Handshake etiquette in interview

Handshaking etiquette in the interview, in the workplace, mainly depends on the individual's ability to work, and it is possible to make other progress after completing the work. Watching more videos of excellent interviews may bring some inspiration. Only by reading the legal provisions carefully can we avoid being cheated and learn the handshake etiquette in the interview. You are the only one who can become a professional!

Handshaking etiquette in interview 1 As a kind of etiquette, we should also master four elements in handshake in interview.

① Shake hands. In order to show enthusiasm and friendliness when shaking hands, you should use a little force, but don't hurt the other person's hand. Under normal circumstances, you don't have to shake hands hard, just shake them. Men and women should not shake hands too tightly. Westerners often only shake a woman's finger, but old friends can be an exception.

2 sequence. The order of shaking hands is: between men and women, the woman reaches out first and the man can shake hands. If the woman does not reach out and has no intention of shaking hands, the man can nod or bow. Between the host and the guest, the host should first extend his hand to the guest to show his welcome; Between the young and the old, the young have to wait for the old to reach out first; Between the superior and the subordinate, the subordinate is waiting for the superior to reach out and show respect first. When shaking hands, concentrate, look at each other and smile. When shaking hands, don't look at the third party, let alone look around. This is a sign of disrespect for each other.

③ Handshake time. The length of the handshake can be flexibly grasped according to the understanding of both parties. People who meet for the first time should generally be controlled within 5 seconds, and it is forbidden to hold the hand of the opposite sex for a long time. Even if you hold hands with the same sex, the time should not be too long, lest the other party can't stop. But if the time is too short, people will think it is arrogant, indifferent and perfunctory.

(4) How to shake hands is the most appropriate?

Interviewers usually shake hands when they meet. Unless the interviewer has no intention of shaking hands with you, you have to wait for the interviewer to reach out and shake hands for 3 hours! 5 seconds, not too long, especially when the other person is of the opposite sex.

When shaking hands, you must pay attention to the following three points: wash your hands and manicure; Warm palms, no sweat; Medium intensity and smile.

Interview 2 Handshaking etiquette in gender equality: Who reaches out first?

Generally speaking, women, the elderly and people with high positions should reach out first. In China, some women don't understand these manners, and they deliberately refuse to reach out when they see each other unhappy, which is very unprofessional.

What should you do when you meet a young female hiring manager? According to international business etiquette norms, men and women should reach out at the same time. If the other party doesn't take the initiative to reach out, you can take the initiative to attack, and the other party will reach out and respond to you for the sake of reciprocity, but here we should pay attention to the timing of the shot and grasp this "inch strength". Some students are not sure about this and have no feelings. They can talk and shake hands with foreign managers and hold roadshows at job fairs. Be careful not to reach out your hand too early or at an inappropriate time. For example, if you hold out your hand while the hiring manager is burying his head in filling in the last person's comment, or if the two sides are 80 feet apart, you are waiting for the credentials of foreign envoys empty-handed, which is obviously inappropriate.

In short, it takes practice to grasp the timing of reaching out. You might as well attend more job fairs, practice shaking hands with the staff of the recruitment company, and learn how to shake hands properly and appropriately in failed and inappropriate handshakes.

Dragonfly: Don't be too gentle.

The time when men and women don't kiss each other has passed. Those women who are still reserved and "smile but don't show their teeth" usually pass by when shaking hands, which is not advocated by international business etiquette. Although there is no need to mention shoulder pads to show that you are shaking hands with all your strength, both men and women should shake hands with their hearts in the spirit of "firmness and strength". This shows the true nature of self-confidence and sincerity.

Look in all directions: I don't see you.

At large parties, many people in China have a common problem, that is, shaking hands and looking around to find places where important people appear. As soon as the big man appeared, he went straight to the "theme". This is not only disrespectful to the partner who is shaking hands, but also reflects his unprofessional style. Generally speaking, snobs and typical bureaucrats will look around without looking at each other when shaking hands.

Shaking hands is the beginning of interaction between the two sides. Keep your eyes on each other. Shaking hands without eye contact lacks sincerity, can not be recognized by the other party, let alone leave a good impression.

Every second counts: there are long and short handshakes.

Make an exaggerated but not demeaning example: the farmer shakes hands, holds them tightly, and cries for help while shaking "I rely on your help"! This kind of handshake is very common when acquaintances, relatives and fellow villagers get together. It is unpretentious, sincere and enthusiastic, but it is not an international and professional style.

Even from a practical point of view, shaking hands for a long time is not advisable. Shaking hands for too long will inevitably delay business and affect efficiency, and the sincerity of asking for help from others can not be expressed by shaking hands for too long, let alone by asking for help.

According to international standards, a firm and powerful "* * * vibration" can be used to shake hands twice, but the specific length of time depends on the feelings of both parties.

Swing: there is a degree.

Don't "see your hometown with tears in your eyes" during the interview. Although holding the other person's hand and shaking it back and forth like a train wheel is sincere and can express your excitement when you meet old friends and acquaintances, it is not a professional handshake.

In formal business occasions, even old acquaintances should shake hands "politely" and "appropriately".

In one hand? Holding hands?

Generally, the international standard handshake method is: even if the two sides are familiar with each other, it is easy to hold hands with one hand as a gift. In foreign countries, acquaintances often show friendship by hugging instead of shaking hands. But there is no need to embrace etiquette in the interview.

Of course, shaking hands with one hand can show that you are smart and capable, but this kind of international and professional handshake doesn't have to take your middle school teacher as a "sparring partner". Seeing a long-lost teacher, it is better to express your true feelings with clenched hands.

In addition, when the hiring manager of a Chinese-funded institution takes the initiative to shake your hand, you are welcome. You should coordinate "grasping with both hands" and "being hard with both hands".

Gloves and gloves: almost far away

It's cold in the north, so candidates may wear gloves to apply. Whether the hiring manager takes off his gloves or not, you should take the initiative to take off his gloves to show respect. If he asks you to keep wearing gloves out of concern, you don't have to refuse. Respect is better than obedience.