How to deal with annoying neighbors?

0 1 Make neighbors aware of the problem. Of course you know your discomfort, but if you don't tell your neighbors about this problem, they may not know that they have caused you trouble. When you are anxious or even angry, your neighbors just lead a normal life. Don't think they are so rude on purpose. All you have to do is knock on the neighbor's door, then introduce yourself and tell them your problem.

Put forward your request politely and express your views clearly. Don't speak too tactfully, and don't let the other person guess your intention, and directly explain your purpose. You can't expect others to read your mind and know the limits of your patience. It's unfair to them. You need to tell them what you want.

Willing to compromise. Although the neighbors may agree with your request that the children will no longer practice tuba at home, it is a bit unrealistic for you to ask them to soundproof the garage. Choose things that are more likely to arouse their sympathy, such as you can't sleep at night because of the noise, and so on. Don't rush in and ask them what to do, but tell your neighbors your troubles and show an attitude of wanting to discuss solutions. This will have a greater chance of success.

Only when necessary, do you choose to communicate by language. If you can't see your neighbors, you can convey your request by note or email. But this method has certain risks. A note can easily be misinterpreted as an offensive message. In other words, if you can't talk face to face with your neighbors, leaving a note is sometimes your best choice. Most people will be a little embarrassed in this situation and will correct their behavior immediately according to your requirements.

The tone of writing a note must be gentle. Tell your neighbors that you are willing to discuss a solution that suits everyone.

If you don't mind, you can write your phone number on a note and ask your neighbor to call you. In this way, no matter what kind of questions the neighbors have, you can answer them immediately.

Select key points. Don't give your neighbor a long list of problems to solve, it won't work. Think about what you can tolerate and what you must change. Just tell your neighbors the questions that drive you crazy. After the big problems are solved, you can deal with the small problems slowly or learn to be patient.

Remember, what bothers you most is not necessarily the easiest to change. If they say your problem is too difficult to solve, consider changing it to an easier one.

Offer to help. For some requirements, if you can help, your neighbors may be more willing to cooperate with you. For example, if you like a clean and tidy yard, and your neighbor's yard is full of weeds in summer, then you can take the initiative to help them clean the yard.

Even if you can't solve this problem, offering help can give neighbors some time to respond to you or make them more willing to cooperate with your request. For example, if your neighbors don't have time to repair the broken engine muffler because they have to use the car all day, you can give them a ride or run errands for them occasionally.

Many people get angry when they encounter this situation, saying that they have no money to solve the problem. No money or money to help them hire people.

05 continue to follow up. Give the neighbors enough time to solve the problem. Small problems may only take a few days to deal with. You need to give them more time for big problems that take a long time, such as building a house. If they haven't done anything, remind them politely. If they take action, thank them or send some snacks, they will be more willing to cooperate with you.

If the same problem occurs next time, stop and think about the appropriate response. If the neighbor still plays loud music every night, you can complain again. If they have been quiet for several weeks and suddenly quarrel over a birthday party, you'd better put on earplugs and let them indulge once a year.

Keep in touch with your neighbors in the future, even if you just wave and say hello. If you often disappear and only appear when there is a problem, then your neighbors may not want to listen to you.

Ask other neighbors for help. If the "bad" neighbors show no signs of improvement, you can try this method. If a problem affects you, it will certainly affect other people in this block or in this building. Talk to other neighbors and see if they are willing to sign the "bad" neighbor's letter again. Many hands make light work. Sometimes bad neighbors will give in when they deal with problems together instead of alone.

This doesn't mean that you and other neighbors should rush into a bad neighbor's home or apartment. This will make the scene out of control and make the neighbors feel threatened. Even if it is just a joint email, it may make the other party feel that "everyone is against them."