Do men and women need AA system?

It is common for boyfriends and girlfriends to date frequently. Usually, I may go out to eat, watch movies and listen to musicals. As for whether to adopt AA system, it depends on the communication level between you.

If you have just established a relationship, the relationship is actually unstable during this time. Don't you find that the woman is very reserved at the beginning of the date? Dress up for half a day before each date, and don't go out if you are not satisfied; Even if you meet your favorite food, you can be a lady, deliberately not eating so much, and even chatting and talking are very reserved.

On the one hand, because the two sides haven't fully understood each other, the woman doesn't want to owe each other too much until she fully recognizes this person in her heart. After all, she wants to remain calm and neutral in order to make a better judgment. On the other hand, because the woman will be shy in her heart, she feels that she wants to be independent and can't let the boys pay the bill, leaving a bad impression on the other party. Some girls even said that they would be kind to themselves and show their initiative.

If you have been in love for a long time and both sides know each other's habits better, then the relationship must have been very stable. At this time, basically, the expenses such as eating and watching movies have to be paid by the boyfriend. If you are still AA, girls will think that the man is too stingy and irresponsible. I may even suspect that I have had a fake love, which is not important in the other person's mind.

Unless, in order to express gratitude, girls occasionally take the initiative to pay the bill, otherwise, as a gentleman, it goes without saying that they should pay the bill automatically, let alone the AA system!

To put it bluntly, at this time, you have reached the stage where you don't have to worry about who pays. If you are still struggling with this, it means that the relationship is not stable enough and there are still many uncertainties.

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