Debate: Helping others is the foundation of happiness ((opposing party) I hope to have a complete debate draft! Helping others is the foundation of happiness, and the opposite is much more difficult than the front! Basically, helping others is something worth advocating and implementing. Personally, it is also biased towards helping others. But in the spirit of studying the problem, I try to provide some opposing arguments for your reference. I reiterate that the following objections are for academic discussion only and do not represent my position! This means that I have been scolded by blind opponents because I have put forward my views on some controversial issues in the past! ) disproof: 1] Do bad things with good intentions! Some people rush into action without knowing whether the other person needs help or not. The other party may have his own reasons for not solving the problem, not his inability to solve it. And your help may upset his own arrangements, and he is afraid of disappointing your kindness and being in a dilemma! For example, if you see a worker moving goods, he is moving less and less. You think he is incompetent, so help him move the goods without saying anything. Who knows that he simply slowed down his hands and feet to buy time, but he was embarrassed to say it when he saw your helper. As a result, I have to do other extra work because I still have free time. I can't say that you hurt him, but did you help him? 2] Causing dependence and affecting the feelings of both parties! You don't hesitate to help anyone and anything. Over time, you will form the habit of relying on convenience, expecting others to help you with everything, and one day you will not be able to solve the problem without help. Besides, you have been helping him. If you can't help him once in a while, he may have been dissatisfied with you, and as a result, his friend will be fine! On the contrary, caring for each other will reduce these troubles. 3] Create troubles and differences for yourself and the people around you! Humans live and work in groups. You help people at will, but you can't solve all the problems. As a result, it may lead to disputes and discord among others around you. For example, in a company, you may only help some colleagues because you are free. But other people who can't get your help will think you are partial. The boss may not appreciate your help, and may think that you are busy and have time. Why not solve other work? Even the person you help may think that you have robbed him of his credit and look down on his work ability! 4] Help people get into trouble! Not alarmist. There have been too many examples of getting into trouble because of helping others in society, so you should think twice before helping others and measure your ability! For example, when you go through the customs at Luohu, an old man or a pregnant woman asks you to carry a lot of luggage for them. It's very kind of you to pick up your luggage and follow them through the customs. But when you find contraband in the luggage, you will find that the helper just now has long since disappeared, leaving you to bear the responsibility and punishment for smuggling! For another example, if a family member or friend wants to borrow money from a bank, please help him as a guarantor. When you say it, you must ensure that it is just a routine procedure and there is no problem. You are kind enough to believe that your relatives and friends will not lie to yourself. But in the end, if the other party goes to Yellow Crane, it is up to you to deal with the repayment and the troubles faced by the debt collection company! 5] Good intentions are not rewarded! Compared with the above problems, this is actually the least serious. You waste time, energy and money to help people, don't say anything in return, or even thank you! Sometimes people laugh at you, right? Melon, how can you call it joy to help others? Personal opinion! Not necessarily correct! I hope I can help you! Image reference:. yimg/iugc/rte/* * * iley _ 35
Reference: Gao Yi Xiao Xiao's humble opinion, please enlighten me!
You want to help others as the basis of happiness, but if you have insulted others, you don't have to help them. 1) If they are self-righteous and strong.
You helped him, but you made him feel that you lacked him. You want to show how good you are?
Better than him.
So I want to use this as a way to improve my poverty. 2) Not everyone wants to help.
Some people want to support themselves, and you help them, but they are not happy (such as some lower-class people)
Don't take "last aid"
I would rather pick up rubbish than be helped. 3) The more you help, the busier you are ~ People and land have plans at all.
If you mess with others,
On the contrary, it will upset people's plans and bury what you think is self-righteous when you help others.
Not necessarily others will think you depend on 4). Sometimes you help too many people.
On the contrary, it will affect the beneficiary's belief that your help will inevitably make him unable to do things by himself.
Mimi has influenced him for a long time. Don't you ever want to stare at him all your life? Have you hung up on anyone?
This may upset your family and friends.
Because they will think that outsiders in your mind are more important than them. 5) The present society is not the previous society. It's very simple. In the past, when the society was full, there was no requirement.
Now society is changing with each passing day.
If people can't solve problems by themselves
This is simply hurting him.
He will one day.
You're not with him.
He suffered a loss.
Can't stand the pressure of no one to help.
I just feel more helpless.
disappointed
Will become less and less fragile.