What are some moments that made you regret going to college?

(1) Not having a good relationship

. Young love on campus is the sweetest, but many people only focus on playing games and watching TV series in college, and do not have a proper relationship. It is not advisable to fall in love because of loneliness or for the sake of talking. Good love should help each other achieve each other and become a better version of themselves for each other. Work hard together in a better direction, accompany each other, make progress together, and have a double harvest of love and academics.

(2) Failure to study professional courses well

. I feel that going to college is useless, I feel that my major is the most inferior, I feel that the knowledge in the textbooks will never be used in my life, and I feel that all the teachers are talking about is nonsense. So what do we come to school for? Obviously learning is the most fundamental thing for students, but you put the cart before the horse.

(3) Failure to handle the relationship between classmates and teachers well, and failure to make close friends

. A university is actually a small society, where people from all over the world gather together. Different languages, customs and habits test your interpersonal skills.

As soon as you step into college, you will encounter all kinds of interpersonal relationships: between classmates, roommates, fellow villagers, friends, etc. The most important thing in maintaining interpersonal relationships is to be kind to others and don't think too much. Only by being honest with others can you naturally gain the trust of others and build a profound friendship with each other.

(4) Did not participate in more social practice, and found that my resume was blank when applying for a job.

When I was looking for an internship and a job, I found that there was nothing to write on my resume. The results in professional courses are not good, there are no awards and honors, no scholarships, and zero practical experience. The submitted resumes are useless. Just imagine that if you are the boss, you will not recruit such people.

(5) Failure to develop the habit of exercise and failure to control one’s mouth

Too much time was spent on club activities, playing games, and watching TV dramas, and did not make good use of time. Go running, do sports, go to the gym, the biggest change in the four years of college is probably your weight. Many schools have free exercise equipment and venues. When you get to work, you will find that the busy life makes exercise become a luxury.

(6) Failure to choose the right major

. Many people complain that "my major sucks." If you really don't like this major, then make up your mind to choose a second major or change departments. Don't worry about retaking courses, the trouble of changing social circles, and the possible consequences after changing departments. Difficulty... There is never an absolute good major or a bad major. In fact, "the major sucks" is just an excuse for some people who don't like learning. They don't have a deep understanding of their major at all.

(7) Don’t take the postgraduate entrance examination to make yourself better.

The four years of college are equal to you and me, and your time is at your disposal. You could have failed the exam, you could have gotten a scholarship, you could have become better.

You could have changed your destiny through higher education and allowed yourself to choose a new career. But thinking about the hard work of taking the postgraduate entrance examination, you chose to give up instead of persisting. When you enter the workplace and want to take the postgraduate entrance examination again, you have become impetuous and follow the crowd.

(8) Staying in the dormitory, not taking advantage of the most beautiful time

. A top student talked about his own experience in college and suggested this to his junior students: Significantly reduce the time they spend in the dormitory. Even when watching dramas, it’s best to leave the dormitory with your laptop in hand. Especially don't order takeout in the dormitory. It's strictly forbidden to lie on the bed during the day, let alone sleep until noon without eating breakfast. The dormitory can be said to be a black hole of time, a tomb of willpower, and a Petri dish for bad students.

(9) Failure to make career planning early, failure to master a useful skill

, failure to start career planning early. After four years of college, most people will eventually enter the society. At this time, what companies and units require from you is by no means just credits, but more social, professional, and technical skills that can be used in you. The skills you acquire in college will benefit you throughout your life!

(10) I didn’t go to the library more and read too little.

“If a bird wants to fly high, it first flutters its wings; if a man wants to make progress, he first studies.” Reading can broaden your horizons, sharpen your thinking, and lay a solid foundation for future development. This is especially important for college students who are about to enter college. College life is incomplete without listening to the closing music in the library. At the same time, have you ever counted how many books you read during college?

(11) Failed to study English well

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Communicating and answering questions in English is an important part of postgraduate interviews and postgraduate entrance interviews. Many companies also regard "English level 4 or 6" as a mandatory condition for recruitment. If my spoken English is not good, I will not be able to participate in some free overseas exchange activities. During class, there are less people who are awake than in a daze, less people who are in a daze than they are sleeping, and less people who are sleeping than playing with their mobile phones. Whenever I pick up a CET-4 or CET-6 book, someone will always say, "I'll just contribute another 30 yuan at the worst." When Level 4 or Level 6 really comes, you can only comfort yourself that there will be a next time. Until graduation, there will be no next time