring, the climate is really abnormal, and there is no obvious warming feeling. The other trees have just turned green, but the Chinese toon buds on those two trees have already begun to sneak out!

Well, it's two weeks early-Toona sinensis buds have grown out in previous years. How can it be around Tomb-Sweeping Day? ...

In fact, at this time in the past, the eldest sister on the fourth floor went back to her parents' house to look after her mother for a while. However, she didn't go out this year. She stayed at home, squatted on the balcony and stared at the two Chinese toon trees.

After the bud blooms, it is half a foot long ... Thinking that it will be picked in another week, my sister's wrinkled face is filled with joy.

Suddenly one day, an iron hook reached the tree! Oh, hey, how dare you! Someone came to "steal" Toona sinensis buds in broad daylight, and this "squatting" sister finally caught it!

Sister quickly opened the window and rushed downstairs and shouted, "That's my Toona sinensis bud, you can't pick it!" " "The following people were busy picking, and didn't notice anyone calling themselves.

So my sister hurried downstairs, with her children still behind. Big sister ran all the way to the tree, and before she could lift her feet, she was shouting in her mouth. Her son stood by with a straight face and kept silent.

It seems that pickers are not "good-natured" either. They may have "studied" the laws of the country or the regulations of the community, arguing again and again that she has no "ownership" of the tree: public places belong to everyone and anyone can pick them.

The two refused to give way to each other, and the neighbors persuaded them at both ends, but unfortunately neither side listened. Finally, the property called the police and the police station staff came to stop the quarrel between the two sides.

In fact, since ancient times, many trivial things between neighbors have been difficult to get along with. Otherwise, how can there be a saying that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor"? With less contact, you can "distance produces beauty."

It is said that in the past, the corn stalks in the vegetable garden of rural neighbors were caught by fences, and whoever occupied more of their land could blush and have a thick neck. Such as housing base, the people think it is a "big event" involving Feng Shui and future generations, and even can kill people.

Now there are many high-rise buildings in the city, and reinforced concrete has erected its own world. Relatively speaking, it is "fragmented", and there is not much overlap between the two. But still, there is a contradiction unconsciously ... perhaps, this is really inevitable.

But rational thinking, living in the same community should respect each other and take care of each other. Have something to say and focus on solving problems.

For example, if you say hello in advance, everyone will want to try something new outside, and no one will mind too much. But being considered as "stealing" can easily lead to unhappiness.

Actually, the elder sister on the fourth floor need not be so serious. The so-called "great anger hurts the body"-quarreling hurts the body and hurts the body. Think about how much a handful of Toona sinensis buds are worth. I was so angry that I didn't even have enough money to buy medicine!

Of course, people will say-I don't want money, I just want to argue right and wrong, and talk about "Li Er"! That's even more unnecessary. Quality education begins with being born in a family. We don't need to "educate" our children for our parents, let alone really not be children.

Everyone has face, and everyone knows that to "face", we have to give each other a proper "step"-people get along well with each other, respect each other, and put themselves in others' shoes, which is good.

Between contradictions and conflicts, once the face is torn, it will be embarrassing to bow your head and see it later. ...

The door of my small garden has never been locked. When the vegetables in the garden grow to the fullest, I can't finish them myself, so I let my neighbors pick them casually. Except for a few people, everyone is very conscious and generally does not pick at random.

If someone really needs it, they will stand in the garden and shout, "It's too late to buy food today, pull one from you!" "

For so many years, the relationship between our family and our neighbors has been very harmonious. The water used by the property in the yard to irrigate the land is often supplied during the day. When I am not at home at work, my neighbors in the East and West Yards often help me water the land.

A quarrel caused by Toona sinensis buds seems to me to be such a judgment: a harmonious neighborhood is better than many Toona sinensis buds! I think both parties involved must regret it-because it's really "too worthless"!