What changes have taken place in your relationship with your family, friends and colleagues after the epidemic?

In fact, the relationship has not changed, and the change is more about everyone's mentality.

Take my mother for example. My mother's previous life was characterized by being frugal and unwilling to buy anything. When the epidemic broke out, her old classmate died of cancer, and she couldn't even hold a funeral as usual. My mother has changed since that incident, and she is no longer obsessed with the psychology of "saving" and "buying later". Now as long as I see my favorite clothes and jewelry, I buy them for myself and cherish my life.

Moreover, my mother will never force me to do things I don't like, and my mind has changed a lot. For example, I didn't like to bring a lot of bags before traveling, for fear of distracting myself and losing things. But my mother doesn't think so. She thinks it will save money and keep me on the road. I often take four or five bags with me at the railway station. It almost killed me. After the epidemic, my mother forced me to say, "I'll mail it to you tomorrow." The old man's instant enlightenment made me feel that this epidemic really changed my mother's three views.

Then there are friends. Before the epidemic, we often got together to eat calories. Now we get together less, because after the epidemic, everyone seems to understand that family talents are the most important and should be taken seriously, so naturally more attention will be paid to family ties. But it doesn't mean that friends are cold. We are still in contact online.

Then there are colleagues. I think there are a lot fewer contradictions. Why, because working online, we can all reduce many unnecessary intersections. As we all know, colleagues are very complicated, so their hearts are bright. After working online, colleagues are more likely to handle the work simply.

Give another example of a friend. I remember when the epidemic broke out in 2020, my friend and her husband were about to divorce because of some contradictions. However, they caught up with the Spring Festival, and my friend took the children back to her parents' home. After that, the epidemic began just a few days after I returned to my mother's house, and many people were infected in my friend's city. At that time, my friends were particularly worried, because the neighbors were the objects of isolation, and I didn't know if I and my family were infected. I can't go shopping often, and the vegetable market has also been isolated. Several people in my family are very anxious.

Later, I heard that my neighbor was picked up by the hospital, and my friend was even more afraid. Surprisingly, my friend's husband came. At that time, he came here before the city was completely closed. Her husband said, "I know there is a virus here. I must be with you, so I can rest assured." It suddenly dawned on both of them that there was the rest of my life left in this marriage. I was very moved when I heard what my friend said. Later, the two never mentioned divorce again, and now they are very happy.

In fact, this epidemic has greatly touched every family, and we have learned to cherish life and understand each other. We also know how to better handle the relationship with the outside world. After all, life is too short to waste on intrigue. At the same time, we also want to thank those volunteers and medical workers who carry the burden for us. Without them, we can't live with such peace of mind and enjoy life so healthily.

So, now we are less angry and more grateful.