Guo real estate

"The most sinister thing in the world is the human heart. The evil of animals lies in survival, and the evil of human heart lies in greed. The living have a cure, and the greedy have nothing. "

The evil of human heart lies in greed.

Of the "five poisons" of Buddhism, greed, anger, stupidity, slowness, doubt and "greed" rank first.

The so-called greed is simply insatiable demand and ignorance.

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At present, some men who were born in poverty and stayed in the city through studying have been labeled as "Phoenix Men" and have been criticized.

There is a saying, heroes don't ask the source, princes must have descendants.

But why are these poor "Phoenix Men" rejected? The root cause is the word "greed".

My friend, Ms. Guo (pseudonym), has a deep understanding of this, because she and "Phoenix Man" have been married for three years, and they also raised a daughter together.

Ms. Guo's family is well-off. When she was in college, her parents bought a small apartment and put it in her name.

After graduating from college, she met the "Phoenix Man" by chance. Since then, great changes have taken place in her smooth life.

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"Phoenix Man" comes from an unknown town more than 1000 kilometers away. His mother died two years ago, and there are still his father and sister at home.

"Phoenix Man" is a handsome and knowledgeable man. He talked about Kafka, Wang Xiaobo and other famous Chinese and foreign scholars, which fascinated Ms. Guo, who liked literature since she was a child, and soon she could not extricate herself.

After more than a year of contact, Ms. Guo took the "Phoenix Man" home to meet her parents. Who knows, her parents, who have always loved her and obeyed her, actually opposed the communication between them.

In order to make Phoenix man retreat, his parents proposed to get married, but Phoenix man must have a wedding room in the local area.

In the local area, the down payment for a 100 square meter house is generally nearly 500,000. "Phoenix Man" has been working for six years, and he simply can't come up with so much money.

In order to get the consent of her parents, Ms. Guo decided to use her provident fund loan to buy a house.

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There is already a suite under Ms. Guo's name, but because it was purchased in full, it did not affect her. She bought a second suite with a down payment of 20%.

The down payment of the second suite is 300,000 yuan, which is all the savings of her and "Phoenix Man", plus a patchwork loan.

After buying a house, my parents have nothing to say. In addition, Ms. Guo also specially bought the house in a community close to her parents. "Phoenix Man" also repeatedly stressed that he would stay in the local development in the future.

This made parents agree to their marriage. After the parents nodded, they not only helped them decorate the house, bought home appliances, but also paid back all the money they borrowed.

After marriage, apart from the monthly mortgage, the two have no big expenses and often go back to their parents' home for dinner, but the "Phoenix Man" always says that the money is not enough.

Ms. Guo knows that Phoenix Man's hometown is renovating the house and often needs to get money back, so she will be stretched. So she begged her father to come forward and help Phoenix Man find a well-paid job.

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Under the operation of his father, "Phoenix Man" changed his new job, not only earning more than before, but also holding a certain position six months later.

After "Phoenix Man" gained a firm foothold, he called his sister-in-law who worked in his hometown county and arranged a leisure job.

Sister-in-law is introverted and inferior, and talked about a boyfriend in her hometown county. Boyfriend's mother never liked her rural background and always wanted to break them up. Not long ago, she finally got her wish and her boyfriend broke up with her.

After her sister-in-law came, she lived with Ms. Guo and her wife.

Ms. Guo feels very uncomfortable. Her sister-in-law is eccentric and indifferent to people. She often eats with three people. At first, she talked and laughed. After a while, her face turned black and she went back to her room without saying a word.

Ms Guo wondered, did she say anything out of line?

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One day, when the three of them were having dinner together, the "Phoenix Man" suddenly suggested that Ms. Guo take back the small apartment she was renting under her name and give it to her sister-in-law.

Ms. Guo was stunned and she was a little angry. This kind of thing "Phoenix Man" can obviously tell her privately, deliberately in front of her sister-in-law. What does this mean?

Nevertheless, Ms. Guo agreed. She didn't want to have an inexplicable "smelly face" in their sweet and harmonious world.

After her sister-in-law moved to the apartment, three things happened, which directly led to the precarious marriage of Ms. Guo.

The first thing is related to the property fee of the apartment.

The water and electricity property accounts of the apartment are all in Ms. Guo's name. Xiaoguzi lives alone, and the water and electricity costs are not much. Ms. Guo will help pay.

However, Ms. Guo certainly wants her sister-in-law to bear thousands of property fees every year. Who knows, this incident actually caused the dissatisfaction of "Phoenix Man".

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Ms. Guo knew that "Phoenix Man" and her sister-in-law had deep feelings, but she didn't expect "Phoenix Man" to turn against each other. Although the "Phoenix Man" mainly apologized afterwards, Ms. Guo was somewhat disappointed.

The second thing concerns my sister-in-law's new boyfriend. The property management of the apartment called Ms. Guo on the same day, saying that the downstairs residents reported that the bathroom ceiling was leaking. ...

Just at that time, Ms. Guo was near the apartment, and her sister-in-law didn't answer the phone. She took the manager into the house to check it out. Who knows, her sister-in-law and her boyfriend came back and ran into each other.

Before long, my sister-in-law broke up and wanted to die.

"Phoenix Man" came back to severely criticize Ms. Guo. It turns out that my sister-in-law has a strong vanity and told her new boyfriend that she bought the apartment herself.

Therefore, my sister-in-law blamed Ms. Guo for the breakup and thought that she had exposed the lie.

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The third thing happened when Ms. Guo was pregnant for 7 months.

At that time, Ms. Guo's mother's friend wanted to buy a house near the apartment. Her mother accompanied her to see the house and took her friends to the apartment to see the structure of the house.

I still love to call my sister-in-law, so my mother knocked on the door and went straight into the house.

Sister-in-law doesn't like talking to people, so she went back to her room after greeting. After her mother left, she cried and complained to Phoenix Man. She thought that Ms. Guo was selling the house.

"Phoenix Man" roared at the inexplicable Ms. Guo, saying that she was selfish and cold-blooded. ...

Because of these three things, Ms. Guo saw that she was not so important in the eyes of "Phoenix Man", at least not as important as her sister-in-law.

She began to feel a little cold.

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After the birth of her daughter, "Phoenix Man" has been telling Ms. Guo that since the two emotional failures, her sister-in-law has been somewhat inferior and depressed, and her mental state is getting worse and worse.

"Phoenix Man" said that my sister-in-law was very insecure and always felt that someone was going to kick her out of the apartment. ...

Later, "Phoenix Man" simply asked Ms. Guo to transfer the house to her sister-in-law.

Ms. Guo was shocked. She didn't expect such a thing to happen to herself. What she didn't expect was that one day "Phoenix Man" actually gave her an agreement.

"Phoenix Man" said that if she is heartless, regardless of her sister-in-law's life and death, then there is no need to continue this marriage; If she agrees to give the apartment to her sister-in-law, then everyone is still a loving family.

Ms. Guo burst into tears. She is not crying for the status quo, but for her original duty and blindness.

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"Phoenix Man" continued, which is more important, our marriage relationship or a small apartment? Is a complete family more important to our children, or is money more important?

"Phoenix Man" pushed his luck and completely awakened Ms. Guo.

In the eyes of "Phoenix Man", Ms. Guo signed her name on the agreement.

Later, the "Phoenix Man" repented and refused to break up, but Ms. Guo gave up and, with the support of her parents, drove both her brother and sister out of the house.

Today, Ms. Guo's daughter is 3 years old. The "Phoenix Man" who was unemployed at the beginning, with the property allocated, didn't know what to do. She didn't even give her daughter monthly support.

The evil of human heart lies in greed, and greedy people can do nothing. For those greedy "Phoenix Men", the best way is to stay away.

Of course, it's not that all "Phoenix Men" are bad, but marriage is very important for women. Never gamble on probability, and never overestimate love and underestimate the evil of human heart.

The world is in Fudan and human feelings are mysterious.

May you see all this clearly, too.