Some things that shouldn't have happened with my aunt who divorced in the same community were mainly because she was too attractive and both sides volunteered. What should I do?

First of all, the age gap is an insurmountable gap. Secondly, it will make the divorced aunt worse.

It is recommended to leave immediately, which is not harmful to people. Legal link: Article 8 of the Marriage Law requires both men and women who get married to register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Those who meet the requirements of this law shall be registered and issued a marriage certificate. Getting a marriage certificate is tantamount to establishing a relationship between husband and wife. Those who have not registered for marriage shall re-register.

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Psychological analysis of derailment

First, psychological compensation

Some people are lonely because of the separation of husband and wife (the wife is pregnant), or because one of the husband and wife has physical defects and is not satisfied physically, or the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, or the husband's sexual needs are too strong for the woman to meet, so they take the initiative to find a third party or are willing to accept compensation from a third party, thus forming an extramarital affair.

Second, lack of emotion.

Some lovers finally fail to get married, and both parties get married separately, or after one party gets married, the other party still secretly loves the other party. When one partner's life is difficult or the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, the other partner feels that he still owes the other partner's affection, so he takes the initiative to throw himself into the arms of his old lover, and the old love rekindles and produces an extramarital affair.

Third, greed.

Some people covet each other's money, regardless of their own personality, and take the initiative to commit themselves to each other in exchange for a few copper coins, thus forming an extramarital affair.