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Neighbors are an important link between family life and social life for us. The old saying that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor" is enough to illustrate the importance of neighborhood relations. Neighborhood relationship is an important public-private relationship in society. If it works well, it will have a far-reaching impact on people's quality and moral level.

With the improvement of housing conditions, we may no longer rush about for aisles, and we don't have to worry about walls having ears, but we are all wrapped in cement barriers. At the same time, the neighborhood relationship has also risen from the previous perceptual stage to the rational stage.

Of course you have the right to say that neighbors are not important to me. However, when a society laments the lack of neighborhood relationship and the deterioration of interpersonal relationship, the germination of new neighborhood relationship may mean some change and hope-equal interpersonal relationship has become the soul of a society, and the neighborhood relationship that we have forgotten is an important part of it.

According to the survey, the proportion of greeting among neighbors decreased by 25. 18% compared with ten years ago, but the proportion of mutual assistance and reciprocity increased by 65.6438+0%. The new neighborhood relationship greatly embodies "humanization"-people have more room for two-way choice.

Now the neighborhood relationship has risen from the perceptual stage to the rational stage, which means there may be less superficial greetings, but the solution to the problem is scientific and effective. The new neighborhood relationship focuses on everyone living in harmony but never interfering in "internal affairs", emphasizing the sense of distance-as we all know, distance often produces beauty. Many noble communities have "residents service centers" and "owners' committees". Neighbors no longer bother each other, but go directly to the residents' service center, which has become a model operation.

People always miss the life of the old quadrangle, saying that it fully embodies that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors." However, this closeness and excitement is based on the narrow housing dilemma. In the final analysis, it is a kind of helplessness-the crowding of 72 tenants has produced a sense of intimacy, the space is narrow, and people's boldness of vision is also small. Knowing each other too much and being familiar with each other's personality and temper, everything can spread like wildfire, let alone privacy.

Social scientists believe that 80% of neighborhood disputes more than ten years ago were related to housing. With the improvement of housing quality, the division between public and private areas is clear, and the disputes arising from the confusion between public and private areas will naturally disappear.

The new neighborhood relationship is actually a new interpersonal relationship under the changing living conditions. When conditions change, people's thinking changes. It is obviously unrealistic to emphasize a certain atmosphere blindly. The relationship between people is a profound social philosophy.

New neighborhood relationship

If the distance between houses is reasonable, there will be good neighbors. Good neighbors are people who are not far from us.

In the 1970s, the most common problem among neighbors was who occupied whose corridor, whose coal pool crossed the border, the land was precious, and wars were raging. Now houses, public areas and private areas have been clearly divided. The emerging problem is how far our home is from other people's homes, and how far we will feel the sense of belonging given by the community, so that we can feel that the hidden fun in life will not be violated.

A good house should have a good view, and at the same time, it should be in the eyes of neighbors. The flower wall surrounded by fences makes the border friendly. Even the thorn on the rose is not the flower-picking hand. The distance between a good house and a good house, like the distance between hearts, should be neither far nor near.

With the increasingly fierce social mobility and professional mobility, people have a demand for non-profit and non-work interpersonal communication. When colleagues, business partners and competitors are constantly changing, what we expect is a stable relationship outside the family but unrelated to economic interests. So a good house belongs to a good community, and a good community should have a club, so that we can feel that the relationship between the public and the public is smooth, and the neighbors can cooperate well to find the people they want. Clubs give us a strong sense of regional belonging and enrich the connotation of home. Clubhouse is such a place-in addition to our family life and career, it also helps us to know a group of neighbors who have the same living habits as us.

Good neighbors should be mutually supportive. For example, play ball together, repair the flower wall together, and nail the swing for the children together. In addition to cooperation in reality, cooperation in the online world also allows neighborhood relations to advance and retreat freely. The cooperative relationship between neighbors is a kind of fun dedication, which reflects the value outside of one's own career. Cooperation and mutual assistance make neighborhood relations the most interesting and relaxed social relations. As a job of the owners' committee, sometimes it is a pleasure to be a member of society.

There should be tacit understanding between a good house and a good house, between a good house and a community, between a good house and nature, and between the owners of a good house. Coordination is perfect only when there is tacit understanding.

The tacit understanding is that your house is luxurious, but it will not be abrupt, domineering and extravagant.

The tacit understanding is that someone else's door is a bamboo fence, and your door is not a Roman pillar.

The tacit understanding is that your neighbors won't let your children pick your flowers and turn on the radio loudly in the middle of the night. Because of tacit understanding, your house is more valuable and your life is more interesting.

A good house should not only have a large private space, but also have a community environment that respects private space. It's best to have a neighbor who respects your private space with you-no one knocks on your door in the middle of the night, no one takes the newspaper that falls out of your mailbox, and no one asks you if the house is a one-time payment. On weekends, you all open the door to greet each other. Your pumpkin is ripe, so you put it in front of your neighbor's house.

Respect means that you and your neighbors abide by the potential rules in life.

The excitement and intimacy built up in a small space are gone forever.

As Yu Yongqi, director of Rena Garden Resident Service Center, said, serving the owners well is the lifeline of property management. Whether the owners are satisfied or not determines the life and death of the property management company to a certain extent. Therefore, it has become commonplace for business owners to find property. Who will bother the neighbors? What's more, the housekeeping service center will try its best to solve everything from leaking water pipes and losing keys to renting houses and transferring ownership.

Excellent property management companies have entered the stage of brand creation, and it is a compulsory course for them to keep emotional communication with owners anytime and anywhere. Property management companies let owners know, recognize and support through various communication methods, and also collect and summarize the recent requirements and voices of owners through various channels as an important basis for improving working methods. "Resident Service Center" and "Maintenance Center" provide 24-hour service, and are ready to receive consultation and complaints. The monitoring center of the property management company has a direct network telephone to every household, and there is a "friendly reminder board" at the entrance of every building. In this way, the excitement and intimacy that were once built in a small space are gone forever. Through the adjustment of the "housekeeping service center", the distance between neighbors is moderate day by day, gradually emitting a cordial aesthetic feeling.

Neighborhood relationship is an important public-private relationship in society. Whether it works well often has a great influence on the quality and moral level of people in this society. If we live in a luxurious house, but the neighborhood relationship is missing, with the acceleration of the pace of life and the widening of the spatial distance brought about by urban expansion, the relationship between relatives and friends will become more and more alienated. If there are only peripheral public relations such as colleagues and customers in life, life will become boring.

I live above a tall building.

"I live in a tall building and look back on the good old days ..."

I made up the lyrics myself. Whenever the familiar melody flutters in my ear, my heart will buzz, and the feeling of melancholy, sadness and depression will instantly pervade the empty room.

After living in this so-called high-end residential area for several years, the living environment and material life have improved, but the inner loneliness is increasing day by day. I didn't know until recently that there were 12 families living in my building. I was a stranger to them for a long time, and we both knew that going in and out was a doorway. When we met, we just nodded politely, that's all.

Modern people seem to be used to making a cold mask on their faces and a thick cocoon to hide their hearts. For years, I don't remember a neighbor knocking on my door. As for me, when I was preparing to decorate my house, I went to study in my neighbor's house. There is an owners' committee in the community. I don't know who they are. I don't know what the owners' committee can do. The property in our community feels more formal, and we often post a notice under the floor and send a notice or something. There is also a supermarket in the community. If you usually want to buy something, a phone call will be delivered to your door. The sewer at home is blocked, the door handle is broken, I have troubled my friends and found a property. The attitude of property service is good, but the price is very expensive.

When I first moved here, my son was still young and very naughty. Although we taught him to scold him all day and spanked him with chopsticks and told him not to jump around on the floor, otherwise his uncles and aunts downstairs would have problems, but from time to time it was inevitable that something would happen. Downstairs, the young couple had no children, and the man came up politely and put forward his own opinions. After a long time, people stopped talking. We're really sorry.

One day in the middle of the night, our intercom doorbell suddenly rang, and there came a man's voice, saying that he was an upstairs neighbor and forgot to bring his key. The next day, my wife told me that this person is Korean, so I got on the phone. There is a woman living with him. She often goes out for a walk with her puppy at night 10. I don't know if that woman is his wife or Korean.

Then the Koreans left. Here comes another person, who is also Korean. Koreans don't understand the customs of China. On Dragon Boat Festival, his wife put several mugwort trees in front of his house, and he felt puzzled.

Anyway, my son finally has a small partner. The new residents of the West Unit, which has been vacant for a long time on the first floor, have moved in. There lived an old couple in the West Unit, their daughter, son-in-law and little nephew. I don't know their last names or what they do. My nephew is less than 2 years old and his name is Doudou. Grandpa often plays with his nephew in the yard. We passed by his house every day, and our son became familiar with Doudou. Every time I pass by, Xiao Doudou calls my son "Niu Niu".

Niu Niu is willing to play with Yang Yang upstairs next door. Niu Niu and Yang Yang were born on the same day in the same year. They met by setting off fireworks downstairs during the Spring Festival this year. Niu Niu went to Yang Yang's home once and didn't come back after 10 in the evening. He's crazy. Later, his mother wouldn't let him go to other people's houses. Maybe Yang Yang's mother thinks so, too. It's annoying for irrelevant people to play at home until evening 10.

I am a fan, and I know there are some good balls near my home. Because I often watch football until midnight on weekends. During the intermission, I smoked on the balcony and could hear my neighbor's TV. Unfortunately, we can't communicate.

Alas, it is impossible for people to go back to the past. Living in a big yard, rice is delicious, and the days when chickens and dogs hear each other will never happen again. Society has indeed made progress. Sometimes, hiding on the balcony at night and looking at the distant sea is just like being in a tall building. There should be many people who are as confused as me, right? In the final analysis, people live more in pursuit of spiritual pleasure.

In my childhood, the world was a family.

My happiest memory comes from my neighbors in the alley, which is my childhood game years. Following my brother deftly through one complicated path after another, the lingering shouts were the assembly numbers of friends, and soon a group of dolls were saved in an open space. The so-called emptiness is about 5 square meters at most, but it is our childhood paradise. Cigarette brands, billiards and the Four Kingdoms War often appear there. Once, a friend stole a bottle of cooking liquor from the kitchen next door, and we tasted the burning excitement for the first time in our lives.

Today's high-rise buildings, although there is no mother-in-law gossip, adults' ears can be clean, but children's hearts are lonely. My child is only 3 years old, but all he knows is staring at the computer and watching colorful game software. I think when he grows up, his childhood memories must be more comfortable than ours, but not necessarily happier than ours. Neighbors may only remember his cold iron door with a cat's eye.

Now, I live in a two-family apartment with one staircase. Neighbors are very familiar with each other, but after closing the door, they have little contact. Perhaps with independent space, the right to privacy can be preserved, but the inner concerns of neighbors are also locked behind the door. Every city is actually the same. The times have progressed, the society has progressed, and people have become civilized, but the passion has disappeared forever. Modern cities are only warm and weak, which makes people feel lost.

Memory tongzilou

The tube-shaped building where I used to live was a three-story building. It turned out to be the guest house of the unit, and later it was distributed to cadres without houses, one for each family and one for each of the three families as kitchens. People on the first floor use a bathroom with two rows of faucets and a toilet with three squats.

Every morning, two rows of face-to-face faucets in the bathroom are crowded with people, just like military camps or university dormitories. Everyone just nodded to each other and had no time to say anything. They just brush their heads and wash their faces, and there is running water. The toilet next door is even more busy, because whoever goes first will occupy territory for the same sex, so our female compatriots usually put the washbasin in the bathroom after getting up and quickly enter the toilet to facilitate other sisters to come in one after another. I usually brush my teeth and wash my face while listening to the movement of the toilet. The female compatriots inside shouted "Who is coming?" I quickly put down my towel and ran over. After I went in, the talents inside came out, just like changing shifts. If this link is not well handed over and vacant, the women's toilet will become a men's toilet, and it will be difficult to change the dynasty.

Bathing in summer is a hassle. The tube-shaped building has been in disrepair for a long time, and the bathroom door has long since disappeared. Someone hung a curtain on the door. Because it is a public place, the frequency of use is too high. A few days later, the curtain either lay heroically on the ground and dipped in water, or sadly disappeared. After a long time, no one has the patience to hang new curtains. People come and go in the corridor, and people who cook after work shuttle back and forth in this corridor, taking a bath with the door open? Men, willy-nilly, turn on the tap and rush up, and our female compatriots will stay at home honestly. When it was dark, we were ready to start. A man standing guard outside temporarily froze the flow of people in the corridor. People inside are afraid to turn on the lights. Without curtains, there would be no curtains. They touched the black three and rushed to the ground, and some people wanted to come in.

Life in a tube-shaped apartment is semi-collective. After a long time, people in the tube-shaped apartment feel like a family. When I used to cook, I found that the food was out of salt when I put it in the pot. Xiaojin next to me conveniently handed her a salt shaker. Because it was so convenient, I even forgot to buy salt and soy sauce, which are indispensable anyway.

It's sad to live in a tube-shaped building in winter. In a small room, there is no place to install a coal stove. In the 1980s, there was a timely electric heater, which everyone used to keep warm. The power went out several times a night, and then everyone came out to see what was going on. Usually, the fuse will be blown. Some people hold flashlights, some people stand on stools to change fuses, and the rest look around. When the light came on, everyone went home at ease. It feels like everyone burned it together. My son was still very young at that time, and there was no room for a nanny in a house, so I had to send him to my grandmother's house. There are no children in my family, so there is no need to burn the electric heater. One winter was very cold, and the temperature in the room was 0℃. I am reviewing my lessons to prepare for the exam in the evening. I'm too cold to sit still. I turned on the tape recorder and danced disco to keep warm. Soon I broke out in a sweat and attracted all the children in the building. They pushed open the door of my house and squeezed their little heads to watch me dance. As soon as I waved, the children called Lala in. When I said that I would dance with me, the little guys all twisted up.

I have lived in an apartment for a long time. I have heating and gas, and I will never lose power again. Closing the door is your home's world, but opening the door is no longer lively. Even after living for several years, I don't know the neighbor's surname in the corridor. And now I dare not forget to buy salt and soy sauce. Even if I have dinner time, I am embarrassed to knock on my neighbor's security door for a spoonful of salt, so I have to turn off the gas and go downstairs to the market to buy it. At this time, I can't help but miss the tube-shaped apartment.