How terrible is the viciousness of adults?

My neighbor Sun Jia has an old mother with my surname, so I call her sister! After many years, every time I pass by her door, I still feel scared!

The elder sister-in-law married into the Sun family and gave birth to two sons. When she was 45, her husband died! Never remarried!

The eldest son grew up and married a wife. The youngest son is twenty-five years old and still single. For this matter, the old lady has been anxious!

Two years later, the eldest daughter-in-law gave birth to her grandson Yang Yang. Because of family difficulties, the eldest son and daughter-in-law all went out to work! Grandson Yang Yang follows grandma!

Gradually, the great-grandson Yang Yang grew up! Thirteen years old! The eldest daughter-in-law is pregnant again and gave birth to twins! Need to go home for confinement!

After all, thirteen years have passed, and the old lady is not as flexible as before! Many things can't be done. The eldest daughter-in-law is becoming more and more dissatisfied with her. Find fault with her every day and think that she is idle and doesn't work. Even Yang Yang, who got 13, listened to his mother. One day, she even picked up a pear as big as a fist and smashed it into her elder sister-in-law's heart. Sister-in-law was over 70 years old at that time, how could she stand this blow, plus she was so angry that she almost fainted!

Half a year has passed! The eldest daughter-in-law doesn't give the old lady a good look every day, which adds insult to injury. Sometimes, she doesn't give her food! One day, the old lady walked around the village all afternoon, and visited every road and bridge in the village! We don't understand why.

The next morning, bad news came! Elder sister-in-law committed suicide by drinking pesticides at night! It turned out that she lingered in the village, reluctant, hesitant to end her life!

The most vicious person I have ever met is my ex-husband. Anyone who knows our husband and wife knows that we have a good relationship because we have been classmates in high school for more than 20 years. But suddenly I found out that he was cheating on me. I immediately asked for a divorce. He doesn't agree with me anyway. Finally, for the sake of my child and my heart, I really gave him two choices: first, divorce and find someone outside; The second is to clean up with the outside and go home. If you need money, I will give it to you no matter how much. As a result, after a while, he told me that the woman didn't want people or money, and they broke up and never saw each other again. As always, we are all doing well. After half a year, I heard that the woman was married, and soon I heard that the woman had a child, so I was relieved. But one day, I found out that he had gone to find that woman. When someone asked him, he said he would do her a small favor. I left a mind's eye and went to check the woman's marriage partner. When I checked, it was amazing that that woman's "husband" was actually his brother-in-law, who was 17 years older than that woman. Someone is going to ask. What's the problem? The problem is that his brother-in-law cheated, divorced his sister, went out for a while, and then went home to live with her sister. The woman and her brother-in-law got a marriage certificate. As you can imagine, this is purely a fake marriage. The baby must belong to my ex-husband. Please comment, is such a man vicious? Married, avoiding me, occupying the outside. As a result, I just know to leave him in minutes and let him go out clean.

A person's malice can turn people into wild skeletons and ghosts.

Last month, something happened in the village next to us, which sounded very worrying. The body of a villager's wife was found deep in Dabie Mountain. The police found us here according to the identity information in the package she carried with her. It has been almost five months since she disappeared at the beginning of the year. Her funeral was very simple. There are no firecrackers, no drum music and no Taoist chanting. The family of the deceased seems to be hiding something on purpose.

There is no windtight wall in the world, and I soon learned the truth of this tragedy from other villagers: the deceased surnamed Li, who was married to the village next to us from other places, was gentle and honest, and was particularly hard-working. He worked with her husband for many years and worked hard to save hundreds of thousands. A relative of our family borrowed 0.2 million/200 thousand from them because of the urgent need for turnover, and agreed to repay the principal and interest within three months.

Near the Spring Festival, the husband and wife want to ask relatives for money. As a result, the other party did not show up and did not answer the phone. Li had an argument with another family and was beaten on the spot. That's not all. After Li's father-in-law heard about this incident, he also beat Li, who went home in a mess. Some villagers witnessed their stool legs being smashed, and Li's husband was indifferent.

Afterwards, Li Yue became more and more angry. With only 7,000 yuan left in her hand, she simply packed her luggage and ran away from home. The family never tried to find her until they received the death report notified by the police, and they didn't know what happened to her. On the day of the funeral, Li's sister knelt in the middle of the funeral road in white. The scene is very sad. The next day, she announced that Li's husband and her husband were in court.

Paying off debts is a matter of course. Even if you are really in trouble, you should show up and leave a message to discuss with your creditors. What's more, you are a relative of your family. If you don't agree with each other, you will get hurt. How despicable. You were bullied outside and beaten by your unreasonable father-in-law Whether physically or psychologically, it is beyond a weak woman's endurance, especially her husband's inaction, which has become the last straw to crush her. I really don't understand!

Speaking of the cruelty of adults, it reminds me of a story told by a friend.

My friend's grandmother loved her the most before her death, and she would keep anything delicious for her, sometimes a handful of fried peanuts, and sometimes a candy that melted and could not be opened. .......

Grandma always gives her what she thinks is the best, even if it is something that is common or even humble in our eyes.

Grandma was still picking up rubbish outside when she was 80 years old. Before dawn, she went to the streets to pick up cans, wiped each can clean with a handkerchief and put it in a small bag behind her.

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Once, my grandmother sold the cans she had saved for many days to a passerby who collected waste. My grandmother can't read, and the collector asked, "Old lady, how much do you want?" ?

Grandma lowered her eyebrows and whispered, "Whatever you want!" !

A lot, give a dollar!

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After a long time, I went to see my grandmother in the summer vacation. She walked quickly to the back room like a child. I followed her in and saw something wrapped in a washed white handkerchief.

Watching grandma carefully unveil the veil layer by layer like a treasure. ........

"Girl, grandma is rich, I'll keep it for you. Take it! " !

Grandma's muddy eyes are shining with surprise at the moment. ........

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My friend's eyes turn red when his nose is sour.

"That dollar, which my grandmother treasured, is actually a dollar of iron!" !

After listening to my friend's speech, I just feel stuffy in my chest and can't breathe. The viciousness of adults is far beyond our imagination.

The following is my personal experience.

I remember that in the third year of high school, the school held a unified adult ceremony for everyone, announcing that we had entered another stage of our lives as "adults". Everyone was very happy and excited on the day of the adult ceremony, but it was quickly covered up by the pressure of the college entrance examination, and the next day it entered a dull and tense preparation stage.

After going to college, I study, participate in club activities and get together with friends. My life is simple and beautiful. Every time we fill in the age information, our dormitory suddenly realizes that we are not only an adult, but also in our twenties.

Compared with those peers who entered the society early, we are more simple or "naive" under the protection of the ivory tower in the university. I know that society is cruel, but I haven't personally realized that I am about to graduate, and my heart is still full of hope and longing to step into society.

We know that there is no lack of deception and malice in the adult world, but we always naively think that it can be avoided as long as we are careful. In fact, as a vicious and cheeky adult, it is too easy to cheat, especially those young people who lack social experience.

After graduation, I decided to go to Guangzhou alone, hoping to leave a hard-working figure in this city.

The first is renting a house, which is actually a job. These are the two major problems that I have to solve at present. I've been reading the rental strategy for a long time on the Internet. What can I say? I know eight things and seven things, but I still don't know anything. I haven't been to Guangzhou, I don't know Guangzhou, and all kinds of online rental information make me dizzy. In addition, staying at home for a long time is not the way, so I decided to take action first. After all, there is no way out after crossing the bridge.

Later, the news that there was a house for rent on a certain flap caught my attention:

During the conversation, I learned that he was a second-hand landlord and was wary. In order to gain my trust, he also sent me his personal ID card.

The basic situation is: the monthly rent is 1 100 yuan, and the 50 yuan management fee is 0/0 minute away from Panyu Dashi D subway/kloc-0. The room is on the fourth floor, with an elevator and a place to dry clothes. They have someone to take it to the subway station for free. Moreover, WeChat video has seen the house, and the most important thing is to be able to stay in short rent for one month! ! ! Because after that, I have to consider the place of work and decide where to rent a house. After repeatedly confirming that there was no extra charge, I began to buy tickets to Guangzhou.

They sent someone to pick me up, and their attitude was excellent. After driving for a long time, through several alleys, I arrived at the dark village in the city. The location is different from what WeChat sent me! ! ! It's too far from the subway entrance. They said don't worry about it. Someone will pick it up in the future. I saw the house on the sixth floor, not the one I saw before! ! ! But those who went up the stairs, I wonder if they said there was an elevator. They said it was being repaired recently. It's ok to look at the room, and besides, it's getting late, and I still have a pile of luggage. I think I'll stay for a month or make do with it.

Paid 2200 yuan rent and 50 yuan management fee. When I signed the contract at night, I went to their office, and a bunch of gangsters were in it. 10 Early twenties. Later, I learned that they all came from Jiangxi to be second-hand landlords. The person in charge of the black intermediary told me that it is to buy two and get one free, and everyone has to pay 200 yuan management fee and 100 yuan short-term rental fee. After living for a month, they can move out of the house. They helped sublet it and refunded the deposit. There is only one room left in our apartment 100. Everyone pays in this way, and it makes no difference where you go. I can't help it People can float on rivers and lakes without being stabbed. Anyway, I only lived for a month and signed the contract.

On the night of check-in, there was a quarrel across the street because of water and electricity bills. Little brother: "I have lived for a few days this month and have never used air conditioning." Unplug all the sockets when you leave. How to use the 289 yuan water and electricity bill? " Black-hearted second landlord: "You didn't take pictures and leave evidence, so we can remember as much as we want." After several disputes, I can only pay.

I feel that I took photos of water and electricity bills and left evidence. Sure enough, I was overcharged 300 yuan for water and electricity on the day of rent collection! ! ! You hypocritically asked me how you used so much water by yourself. I am too lazy to argue with him. As soon as I took out the photo, he was speechless, pretending to be innocent and saying, "Maybe I remember wrong."

It turned out that there was no place to hang clothes on the sixth floor. Nobody has used the elevator since I moved in. I asked a young lady who had lived for several months before I realized that the elevator was not needed at all. It takes 30 minutes to walk from the subway station. They said that they were always in charge of the pick-up. After sending it twice, they told you that you were not available! ! ! The car stalled! ! ! A 360-degree change in attitude!

Because the sound insulation effect of the room is not good, I often hear them bring people to see the house: "It's only a walking distance of 10 minutes from the subway, and I don't want you to pay any rent after 10 minutes", "The elevator is broken, so it will be repaired for two days" and "There is no other fee, just rent10/00". Oh, my God! ! ! Fish Leong gave you courage! ! ! Lie with your eyes open! ! ! How strong the psychological quality is!

When the "black-hearted" second landlord leaves, I will secretly tell the truth to the tenant, or pretend to pass by and call: "When are you going out? It takes more than half an hour to walk to the subway. " The expression of the second landlord is quite rich. I can only help a few, and there are still a lot of people who are really cheated.

Not long after I moved in, I found that I moved out next door, and I will move out next door in a few days. I also told me that I left directly without a deposit. It's too pitted here. I'm a little surprised. After all, the deposit is still 2800, which is not too small. I must get it back.

When I checked out early, I was told that I couldn't check out until they sublet. They don't know when they will transfer out, so I have to move on and let them transfer out for me. Ask me to transfer out a few days after paying the rent for next month, and let me move out at once. Well, if I miss a month's rent, I'll get my deposit back.

When I checked out, I held my breath and knew that I would face a fierce battle in the future. Another bunch of office thugs. The black second-hand landlord told me that the deposit could not be fully refunded, and he also pulled a bunch of reasons. Several gangsters next to me echoed to scare me. I strongly disagree, and my attitude is very firm. Take out your mobile phone and record it directly, and press 1 10. The black-hearted man said to the second landlord, "Whoever said that the deposit will not be refunded will admit it when the police come. It's so serious to crack down now. If you are not afraid, I will call the police immediately! "

The second landlord of "black heart" panicked and could only agree to refund my deposit in full, but if he didn't cheat me, he would probably stay up at night and told me to pay 200 yuan for health care. I'm angry anyway, but I still have to stay calm! ! ! Never compromise.

Black: "You can leave after paying 200 yuan for health care."

Me: "I have cleaned, and the floor is cleaner than your face."

Black: "We'll find someone to disinfect it with disinfectant."

It's not that I haven't seen them clean the room. They just swept the surface and didn't disinfect it at all.

Me: "I have been disinfected with disinfectant."

A bunch of punks were surprised. Is there such an operation? They paused.

Black: "you have to charge this money wherever you go." If you don't pay, the deposit will not be refunded. "

Me: "First of all, I won't pay the money that is not written in the contract. Secondly, I asked you several times if you want to pay the health fee when you check out, and you saidno. "

Black: "We will never say it again."

I can only turn on the recording:

"By the way, check out to pay the health fee?

No, we don't charge any health fees, as long as you don't get too dirty.

Don't worry about this. "

I turned the sound up to the maximum, and a group of "black-hearted" second landlords were dumbfounded. I also took photos of utilities. After the utilities are settled, all other deposits will be returned to me. I have been reluctant to cut their meat, and I suspect that I have robbed this deposit.

I wonder how thick-skinned they are. At last they smiled and told me to walk slowly and close the door. I wonder what tricks they want to use against other tenants.

In short, this is just one of the few things that I was cheated in Guangzhou. There are many people who have been cheated like me, but not many can recover their losses. In college, roommates often joked that "people can't blame society for being stupid." Indeed, being cheated has some reasons for our lack of social experience and ability to distinguish right from wrong. However, in the adult world, some people must be more vicious, shameless and smarter than you think.

We all know that it is necessary to harm civil air defense. People will inevitably be taken in by swindlers because of urgency or carelessness. Even if you are on your guard everywhere, you can't resist the skill and unpredictability of liars.

We all know that we have been cheated and must protect ourselves through legal weapons. However, there are too many grey areas in the adult world and too many loopholes in the law. Obviously you are the victim, but the other party has only a specious look. "Why? Anyway, you can't take me. " This is the sin of adults.

Among the people I have come into contact with, the most shameless and vicious are my parents-in-law. My father-in-law is my father-in-law, and my mother-in-law is my stepmother. My wife lost her mother when she was born.

When we first got along, we didn't know our lover's life experience. We just feel strange that it is a place that is not similar to the height and appearance of the younger brother and twins. Later, I learned that the difference was more than a year. My wife is not tall and has almost no clothes of her own. Jeans are rolled around the ankles, shirts have long sleeves, and clothes can only be tied around the waist. They were all retired by his brother. He is in his twenties, and he doesn't care about it himself. Now he can wear whatever he wants, but I don't like it at all. I almost got paid to buy clothes for him at that time. Once we broke up, I asked him to return everything I bought.

My family doesn't quite agree with our association, but my wife has been clinging to me except for things at work. Relatives nicknamed him "Sticky", and he followed me when I went home. Although my parents don't like him, they are only polite to him because of my face, but he is still quite satisfied. Once I broke up with him angrily, he said solemnly, don't think I can't bear to leave you. Alas, what a lack of love it is!

Every time I go to their house before marriage, I never come back happily. He didn't feel it himself, but I felt deep sorrow for him. At a dinner party, everyone sat around the table. His brother glanced at the table and said he wanted to eat pig's trotters. Father-in-law immediately said I love you, go and buy it! My wife doesn't like it. She says so many dishes. Do I have to eat that? My father-in-law threw chopsticks and you stopped eating! Buy it quickly! I was shocked and took his hand and left. His brother ran into the yard and let go of his car. My mother-in-law remained silent from beginning to end, like an outsider. I pulled my lover out of the door and was so angry that I was about to cry, but he didn't care. The two brothers are joking again. My lover put his brother's hand behind his back and still smiled. My mother-in-law suddenly jumped on me and hit my lover. Why did you twist his arm! What if it's broken! I still shudder at the thought of that vicious lost face.

There are many old scars on my lover's face, hands and even buttocks. They are hard and white. They were scratched by his brother with a pencil knife and poked with a pen. He also said that his pants were soaked with blood. My parents go to work and my brother has lunch in the canteen, but he always gives his meal ticket to his brother, not to mention he cooks. If he annoys his brother carelessly, he will be hungry at noon. My wife said it was a little good. No one urged him to study, and no one scolded him for counting down every time.

Relatives and friends around them all know their lover's good temper and often praise him for his ability and good temper in front of me. I secretly sneer, otherwise I don't know if I can grow up safely!

After marriage, I don't want to go back to dinner often. When we go back, we both have to help cook and eat whatever we want. But my father-in-law called and scolded me, saying that if I got married, I would have no parents. My wife often has to go back to make cows and horses for them. My mother-in-law once said to me, xx, please pay some living expenses. Your father didn't give me enough money to buy food. I really don't know what to say. Why spend money on punishment?

My wife is not afraid of hardship and has the ability. We bought our own car and house early and his brother got married. When we buy a car, we often satirize that they buy a car without food, and their mother-in-law is cold, but this does not prevent them from using the car at any time, which they should. Once, my wife was late for something, and my father-in-law flew into a rage. My wife was in a bad mood that day and said a few words. As a result, my father-in-law dragged a shovel and smashed a brand-new car! My wife drove the car back in despair. I watched the whole front glass crack into an Okumo net and really wanted to kill them all!

When they have children, they haven't seen them for a day, let alone give them birthday presents. Parents are doing everything from giving birth to children in the hospital, sitting in confinement and looking after children, but every year on Father's Day and Mother's Day, their two in-laws never leave us. We want to buy gifts and pay the bill. At the dinner table, two in-laws held his brother's child and took turns to coquetry. Our children don't want to look at it again. My father-in-law always scolds my lover like a child. He is also passive to Nuo Nuo. He was used to being oppressed since he was a child, and he had no sense of resistance at all.

I'm usually happy, but when it comes to his family, I get angry. I really don't want anything to do with their family. My wife rolled her eyes and said, do you think this is possible? I was speechless, as if it were impossible, but what does it matter?

I want to talk about a former colleague.

I used to work in a state-owned enterprise. Because of the special work content, the office is far away from the whole office building and close to the production area, which is relatively casual and lax in management. One day in midsummer, I was alone in the office with an elder sister in her forties, and I got a call from my superior asking for assistance to foreign maintenance personnel. To put it bluntly, let the maintenance man connect a plug-in and a water pipe from the office. This often happens because the lines and pipelines in the production area are close to our office. In order to be safe, supervision is needed (as for why internal maintenance workers are not needed, I won't say it here). We are basically familiar with foreign maintenance personnel.

After a while, the door rang and in came a strange little brother, about twenty years old. He said timidly, "XX said that electricity should be used here." . The elder sister stood up enthusiastically and asked, "Are you new here?" ? Answer "yes". Sister took out a knife from the drawer and said, "The handle is broken. Please weld first. I am familiar with your head. " . It is really common for this gang to do private work. The little brother hesitated and said, "I have to weld the pipeline first, and I can't delay it." Xx didn't say let me weld this. " Sister pulled her face down and threw the knife on the table. She sat down and fell silent. I had to beat around the bush and say, "You go to weld the pipe first and come back to weld the knife." Show him the location of the socket. He put it on and dragged the long cable out of the window. I sat down to concentrate on making the form, and vaguely felt that my sister stood up and turned around without saying anything. I thought it was over.

After a while, my little brother knocked at the door and came in. I asked, "What's the matter?" ? He said, "No electricity". Look again, the plug fell to the ground. He pulled the wire out of the window and plugged it in ... I bowed my head and did things, and the elder sister stood up again ...

The door rang again, and the little brother ran in with a sweaty face and went straight to the socket, and the plug fell off again. The little brother looked at his sister suspiciously and whispered in a forbearing voice, "Why did it fall down again?" ? Plug it back in, press it hard, and use it up. A little confused, but I didn't think deeply and buried myself in my work. Elder sister stood up again.

The door was pushed open, and the little brother broke in sweating and panting. Seeing the plug on the ground, he said loudly, "I'll tell the leader again!" " I know in my heart that my sister stood up and walked around again and again ... but strangely, this elder sister was silent and had nothing to do with herself.

Once again, I think it should be over. I didn't expect my sister to stand up and walk to the socket as soon as my brother went out. I immediately stood up and walked over, grabbed her hand trying to pull the plug, and held my breath to persuade: "Forget it, I just came out to do something, and I don't know what to think. Please forgive me. You see, on such a hot day, you have to climb more than ten meters to do things without getting up and down tools. It was terrible. I climbed back and forth several times. What should I do if I have heatstroke? The elder sister gave her hand up angrily, and then said, "It's very kind of me to plug it in again without pulling it out. "Oh, my God.