Did your family stop you from buying a house? What is the final result?

Yes, my husband's family has great objections, except that the husband and wife are silent (wait for us to give them money to buy a house first). In-laws take turns putting pressure on their husbands. At that time, there was a daughter, two sons of my uncle and brother. Her parents-in-law just said that her husband had secretly hidden money, but her family life was so difficult that she bought a house. If she is rich, she should honor her parents. In fact, my husband just started working at 2.3000 yuan, and most of his salary is for his in-laws. Every month, I have all kinds of excuses to buy big items and cars for my family. Every relative has to turn around, and my sister has to do business for a while, giving nearly 200 thousand to her in-laws (mostly borrowed from colleagues, friends and classmates) and never returning them. My husband is very frugal. When he worked in several big companies, he provided dormitory canteens at very low prices. During the holiday, he cooked a big pot of rice porridge with pickles and ate it all day (if I go back to see my in-laws, my family will say that the fare is very expensive, and I was shocked when my husband told me this). Later, I insisted on buying a house, and my in-laws and two little sisters-in-law began to set up husbands again. How much money do they have to buy a house? The house in Shenzhen is too expensive. How much is that city (also a first-tier city)? If you have money to buy a house, you should give it to your eldest brother in an orderly way (not by borrowing, but by "giving") and respect your brothers and friends. Your daughter will get married in the future, and you will rely on your nephew to support the elderly in the future (when we got married, my husband and wife planned to have two children, and I was drunk in 2 1 century). Finally, everything came out [picking nose] [picking nose] Babala. I smiled and told my husband that your nephew is separated from you by a layer, and your daughter is your own. It's up to you. Finally, I bought a small three-bedroom apartment. When we met again, the husband and wife never gave us a good look, and my in-laws and sister-in-law were also cynical from time to time. It doesn't matter, because Mr. Wang has completely seen through the essence of his family, and every month is living expenses, regardless of other expenses. Among his relatives, my husband and wife are already unfilial, heartless and unjust. I forgot my mother when I married my daughter-in-law. (My husband took care of all the money after marriage, so it was not so convenient for him to spend money at home. I saved money for two years at work and borrowed money to make a down payment. Every time his family asks for money, it is a matter of course. If it is unreasonable, they say they have no money. It's no use borrowing a penny from his family. At that time, it was still 70,000 to 80,000, and I borrowed everyone around me. I told his brother and his sister how much to lend us for an emergency. No, there is no money. His two sisters turned around and signed up for a one-month tour group. My husband hugged me and cried. In the past, he paid for the college living expenses and tuition fees of my two sisters. Even if I ask my husband for a lot of money every year after work, I still refuse to borrow it.

My husband refused to replace the third floor with the first floor with a yard, so I sold the third floor directly while he was away.

After my husband and I retired, we both came to live in the provincial capital where our son worked.

One day, my family went to my cousin's house. He lives in the same city as us. He is an individual owner. He just bought a big villa this year. Today we went to his house to see the decorated villa.

God, this is so extravagant!

There are four floors up and down. The first floor is the living room, dining room and kitchen. There are bedrooms and bathrooms with cloakrooms on each floor upstairs.

The first floor should be used for entertainment, including home theater, chess room, gym and so on.

What caught my eye most was his big yard. There were two fish ponds, the big one kept edible fish and the small one kept ornamental fish.

Then plant all kinds of fruit trees and vegetables.

We were surprised when we visited. When can we live in such a nice house?

After dinner, we went home

Of course, all the topics we talked about along the way were inseparable from the big villa.

Everyone wants to have it, but the current funds are far from enough.

It is not enough to sell all the original houses, including those in my hometown.

After coming back from my cousin's house, I think about the feeling of living in a villa every day, even dreaming.

But there is no way.

One day, I had a whim. Or buy one with a yard on the first floor. Although not as good as villas, at least we can grow vegetables, flowers and fish.

However, my husband is reluctant to sell such a good house. The sunshine is good, the apartment is good, and the decoration is good. He is determined not to sell it.

What should we do?

Well, let's try the price of this house online first, which is 65,438+10,000 more expensive than others. Do you think it's okay to hang it out and try the water?

"This is ok, but it can't be sold without my consent."

There are still many people coming to see the house. One night, another housekeeper, a young woman, was optimistic at that time and said that she would go back and discuss it with her husband.

The next day is Saturday. Early in the morning, the agent called and said that someone wanted to buy a house. In the afternoon, he would go to the agent for an interview and bring the real estate license.

As soon as I arrived in the afternoon, the agent called me to hurry.

When I arrived at the agency, I saw that the buyer was the little woman last night.

After we talked for a while, she began to bargain. Her exit really surprised me. No one has ever offered such a high price.

However, I pretended to be calm and said that I could not buy it at this price.

She said that they had an agreement at home, and it was unacceptable to exceed this price.

I said forget it. It happens that my husband is not at home today, and I can't make up my mind.

After that, I went out and prepared to go home.

At this time, the intermediary began to talk. Alas, this little money can't be discussed. I'll tell you what, the buyer adds 10 thousand and the seller subtracts 10 thousand, and that's all.

The buyer didn't say anything, and neither did I.

The intermediary quickly brought the contract for us to sign.

I said I can't be the master, and I'll wait until my husband comes back in a few days.

The young woman who bought the house said that she must sign the contract today and then pay the deposit.

I said, let me ask my husband.

The agent said, don't ask, just sign.

So I sold the house.

Call my husband when I go home and say I sold the house. My husband didn't believe me and said I was joking with him.

Then we bought a one with a yard on the first floor, planted vegetables and flowers, and have lived there for more than half a year. My husband likes it more and more, drinking tea in the yard and chatting for a long time.

Many people say that girls do not need to buy a house. I think girls need to buy a house more. It is more cost-effective than decorating or buying a car. Decoration, buying a car, these will depreciate, the house is value-added, is your personal property. No matter what your marital status will be, the house can at least support your body.

Fortunately, I bought a small house by mortgage before marriage, and I was lucky enough to enjoy the dividend of urban development without listening to what others said.

Yes, I plan to buy a house on 15. My cousin has been engaged in real estate accounting for more than ten years. My family asked me to ask her opinion. She told me not to buy it, saying that the bubble economy was a lie. Really young, just listen to her and say no.

/kloc-I still want to buy it in September of 0/6, and my sister asked me to ask her. As a result, she still advised not to buy it. This time, she didn't listen to her and bought it. If 15 she didn't say so, she would definitely buy it. By 16, the house price has doubled. Fortunately, she didn't listen to her, otherwise she would have bought it. So don't listen to others when buying a house, just buy it when you feel fit, because in this world, no one wants you to live better than him or her except your parents.

I bought a house for the first time and didn't tell anyone. My husband quietly paid the down payment, and then I told my family that it was useless to tell them because of my house, and I couldn't afford it. I can't make up my mind. The second time I bought a house, I sold what I bought for the first time, and then I bought it quietly. I am the kind of person who will tell others no matter what I do. This is the way to buy a house.

I want to buy a house before I get married

Husband doesn't agree because he needs to borrow money! I have no choice but to give up!

We have rented a house for five years, and the house price has quintupled. I feel that I can't afford to buy a house in my life!

Later, I lived in an old building in my unit for two years. It's hard to start your own business, but the company that just caught up with my husband two years later has a fund-raising room, which is quite cheap. We borrowed some money and bought a set. Later, we also brought money, paid back all the borrowed money, and paid off the loan five years later!

Later, I wanted to buy a house, but my husband naturally objected. I listened to him again. We watched the house price increase several times, and I could only sigh. Last year, my husband finally agreed to buy a house, and we bought a small square meter school district. Now it has caught up with the epidemic, and the increase is not big, but it is also a person in Fannie and Freddie. Although we have foreign debts, we also have motivation. Come on, work hard!

I hope everything goes well!

20 16 opened a shop in Shenzhen, and by the beginning of 20 18, it almost earned more than 600,000. I didn't know what to invest at that time, and I thought it was useless to deposit money in the bank. I just want to buy a house in our hometown in Chibi.

At that time, the house price in our city was just in the early 3000 s, so I discussed buying a house with my dad. I usually discuss everything with my father.

My dad directly disagreed, saying that there is a house in the city now, and what house to buy (the house in the city was bought by my dad in 2004, which is relatively shabby). On 20 16, my family built another suite in the country. Why do you want so many houses? Keep the money for business.

20 18, 10000 10. In October, my father and I raised funds together 100000, and we opened a 4s shop in Shenzhen in partnership with others. Unexpectedly, it closed down in May 20 19. In the first half of 2020, my father was ill for half a year, and my family was affected again.

As a result, the money I have now is not enough for the down payment of a house in our city. Now the house prices in our city are basically 5500 yuan a square.

If you spent 600,000 yuan on two suites in 20 18, they have all appreciated to 1 10,000 now. Now that the money is gone, I can't buy a house.

Tell me about my family's buying experience.

It was my husband who wanted to buy a house, and I stopped him [smile]

My home is a small four-tier city more than 200 kilometers away from the capital. Although it is a bit famous, it is poor under the hat of a tourist city, but the house price is still very high. The price of a better area in the urban area is more than 10 thousand yuan per square meter.

My family of three lives in a multi-storey building of 146 square meters, which is already very good in a small city like ours, so I never thought about buying a house again. Maybe I'm not born to invest!

In 20 17, house prices all over the country are ready to move. My husband actually asked me to buy a house a long time ago, and I didn't agree. At that time, I felt that the house I lived in was big enough and my savings were not enough to buy a bigger one. The most important thing is that money is the safest (covering your face).

Although I opposed buying a house, I didn't stop it too much. Just after quarreling with him, I threw his salary card back to him and said that I would make a clean break with him financially (it's silly to think about it now, and I will never come back if I give it back to him [tears]) ... Since then, my husband has been anxious to choose a house to see. He is optimistic about the second-hand houses in the old city. During that time, he kept telling me where to look at the house and what the price was.

Finally, I chose a second-hand house of more than 60 square meters, not far from the school where my children go to school. On the first floor, I quickly completed all the formalities and transferred the ownership. During this period, my husband was running around, and I didn't care about anything, so that I can't remember how much * * * spent, which is about 378,000.

We chose this second-hand house mainly because it is close to the children's school. For the convenience of children going to school, we moved to this second-hand house for a year. Later, when the children boarded in high school, we rented this house. Later, as we all know, until 20 19, house prices kept rising, and my wise husband decided to sell the house [covering his face].

It took three years to buy a house, rent it and sell it. Finally, it sold more than 500,000 yuan and earned about100,000. Up to now, my husband always says, can you listen to me and buy a house? Where else did you get thousands of dollars for you ... but what I want to say is that it has been three years! Give me back my pay card! That's my [laugh] [laugh] [laugh]

I decided to buy the first suite directly when I was single! When I bought the second suite after marriage, I met the child's father's block!

I bought the first house in Yanjiao early, spent a little money early and brought me some bonuses. Now I rent it! After three or four years of marriage, I told my father that if I took out a loan in that lot and bought another place, it would appreciate. He said he had a house, and I didn't have to buy it anymore, which increased the pressure on my life, and then I gave up! I regret it!

I live in Beijing, and I can't even think about 8 million houses around me! Five years ago, I had the impulse to buy a small house in my hometown county. My parents asked them to come to my hometown Yanjiao, but they didn't come. I think my hometown is close to the county seat. When they grow up, we will be far away. The county town is convenient to the hospital supermarket, and the hometown can take care of their vegetable garden and cats and dogs from the county town 15 km!

This is a good idea of mine. I told my dad that I would make a small investment and buy a small house in the county, but I didn't tell my parents to live there! He is directly against it! It's useless to say that the county can have any development investment!

I was so angry that my pig teammates opposed it again! This is respect for you! I bought another set without listening to me, and lost a considerable price difference! Selling it will make life better now! I don't need you to pay a penny for the house sister in the county this time! Please pull over! (After all, the room is cheap and you can also install luxury, hahaha)

I asked for leave directly to see the house and took an eight-hour bus ride. I chose a second-hand house which is more convenient from the hospital supermarket. The first time I saw the first floor, I paid a deposit and signed a contract. There was something wrong with the intermediary. Originally, he was a summer property, but the contract was the seal of another property. I told the truth when I found out. He registered a second-hand house himself, but he didn't start a business. I'm not worried about giving up, afraid of being cheated! The second time I went to another agency, a girl took me to see the house. I was satisfied with the location and floor, but after a few minutes I decided it was a good location. Running around is too far!

Going again is to take the father of the child to sign it. If he doesn't leave, just ask him, do you sign the property or divorce! Obey! It takes 10 days from the idea to the procedure! In this way, I bought two sets of worthless houses in the county, and the most embarrassing thing is that my parents still don't live! Alas!

When I bought it, 230 thousand was enough for the old couple to live in. When I asked the year before last, it rose to 300 thousand, and I made a little money. Unexpectedly! Although it didn't cost much to buy two houses, the profit is good, which is a little confidence that I can do it! I am ambitious. It's no use spending money with dad! Although the property income after marriage is the same, I have never heard a complaint about the room I want to live in for my parents, no matter how big or small! Although we have a good relationship, he issues salary cards, but women must have their own self-confidence so that they don't panic when something happens! In marriage, I will not resign myself to fate!

Some people say that the house is used for living, and it is useless to have more, but when there is a spare room in urgent need, it can still be realized to solve the urgent needs of life! Although I am poor now, I am no longer worried about my future pension! It won't be a big burden for children in the future! Imagine that you can eat enough steamed bread when you are old, and occasionally you can drink a bag of milk and eat an egg to improve it!

Want to buy a house, whether you just need it or not, buy it when you are optimistic about the opportunity. Many people have different opinions! Good cities or good locations can only reduce prices!

Married for a few years, a little savings.

I never thought about buying a house because I moved into my husband's new house as soon as I got married. We just moved in when we got married, and the house was not fully heated.

At this time, my brothers and sisters all bought or built their own new houses. I visited their home and felt very good.

Compared with their newly bought house, ours is lagging behind. Although it is only a few years apart, it is still far behind.

My home is an old-fashioned structure, and there is no toilet. It's inconvenient to go to the toilet and take a bath. I often go to some distant public toilets to go to the toilet. When taking a bath, the woman washes in the bathtub in her room, and the man washes by the faucet downstairs.

A big house is not a good thing.

My house has a two-story structure, and the kitchen and living room are on the first floor. I didn't feel any inconvenience when I first got married. Others say that we live in a small building, which is quite enviable.

After having children, living in Xiaoyanglou is a kind of pain. The kitchen is downstairs. The child needs hot water. Go downstairs. Give the children some food and go downstairs. Running upstairs and downstairs dozens of times every day, my feet are soft, and it is not a good thing to have a big house at this time.

The house bought by relatives has all living facilities on the first floor. Life is so convenient, I feel that society is developing so fast.

Money will depreciate, and buying a house can preserve its value.

Father often tells us that it is useless to keep money, so it is better to buy a house, so I moved my mind to buy a house.

I count my savings from time to time to see what kind of house I can buy. I have seen all the small property houses, commercial houses and land, and I feel that I don't have enough money to buy a house I am satisfied with.

When my husband heard that I wanted to buy a house, he immediately said, "Just kidding, I have a house to live in. Why should I buy a house? "

He basically built the house. He put a lot of energy into transporting materials, purchasing sand and guarding the construction site. He was so tired that he was black and thin that he thought he would live here all his life.

There are too many sons living in Xiaoyanglou.

Actually, my in-laws have five sons. If the sons get married, the house will be crowded. Sons can't eat together all the time. They must have their own small family.

Although the house can continue to add stories, it is more conducive to family harmony for everyone to live separately. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty!

Moreover, the in-laws' houses are not our assets, and we have no autonomy. If we get married, we must start our own business and buy our own house.

Found the house.

After half a year, relatives have a suite for sale. The house is in the center of the city, the third row behind the street. It's quiet in the noise. 200 meters for primary schools and hospitals, and 500 meters for high schools. Life is convenient.

The structure of the house is also a rare good apartment, with lighting on all sides and good quality. This house is a fund-raising house. When it was built, several families made great efforts to supervise it.

The only drawback is that the floor is a little high, but the seller reduced the price at that time, so several families wanted to buy it, and the competition was fierce.

My husband and I joked that we could learn more about the scenery together. I didn't expect him to be more satisfied than me.

Break through the resistance and buy the house.

The price of this suite is within our affordability and meets my husband's psychological expectation. He is afraid of getting into debt. There is no pressure to buy this suite now. My dad always said that if you have money, you can buy a house. He thinks it makes sense. In this way, we decided to buy the house.

My in-laws were very unhappy when they knew that we were going to buy a house, but they didn't show it to me. My husband vaguely revealed their unhappiness, but I didn't care.

The consequences of buying a house.

When my brother-in-law got married, my in-laws asked us to make room for them to build a new house. We find it strange. The house has been designed and each son has a suite. Why is our house empty? Although we bought a house, we still have a copy of our in-laws' house.

My husband's office is near there. You can have a rest after work at noon or when it rains. The house is gone. Where can my husband rest?

We didn't agree to vacate the house, and my in-laws actually said that the house was no longer ours. We have never been red-faced with them. How could they do such a thing?

It turned out that our in-laws were very unhappy about buying a house, and my husband didn't tell me what they said. When my in-laws built the house, they chose an address close to my husband's unit. On the one hand, it is convenient for him to go to work, on the other hand, the land in this place is cheaper.

My in-laws have spent so much effort to build a house for us. I thought we could be with our son forever, but I didn't expect that we bought our own house and left them.

No wonder they didn't look at me until I bought a house and moved in.

My husband didn't really want to move there when he bought a house, just because he had the money to buy his own house. A year later, I gave birth to a second child, and my in-laws' house became smaller. At this time, the brothers are married, so many people eat together, which is very crowded. As the saying goes, distance makes beauty, and living apart is conducive to stability and unity, so I moved to a new home.

I bought this suite because of my perseverance, my wits and wits with my husband, and I took the risk of conflict with my in-laws. Later, house prices went up all the way, and I showed off from time to time. Husband and in-laws smiled and nodded in agreement.

There is a plan to buy a second house, but the house price is rising higher and higher.

The house price in the county is rising higher and higher, and I have been planning to buy a second suite, but the house has risen very fiercely, so I hesitated, and my husband said to wait until it fell.

In this way, in a blink of an eye, we will be in our forties and will not buy a house until we are 50. After that, it is even more hopeless to be bigger. At this time, relatives went to the city to buy a house. I looked at the price, which is similar to our county. Since the price is the same, buying a house in the city is definitely more cost-effective.

I found the information, started to prepare, and bought a house by accident.

I went there to have a look at the apartment, but my relatives didn't have a house I liked, so the matter was put on hold.

That day, my brother-in-law came back from the city to sell the house. He has a set in the city, ready to sell the county seat and live in the city for a long time.

I asked my husband to follow his brother. At that time, a relative of mine said that he knew a real estate suitable for people who didn't want to live permanently. My brother-in-law is going to buy another set in the city immediately after hearing about it.

In-laws are even angrier this time because of their resistance.

When my in-laws heard that we went to the city to buy a house, they were even more angry this time. Take it out on your brother-in-law They thought my brother-in-law took us to buy a house. This time, my brother-in-law was implicated, and my in-laws had no house. His in-laws told him to go back the same day. They can't live here.

When my parents first heard that we were going to buy a house in the city, they all said, "With so much money, I won't go to Beijing to buy a house."

However, my mother is more open-minded. As soon as she heard that we were going to buy a house in the city, she immediately asked my brother-in-law to go and have a look, which made our three families very satisfied and immediately paid a deposit.

The house was built more and more advanced, and this suite became a nursing home.

This house has taken a step forward. There are elevators, properties and mountain parks in the community, which is a good place for the elderly. After three or four years, the house has doubled again, and all three of us are laughing.

When my in-laws saw our house, they nodded and gave a thumbs-up sign.

Conclusion:

In fact, the old people don't want us to leave them, thinking that we won't take care of them when we buy a house.

Where parents are is also a concern of children. If we buy a house, we won't lose our feelings. Every holiday, we will go to reunite with our parents. If they have anything, we will call them immediately.

When children grow up, parents can only watch their backs drift away, but no matter how many houses they buy, no matter how far they buy, they will continue to be close. We will go to reunite with them every holiday. How reluctant our parents are to let us go, they hope their wings can shelter us from the wind and rain.

Now that we are parents, we know that even if parents are too reluctant, children will eventually take off. All parents can do is stand where they are and watch them drift away.