Husband said: My mother needs 65,438+10,000 yuan for surgery urgently, so hurry to get the money. Otherwise, what should I do?

Marriage is the combination of two people, and the marriage relationship is based on love, time and feelings. When women treat their feelings, they are often very emotional and persistent, and always simply hope that someone can only love themselves.

In reality, there are always some men who are selfish. Not only in their social life, but also in their marriage life, they always have a view of love and marriage that ordinary people can't understand. These "Phoenix Men" are basically selfish in nature. For them, the help of others is taken for granted, and moral kidnapping has become a common occurrence for them.

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Changde is a complete Phoenix man. His natural and ambiguous ways personally ruined his marriage. Changde's family conditions are not very good. His hometown is in rural Shandong. But Changde himself worked hard enough and studied hard since he was a child. When he was admitted to a university, he was admitted to a university in a first-tier city. It is also because in this school, Changde met his wife Wan Ting. Speaking of it, Wan Ting first met Changde in a basketball game at school. Although the same major, but not in the same class.

Changde's basketball skills are particularly good, which instantly attracted the attention of many girls, including Wan Ting. After that, Wan Ting will go to Changde to watch every basketball game. She also handed Changde water for the first time at the instigation of her roommate. It was also at that time that she wanted to get the contact information of Changde. Changde usually doesn't talk much, but every time she talks to Wanting, she is always polite, giving Wanting a feeling of being a particularly gentle gentleman.

Over time, Wan Ting fell in love with Changde. At that time, she also volunteered.

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When two people are together, Changde rarely tells Wanting about the situation at home. Wanting didn't feel too cheap when she saw the clothes and shoes that Changde was wearing. Wanting thinks Changde's family conditions should be similar to her own. They have been in love for more than a year, and Changde has never surprised her. Every time during the Chinese New Year holiday, Changde will give her some cheap trinkets.

However, Wan Ting was particularly generous to Changde. Although Wan Ting's family conditions are relatively good, her parents' living expenses are relatively limited. In order to buy a mountain bike for Changde, Wan Ting specially went to work in a tea shop, hoping to give him a surprise on Changde's birthday.

After their graduation, Wan Ting also went everywhere to help Changde in her career, helping him to expand interpersonal relationships and help him introduce customers and pull resources. Wan Ting was well protected by his parents since he was a child, so he was kind-hearted and simple-minded. The longer two people fall in love, the more Wanting loves Changde. She especially wants to get married soon. Even though she knows that Changde's family conditions are not good, she still wants to be with the person she loves for life.

So that when Wanting introduced Changde to his family, the family strongly opposed their marriage. Wanting's brother thinks Changde is too ambitious, and his idea with his sister is definitely not simple, but Wanting loves Changde deeply. Under her insistence, they got married smoothly, and Changde lived a superior and comfortable life by marriage.

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It didn't take long for their family to encounter a crisis. Wanting's mother-in-law was sent to the hospital because she loved to eat a lot of fried food, but she was found out very early. The doctor said she had a good chance of recovery. However, to do heart bypass surgery as soon as possible, the cost of surgery is about10,000, but Changde himself has no savings, because most of the money spent after marriage is from Wanting, not to mention that he has not paid the mortgage. The pressure of car loan is almost the same every month, and he has spent all his money.

This time Changde is still the same as before. He asked for money directly. He said: "My mother needs100000 for bypass surgery next week. I don't have any savings here. Please find a way to get me 10 million yuan! "

Wanting felt particularly speechless, because Wanting was responsible for all the expenses at home, and now her mother-in-law has to pay for the treatment of her illness. Wanting felt unfair, and she refused on the spot: "I work so hard every day. When did you think about me? Besides,100000 yuan is not a small sum. Why do I have to pay for your work for so long? How can you not save any money? " Besides, I am responsible for all the expenses of daily life. How can I give you100000? "

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However, Changde ignored her and said directly, "You have no money, but your parents have always had money. You can take money from your parents. Their business is so good that100000 yuan has no pressure on them at all. This money should be from them. "

Wanting heard Changde say this, remembering that when they got married, their parents had already paid 300,000 yuan down payment for them to buy a wedding room, not to mention Wanting didn't ask her husband's family for a bride price. But now Wanting found that Changde never knew how to be satisfied, thinking that his parents had squandered all their money. Later, Wan Ting couldn't bear it any longer, and loudly scolded him and said, "You are so greedy. My parents earned all their money. "

After they had a big quarrel, Wan Ting ran back to her mother's house in a rage, but when she returned to her mother's house, she found that her parents and their friends had agreed to go to Europe for a few days. After she calmed down for two days, she decided to help her mother-in-law.

Seize the opportunity. After all, life is a matter of life.

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I didn't expect Chengde to see his father-in-law's circle of friends traveling in Europe. He called Wan Ting directly and vowed: "My mother needs100000 for surgery, and her parents-in-law are now traveling in Europe. Does that make sense? Do you have a conscience? Tell them to call the money quickly, or we will divorce! "

Originally, Wanting still had a glimmer of hope for their marriage, but now Changde's words completely chilled her. Wanting said, "Let's get a divorce. We have been together for so many years. What have you done for me? What have you done for my family? All you know now is moral kidnapping. Have you ever taken responsibility as a husband? Don't worry about such a marriage, divorce! "

Wanting didn't compromise this time because she was already disheartened. It's a pity that Changde still didn't realize what his mistake was. Changde thought he could get a large sum of money even if he got divorced, but he didn't even get half of the house because he didn't leave the house at the beginning, which had nothing to do with him. Now Changde regrets divorcing his wife with such good conditions.

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For the marriage of two people, both sides have the obligation to support their parents, but there is nothing they can do for such a man who morally abducts the other parents to pay for his mother's medical expenses. To put it bluntly, golden phoenix, such a Phoenix man, flew out of the henhouse and thought that his other half's parents had an obligation to give money to their parents. Phoenix man like this, no matter how good a woman he meets in the future, will be kidnapped and destroyed by his stupid filial piety and ambiguous morality.

Therefore, for women, no matter how much they love this man, they should always think clearly before deciding to get married. After all, marriage is a lifetime thing, and a woman's view of love may be the so-called poverty alleviation in the eyes of Phoenix Man. A rotten person is a poison. After tasting it, it will make you addicted, get yourself deeper and deeper, and finally hurt yourself. Therefore, when a woman finds out that the man she loves is a rotten person, she should be hard on herself, and stopping loss in time is the greatest protection for herself.