Indulge children to spy on the opposite sex: unqualified parents are ruining their children's upbringing

Some time ago, the netizen "Markuske said" sent a Weibo, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens.

"Markuske said," In the women's locker room of the swimming pool, mothers often come in with their sons. This time, she washed her hair and opened her eyes, and found a boy of 10 years old staring at her private parts.

"Markuske said," ashamed and annoyed, he quickly called the administrator to deal with, but was ridiculed by the boy and mother:

Children can't read it, so you are the only one who is afraid to read it.

The women's locker room clearly stipulates that boys over 3 years old are not allowed to enter. The mother not only openly violated the rules, but also covered up the child's wrong behavior.

It is often said that it is better to educate children than to support the poor and help the rich.

But the education of children in China is being destroyed by unqualified parents.

Parents who behave badly will go bad with their children.

A man in Wudang District, Guizhou Province, with his daughter, chopped and tore up the canteen poster at the entrance of the community with an axe. Not only that, he also deliberately parked his car in front of the restaurant to prevent staff from entering and leaving.

What are the reasons for these excesses?

It turns out that this cafeteria only provides meals for lonely old people without any charge, so every time there is food, a large number of old people come here to eat.

The man felt that these ragged old people affected the image of the high-end residential area, so he made the above-mentioned speechless behavior.

I thought it was over, but the restaurant staff found a chilling scene in the follow-up monitoring.

The man's daughter appeared alone in front of the restaurant one day, not only tearing up the new poster angrily, but also doodling on the door.

Because this beautiful father and daughter, this loving restaurant that provides shelter for the elderly, had to close for three days.

Children's behavior is the projection of parents.

Father didn't respect the old and love the young, and ruined all the posters in the restaurant. Children naturally don't know what public morality is, and even feel that their actions will be appreciated by their fathers.

There is a saying in the documentary Mirror:

Every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and both parents are painters. What a blank sheet of paper looks like depends on parents.

Parents run red lights, talk loudly in public, spit and litter, and children will follow suit.

Parents are the first teachers of the children. How can we expect children to be educated when their words and deeds are improper and their outlook on life is corrupt?

If parents want their children to be educated, they must set a good example for them.

Terrible intergenerational transmission, destroying children's immature three views

Many people think that the quality of children is getting worse and worse, and it is really worse from generation to generation.

In fact, it is not that children are ill-bred, but that Xiong Haizi once grew up as parents and ruined the next generation.

Let's see what uneducated parents will do to shake their chins.

In an amusement park in Hunan, after the mother took her child to jump in line and was dissuaded by a girl nearby, the woman not only did not apologize, but also beat and scolded the girl.

It was reported by the media afterwards, causing public anger. The woman's husband said that his wife was pregnant and emotionally unstable. Now she has been stimulated to be hospitalized and asked the other party to bear the cost. Later, the police intervened in the investigation and found that the woman was not pregnant at all.

In high-speed railway station, Hefei, a mother, in order to wait for her husband to get on the bus, forcibly blocked the moving car door with her body to stop the departure, and staged a textbook-level hooligan in front of her daughter.

At the opening ceremony of the Cherry Blossom Festival of the Chinese University of Science and Technology, many parents let their children climb the cherry trees to seize the scenic spots. An interviewer asked the child's mother: Why not take care of the child?

Parents confidently replied:

The child is so young that we can't manage it well. We should ask the administrator to come.

In Shanghai Disneyland, an 8-year-old boy accidentally touched a female tourist's ass, and the girl said a few words to the boy in exchange for abuse, pushing and slapping from her mother.

A little boy scratched his neighbor's Mercedes with a utility knife, losing nearly 10 thousand yuan. Instead of apologizing for compensation, his parents swore at me: the law can't bind me. What are you?

Many parents start to raise their children before their children have established a sound outlook on life, and it is inevitable that the next generation will suffer.

What is terrible is not Xiong Haizi, but unqualified parents, who implant uncultivated thoughts and behaviors into their children's hearts and destroy their unformed three views.

The highest education for children is the parenting.

If someone asks: What is the best education?

The best education comes from parents' words and deeds.

Residents of a residential area in Xi 'an complained to the property, and they always smelled a strange smell in the elevator recently.

In the monitoring of the property, it was found that a little boy often peed in the elevator.

A master recognized this as his own child, and the boy's mother sent a message in the group that night.

She first apologized for the child's behavior and reflected on her dereliction of duty as a parent. In order to let the child learn to admit his mistake, he was asked to clean the elevator for a month.

This is not just a performance.

In the following month, the mother watched the children clean, while the little boy meticulously cleaned the elevator door and mopped the floor under the supervision of his parents.

The mother's practice is commendable.

She didn't ignore the child's mistake on the pretext of "the child is still young", but told the child what kind of trouble his behavior brought to the people around her with severe punishment.

When the child made a mistake, the mother didn't do corporal punishment and preaching, but took him personally to bear and make up for it and let him know what was right and wrong.

Remember the 2-year-old girl who was squatting beside the garbage can of the bus and eating ice cream?

The little girl came from Kunming and went home by bus with her mother one day. When she got on the bus, she still had half-eaten ice cream in her hand.

After getting on the bus, the mother said to her daughter, Don't drop the melted ice cream on the clean floor.

So, the girl obediently squatted beside the trash can of the bus, holding the trash can in one hand and eating ice cream in the other.

Such a clever child must benefit from his mother's good upbringing.

The so-called "lead by example" is probably the case. The best education is not a prestigious school or an expensive cram school, but an education embodied in the details of life.

A mother in Liyang, Jiangsu gives homework to her son at school. She is worried that loud high heels will interfere with students' lectures. Enthusiastic mother quietly took off her shoes and ran barefoot for four floors.

In the subway, a mother held her sleeping child in her arms, fearing that the child would kick the passenger next to her, and covered her children's shoes all the way until she got off the bus.

Parents' behavior will subtly affect children's behavior, and good upbringing is a blessing for children's life.

Children are parents' mirrors, and parents are their role models.

Only when parents keep in mind the education of courtesy, care, obeying rules, doing good deeds and repaying kindness, and actively practice it in their daily lives, can they create a truly outstanding next generation.

As Haruki Murakami once said:

A child is like a sapling, and parents are watering it. If the water quality is too poor, eventually the saplings will not only become towering trees, but also die.

I hope every parent is a clear spring, watering the flowers of the motherland with a good education.

Author: talking nonsense

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