How did ancient men strike up a conversation with strange beautiful women?

You'd better get dressed quickly. In the Five Dynasties, a less wealthy scholar went to Kaifeng to study and visit friends, and asked his wife for the travelling expenses before he left. My wife pinched her fingers for a long time, figuring out how much it costs to eat and drink every day, how much it costs to ship, how much it costs to buy gifts for friends, how much to prepare for daily expenses, etc., saving the cost of buying new clothes. My husband looked at the toll and was very upset. He casually said, "How can you be full of pity when you put out the candle?" Wearing clothes will make you feel exposed. "His wife is not stupid. On hearing this, she quickly added some more money.

When I first arrived in Kaifeng, I talked to my friends about it. The friend smiled and helped to continue the last two sentences: "Saint Zhuangzi daydreaming was bewitched by butterflies, and the gentleman was obsessed with new clothes." Because it hit the nail on the head, the scholar did not deny it.

A man who tidies himself up neatly may not be handsome, but he will not be rejected by strange women in public, that's for sure. Yang Guo, a country boy in rags, met girls such as Hong Linbo, Lu Wushuang and Guo Fu, and was either despised or scolded. On the other hand, look at Erwu and Yeluzi. Because they pay attention to clothes, they all fall in love with strangers Ye, Yan Yanping and.

Some people may say that people can't judge people by their appearances, and the sea water is immeasurable. Of course it's right to do things, but it's totally useless to talk to strange beautiful women. "You can't stop practicing dressing for a moment," he said.

You'd better act solemn. We are all familiar with the way Gao Yanei courted Ms. Lin Chong. The old cat wants to swallow the salted fish when he sees it, so it won't be a fatal lawsuit. The same is to talk to strange beautiful women. In the Southern Song Dynasty, there was a gentleman named Zhang in Jiangxi, who was very gentlemanly.

This Mr. Zhang is rich and has little ink in his stomach, but he likes to be arty and make friends with intellectuals. After a long time, he learned how to be a scholar. He kept his mouth shut, just like a good man and a good brother. Confucius said, "Poetry clouds", shaking his fan gently and walking slowly. Once in the street, I saw a young lady with a maid facing a vendor. Mr. Zhang came forward to settle the dispute between the two sides. His gentle appearance left a deep impression on the young lady, and she fell in love with him from then on.

At the right moment, not long after, a matchmaker came to the door to act as matchmaker, and the young lady peeped at the prospective daughter-in-law. Who are you? It's Mr. Zhang Shen. When her mother asked for her advice, the maid chimed in and read one of Zhang's poems: "I don't know each other at this time, and the moon shines on you." This record may have been fabricated by a scholar to mock Zhang's affectation, but the effect was absolutely good and a marriage was achieved.

A man's demeanor can't be faked, it is formed from the inside out, and cultivation is the premise. But to be clear, it's not a science to pick up strange beauty, so what's wrong with pretending to be solemn? Zhao Yan wants to remind you not to learn Stephen Chow's nonsense. You will only be considered a hooligan by beautiful women, and you may also get a powder punch.

Better be thick-skinned. The skin of a tree refers to the importance of face. It can also be understood from another angle that the skin of trees and people's faces are generally thicker. Speaking of being a man, thick skin is certainly not worth promoting. Everyone has no sense of shame. What will this society look like? But when it comes to doing things, it extends to hitting on strange beautiful women. Bark is more useful than human face. Thin-skinned people will run away when they meet the golden wind and jade dew. In the end, he will be locked in the deep courtyard of Wu Tong alone.

Wei Xiaobao's kung fu of hitting on beautiful women is almost thick and dark, and most people can't learn it. Liu Sanbian's thick skin in the Northern Song Dynasty can be used for reference.

Liu Yong not only hangs around prostitutes in brothels, but also hooks up with beautiful women in the street. One autumn, he saw a beautiful woman leaning against the building in an alley in the capital of song dynasty, and he chanted loudly, "I'm going to get drunk and sing a song about wine, but it's so strong and boring." Hearing this, the beauty immediately smiled like a flower and asked, "Are you Brother Yong?" Liu Yong changed the humble style of former scholars and replied, "First, write lyrics according to instructions, and Liu Sanbian also." How thick-skinned is this? Much thicker than a shield, it is impenetrable with a spear. Thick skin also has the advantages of thick skin. Later, they became bosom friends. "The clothes are getting wider and wider, and I don't regret it. I am thin for Iraq. " This sentence was written by Liu Yong to this beautiful woman.

Need to create opportunities. How to create opportunities? Buy her a drink, no, this is in the street; Send her a flower, no, people don't know you; Learn from the white snake and then send an umbrella, no, you don't have that ability; Going forward and deliberately hitting others, no, it's too rude; Stare straight at others and say, beauty is like a friend of mine. Hehe, what's more, others have already played this trick. What about swelling? You have to learn from the ancients.

Liu Yuxi described a young man in Zhuzhici. In order to attract the attention of beautiful women, he shouted pop songs on the boat, which is a model for creating opportunities. Not to mention the singing skills, but the lyrics are absolutely sultry. What makes beautiful women blush and heartbeat? There is an anecdote about Qin Guan in the Northern Song Dynasty, which seems to create opportunities. He said that he was a beautiful woman who had an appointment with Lu and Yu, and wanted to strike up a conversation, but he didn't have the courage, so he asked extremely young people to find the beautiful woman and told another group that there was a singing contest somewhere by the river, which was very lively. Let's go and have a look. At that time, people in the Song Dynasty loved this, and Qin Guan was right. Beautiful women will definitely go, and they have to cross the Bianhe River. He reached the other side of the river one step ahead of schedule, and the beautiful woman's boat arrived. He hurried forward to help tie the rope. This department doesn't matter, so it's love. Then I wrote a sentence: "I still remember my affection. I once went back to the boat for the department." On Biye Zhuqiao Day, people didn't see it and the water was empty. "

If you want to chat up beautiful women, you need to seize the opportunity. If you don't have a chance, you have to create one. Qin Guan is a master. In the story of Tang Bohu lighting Chou-heung, Tang Bohu accosted Chou-heung many times before and after. Why didn't he succeed? Zhao Yan summed it up: first, pretending to be a beggar; second, being too rogue; third, creating opportunities, but choosing the wrong place (how can a temple spend? ), except for thick skin, there is nothing to recommend it. As a last resort, Tang Bohu sold himself to Washington, D.C., creating an opportunity for himself to finish the version.

In Song Dynasty, Li Zhiyi accosted beautiful women in Kunshan. The first sentence says, "I live at the head of the Yangtze River and you live at the end of the Yangtze River!" " Just like meeting an old friend in a foreign country, "Where is the fate?" Of course, Li Chi Ngai told a little lie. He is from Qingyun County, Hebei Province. How did he go to the northwest? But this lie left a deep impression on the beauty, narrowed the distance between the two sides and won the beauty's favor. Ancient beauties were really easy to chat up, and they couldn't stand it when they hooked up. When they arrived, they said, "I will live up to my homesickness."

There is also the most humorous, teasing a beautiful woman, basically more than half of the success. There are many examples in this regard, so I won't go into them one by one.