During the epidemic, I thought of two stories: being kind to your body means being kind to your family.

During the epidemic, I thought of two stories: being kind to your body means being kind to your family.

Text/Huimo

In the Spring Festival of 2020, an epidemic broke out in COVID-19. Doctors say immunity is the best medicine. If you want to be immune to diseases, you must have a healthy body. And a healthy body needs good living habits.

Around us, some people live in a hurry and don't know how to treat their bodies well. As a result, they lose their lives prematurely and bring trouble to their families. This lesson deserves our vigilance.

These two stories happened in real life, so I will introduce them to you together with Zhang Jun and Li Jun, so as to avoid everyone being seated.

Some time ago, I heard an acquaintance tell the story of Zhang Jun.

Zhang Jun is a 28-year-old young man with a good job. I talked about a girlfriend. The girl is tall, fair-skinned, gentle and considerate, and beautiful. She spent some time together, and they had a good relationship. It's time for sweet talk and swearing. The two discussed buying a house and getting married. Unexpectedly, Zhang Jun's father was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. After receiving the doctor's report, his brain went blank. In the corridor of the hospital, he made a difficult choice whether to treat it or not.

Governance is to take out the down payment for buying a house, the house he is going to get married, and the girlfriend he just talked about. I don't know if she will take it.

He is dead. Zhang Jun's father is only 56 years old. Although he is not in his prime, he is not too old. Moreover, he gave birth to him and raised him for more than 20 years. He can't watch him die in vain, because his conscience will be restless. Finally, he chose to treat his father.

Half a year has passed, and my father has been hospitalized, discharged, given injections, taken medicine, and constantly given radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and his health is getting worse and worse.

In this article, Zhang Jun's father regretted it. He hates himself for being careless at ordinary times, smoking and drinking, staying up late, playing mahjong all night, and enjoying life freely with those friends, and he collapsed as a result. Now watching my son's money to buy a house go to waste, his health is getting worse every day. As a result, he died in a rage. Left a bad debt to his grieving son.

Life is irreversible. If you don't cherish it, you will never have it again. In the last year or two of their lives, many people spent all their life savings and owed a lot of debts to their families and children, and finally passed away sadly. Life is only once. If you don't treat it well, there is no way to repair it if it is damaged.

Zhang Jun's father spent all his savings in the family, but he still couldn't stay alive, leaving both people and money. What's more sad is that Zhang Jun talked about his girlfriend for nearly a year, and seeing that buying a house is far away, the woman's parents have been urging the house to get married. In desperation, he had to choose to break up. Zhang Jun was heartbroken to see his father's death. Years of upbringing made him feel guilty. He didn't save his father's life. Now all the savings in his family have been hollowed out, the dream of buying a house has completely turned into a bubble, and there is little hope for his next girlfriend. Zhang Jun, who is very young, suddenly aged a lot because of this blow. At first glance, he looks like a middle-aged man who has experienced many vicissitudes. Zhang Jun is still decadent.

People who don't pay attention to their health are a disaster for their families and disrespect for their families.

Another story is about a father, whom we call Li Jun. Li Jun is an honest and conscientious cultivator. He is simple and kind, and loves his children and family. Li Jun thinks he is in good health. When working in the countryside, he worked day and night. His wife once advised him not to be too tired. Things can't be done in a day. He should know how to rest. But Li Jun thinks he is young and strong, and wants to save money to build a beautiful small building in the village, so that his wife and children can live a happy life.

Li Jun also has the virtue of diligence and thrift. He doesn't pay attention to eating. He often eats a full meal with an empty stomach. Sometimes a bag of instant noodles, a steamed bun and a bottle of water will cost him three meals a day.

When Li Jun was still in the slack season, he went out to work with people in the village. In order to save money and build a house at home, he is willing to do any hard work and dirty work. On a hot day, everyone is resting and he is still working. After nine days of cold weather, the workmates are hiding under the covers, and he is still working. Due to long-term heavy physical labor and poor nutrition, Li Jun got stomach cancer due to overwork in his thirties.

In the middle-aged and young life, he got cancer. Li Jun has a lot of resentment in his heart. There are elderly parents at home waiting for him to support the elderly. How can he leave this world without fulfilling his son's obligations? Li Jun looked at his wife and children around him and looked at them reluctantly. How can he leave his dearest person? There are so many beautiful things waiting for him to do in this world. He will build a new house at home with his own hands, buy a beautiful set of furniture like others, add a color TV and refrigerator to his home, and watch his two children grow up alone. He can't bear to be separated from his wife. He and his wife were childhood friends, sharing weal and woe. She doesn't hate his poverty. She said that he was hardworking and kind and would marry such a man. Where can I find such a woman? He wants to give her a beautiful and happy life, and he wants to grow old with her, but now the hateful cancer is going to break up such a loving family. Is fate particularly unfair to him? Although Li Jun has too much attachment to life, cancer has not spared him.

Because of the poor economic conditions at home, Li Jun didn't want to spend too much money on treatment, so he took some medicine for a long time and died a few months later. Poor him. There are two sick old people to support and two teenage children to support. Li Jun's daughter-in-law cried her eyes out. A good family, so there is no pillar, crumbling.

A person who doesn't pay attention to health will bring disaster to the whole family. If the money is gone, you can make it again. No one, really nothing.

Family is our warm harbor. Tired and sleepy, you can go home and rest. Then, with the entrustment of my family and children, I went out to work hard in high spirits. Happy, happy, we will share with our families. Then, with the blessing of family and children, we will start again happily. Pay attention to your health at ordinary times and keep healthy. Don't indulge your body and squander it without restraint. Don't treat your health badly, working day and night.

The stories of Zhang Jun and Li Jun are so sad that we should think about them after sighing. People often say that a car, after driving for several months, still knows how to do maintenance. Our bodies are flesh and blood, so remember to have regular physical examinations and treat them well.

We can't stay away from cancer, but we can prevent it. By combining work and rest with regular physical examination, we can control the disaster of disease. What will your elderly parents do if your health collapses? What about your hungry child? Therefore, being kind to your body means being kind to your family! A person who is irresponsible for his health is a disaster for a family!