Someone in the family died naturally. What should I do first?

Someone in the family died, unlike in TV series, telling relatives and then going.

My father, at the age of 53, was diagnosed with terminal cancer. The doctor said there were only three months left. At most, my father stayed in his hometown for three months. Because I borrowed tens of thousands of dollars, I couldn't stay any longer and went out to work. At that time, we all told him that mentality was very important. Many people just don't think about anything, so good cells suppress cancer cells and finally defeat the disease. I don't know if his mentality is good.

In the first half of three years later, I began to feel weak, had no appetite to eat and often had diarrhea. Going to the toilet more often than drinking water, especially running to the toilet all night, leads to poor sleep at night, lack of energy during the day and particularly hot in summer. I feel weak after walking for a long time and want to sit down.

It was probably June+10 in 5438, and he felt that he really didn't have that strength. After sleeping for two days, I resigned and went back to my hometown. After returning home, he became thinner and thinner and didn't want to eat. His stool began to incontinence, so he used diapers. In the first half of the year, he didn't eat a bite and slept in bed. Once, he had to get up to keep warm. That night, my family cried. It's been half a year since we separated, and he's very upset. My brother is not married yet. He has just graduated for a year, and there is no extra money at home. When I was working, I paid back the borrower's money and directly sent 30 thousand. My dad thought that when he died, he used 654.38+0 million of it, and left the rest to my mother. He said that he had done his best in his life and could not leave anything behind. I will never forget it.

Later, on the ninth day of the first month, my mother asked my dad if he wanted to eat. When he was ready, he ran to my dad without talking or shaking his head. My mother felt something was wrong and called me over. When I look at it with a flashlight, my eyes are fixed and motionless, but my mouth is breathing in, and the sound is particularly loud. We realized that something was wrong and called my uncle and them at once. The old man said that before it was completely out of breath, I quickly changed the bath.

Birth, old age, illness and death are the five pains of life, and it is not easy to live after all. No one can escape the laws of nature.

People have to face countless rights and wrongs when they are alive, some of which are handled well, while others are at a loss, especially in the face of the normal death of their loved ones. I think the so-called normal death is caused by disease. Besides grief, you have to deal with the aftermath. If you die directly at home, you should first call the funeral home and ask them to take the body away, and at the same time call the funeral service to explain the situation. These service units will teach you how to do it.

My parents died at home, and so did they. In short, don't panic if something happens. If you are sad, you should first consider letting the deceased be buried first. In addition, if the cemetery is not booked in advance, you should also consider buying a cemetery. If you have financial difficulties, you can also suspend it. The ashes can be temporarily stored in the funeral home, which has this service.

Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, but when it comes to death, many people still have scruples, especially in cities. It is better to die in hospitals. It is easy to say that the elderly die at home, but it may be unclear that some children die at home. After all, this involves life safety issues. Because after death, it will involve funeral cremation, informing relatives and friends, and many other complicated things.

Once, our family had a baby who was born more than ten days ago and died at home. When it was sent to funeral home cremation, there was a problem. Without a death certificate, it is impossible to prove that it was a normal death rather than an external cause. So it took several days for the report and autopsy to be finally solved.

Some people who die in the city will be sent back to their hometown in the countryside for funeral, but most of them will be sent to the funeral parlour to spark, so a death certificate must be issued when cremation is carried out. If you die in a hospital, the hospital will issue a death certificate. If you are at home, the hospital will not open.

So how to deal with the death of a loved one at home is correct. If an ordinary old man dies, you can inform the property as soon as you confirm the death of your loved one, explain your name, room number and time of death to the property, let the property register well, and then you can go to the local street health service center to issue a death certificate. If there is no property management company, you can call the community neighborhood Committee to register them at the first time, and then go to the health service center. In fact, the purpose of property or neighborhood Committee registration is to have a basis for issuing a death certificate. If the staff says they can't prove that they died naturally at home, they can call the property and neighborhood Committee to verify.

The second way is to call 120 and ask the hospital to confirm that the time of death is at home. In this case, although it will cost a little money, the hospital will issue a death certificate after confirming the death.

There is another child, who died as mentioned earlier. After all, it's not as plausible as the old man said, so you should call the police at the first time and call the community police, who will come to the door to determine the time of death. Then go to the community health service center to issue a certificate, which happens to be a witness.

I think this is the first thing for my family to do after death, but many people ignore it in reality, which leads to a lot of trouble and many wrong ways to open the certificate, as long as the first step is done well. After the funeral cremation, inform friends and relatives and other things, just follow the normal process.

In more than four years, my family has lost three relatives, my father, my mother and my husband. Because my parents only have one daughter, from illness to death, I am the only one to support the elderly. Because when my husband was sick, the children were still young. From three years of illness to the final death, I was generally responsible for cooking.

Family members died normally, but in fact, relatives are basically ready. After the death of a patient, since he is a close relative, he should also let go of his grief. The first thing is to calm down first. Because birth, illness, death and illness are important events in life, you are the relatives of the deceased and the parties. You have to think about which relatives and friends to notify first, and what to prepare.

Every place has its own customs. If you don't do it well, many people will say "three down four" in the future. Therefore, at this moment, no matter how sad you are, you must endure it, or wipe your tears behind your back first, and definitely deal with the aftermath first.

People die at birth, which is an unchangeable natural law. Life will go through many hardships, Cang Sang, but the memory of life is still a constant emotion of human beings. The homesickness between life and death is tied to family ties. People who can't bear to leave forever, and those who can't let go dislike Yin and Yang. This is endless sadness.

No one can avoid the pain of where you will go. This is the most bitter of many hardships in life. In the face of this topic, some people downplay and some people are nervous. In fact, whether you are pessimistic or afraid, it is best to let nature take its course when you are alive. Don't live too much. The width of life is greater than the length. You know, there are still many people in this world who give their lives for righteousness, and their lives are essentially the same as ours.

The last thing to say is what to do in the first step after a normal death. This is a question of funeral custom, which contains China's traditional cultural thought. When someone dies in the family, the first thing to do is to exercise restraint.

Convergence is to safeguard human dignity. Although people are dead, they should try their best to make the dead lose their dignity. Bathing, shaving and wearing new clothes are indispensable. In our hometown, an old man died and wanted to put coins in his hand. The victim's belt was woven with several colors of cotton thread, as many as when the victim died. There are still many things to do after death, such as mourning relatives and friends in time, asking monks to fast, or crossing over and exploring the land of yin and yang by Taoist priests. These seemingly tedious things all reflect the traditional funeral culture. If you don't do it, the living will be uneasy and the dead will be miserable. Some things are really not superstitious. Doing it is better than not doing it. I don't know why the police came to us according to the rules.

When a person falls down, the first step is to turn his body into a head and rush to the west, cover his face with paper and press a small piece of pig iron on his chest. If you don't have to stay at night, future generations will take care of it in shifts to prevent cats and dogs from approaching!

If people close to home are around, they will buy anything, and everyone will put on new clothes before leaving.

In that country, the first part is to empty the main house and put the dead in the middle of the main entrance. Then there is the offering of the incense table.

The second part is that the youngest generation of the deceased in the family went to the Chenghuang Temple to report to the temple (we call it the temple).

The third is that all the gods in the family are made of white paper. The saying in the countryside is that if there are gods at home, the dead will be banned from entering!

The fourth is to inform the neighbors in the village to help with the funeral the next day.

Fifth, inform relatives in other villages to come to pay their respects, stop for four or five days, dig graves in the morning and bury them at noon. ...

Call it one-stop service. If you don't understand, he will help you solve the problem. Send someone to the funeral home and then go to the police station to issue a certificate to cancel the account for cremation. Take out the money in the bank card in advance to cancel the account and make more death certificates.

Now let me talk about my mother's natural death and my personal experience. My mother died of natural causes on the night of September 24th, 2009 1 1. At that time, my fourth brother and I put her in a room as a doorbed, and then informed menstruation and my sister-in-law to come and put a shroud on my mother. Then, set off firecrackers. Notify all relatives before dawn. After the relatives arrive, they will bid farewell to the last journey and be cremated. Finally, it was buried with the help of the whole village and fellow villagers.

This question is a bit sad.

If an old man dies at home, we need to change the shroud, notify our relatives, tidy up the room, put away all the paintings, make the bed and bedding, dress the old man and carry him out, set off firecrackers, notify the village leaders, bow down to them, inform their elders of their death, and invite them to come and arrange the funeral. This is our hometown.