Is it more tiring to take care of children at home than to go to work?

I vaguely remember reading a small composition written by primary school students on the Internet. It's about my mother taking care of herself and my brother at home. Dad came home from work and lost his temper when he saw the toys he was playing with his brother in a mess. He blamed my mother for what she did at home, why she didn't take care of the children, the housework and the family, and complained that my mother did nothing at home.

The next day, when my father came home from work, he saw that the clothes and bowls were not washed, the toys were more messy, the children were dirty, the urine bags were all over the floor, and the TV was turned on too loudly. There is no better word to describe this family than "messy" ... Dad asked his mother loudly: What are you doing at home? Mom said, no, I just didn't do anything.

Coincidentally, I am also very happy to mention Erbao this year and become a father again. Because Dabao didn't have good company and care around him, but now Bauer has been with him. When I was on maternity leave, I witnessed with my own eyes how my wife took care of the family and children.

Because it is a caesarean section, it is more harmful to the body. You can't turn over at will, and you need someone to take care of you all the time after you leave the hospital, but Ma Bao is not alone, and the baby also needs the care of his mother. I feel better later, but I need to get up every two or three hours to feed my baby every night. I saw Ma Bao dozing off several times, so I had to put the child on my back and let Ma Bao have a good rest. Therefore, the mother needs to endure physical pain and fatigue, but she still needs to take care of the baby strongly. This is much worse than Mabao without "milk".

Later, my mother took maternity leave at home, just like the housewife you said. At this time, we are faced with another problem, that is, how to take care of or take care of Dabao. Dabao is 6 years old, just in the first grade, and doesn't want to sleep by himself. I can't sleep alone with Dabao because I have to take care of my mother and Bauer. Besides, Dabao and Bauer are closer to their mother, which is understandable by most families. Children are more willing to listen to their mothers. So our family of four are all crowded into one room. Every night, my left hand gave me two treasures of milk, and my right hand began to teach Dabao to talk and sleep, so that I could go to class in a better spirit the next day.

So housewives are also very hard. Her hard work mainly comes from taking care of her family, including taking care of her children, educating them, helping them with their homework, washing and cooking, doing housework, tidying up their food, clothing, housing and transportation, and helping their fathers solve their worries ..... They will continue to educate their children to take care of their children at night, and they are basically busy in circles all day. Their work intensity and mental stress are also great, which cannot be compared. So we men understand the hard work of mothers with children. We really don't have much time, but we shouldn't compare the work situation.

We are all family, so we shouldn't share you and me. We should understand each other, unite as one and live in harmony.

I am also an IT major, majoring in computer science and technology, and my direction is programming. But it's not a professional job yet. But understanding the so-called 996 work, comparing the work needs, customer needs, temporary overtime, often because customers need to change overtime.

Although I'm not IT or 996, I'm still working from nine to five, but my work is also stressful and has tasks. Which job is good for work and leisure? However, I also spit on my mother when I go home every day, but it's just some trivial things at work, not blaming anyone. It means that we can share the pressure of work with our mother and talk about this topic every day. This is also a way to release stress, and it can also let our mother know about her work in one day, which can promote feelings and relationship between husband and wife. Isn't life like this?

Because if you live with emotions, it will affect your work; Similarly, if you are emotional at work, taking it home will also affect your family life.

Through being a father again this time, I really deeply realized that being a father is easy and being a good father is really not easy. So every time I see mothers talking about how hard it is to take care of their children, as a man, I won't go back, and I understand psychologically.

I hope our male compatriots can understand every precious mother! Especially mothers who need to support and understand their children! ! I hope my sharing can make you know more about all mothers, especially the mothers of your children.