I am very confused now, can anyone give me a clear path?

Recently, I was discussing with my friends about the confusing issue of life planning. I thought a lot about it and gave it to my friend who is borrowing the wind!

Why are you confused?

The word "confused" is a word I often hear. Whether those who have not graduated or those who have already started working, they often complain that they are confused! Now that the New Year is approaching again, I wonder if my confused friends have ever thought that we are very busy all year round, but what is the purpose of being busy? The year is the end and the beginning. At the beginning of the new year, maybe you have made goals and plans for the year? The problem comes again, I don’t know how to make goals and plans. It seems that the goals are always far away and the plans are always not as fast as the changes... I look at this problem very directly. I can only say that you still don’t know how to make plans. You still can’t set a goal!

The plan is not as simple as a primary school student writing a composition. A plan is not an impulsive, inspired literary work; a plan is to objectively look at your current strengths and weaknesses and set a timetable for your continuous growth.

For example, some friends plan to start a business after working for a year, so your plan should have come out two years ago. You must understand what kind of knowledge and abilities you need to have in the first year? Note that what I am saying here is to understand that I am not like some people who shout slogans. I should work and exercise first, and then start a business. It is simple to think of it. If you have been busy for several years and are still standing still, that would be sad! What I know is that many of my friends now have this kind of thinking habit. They always make their goals and demarcations very vague, which seems to comfort themselves temporarily. In fact, they don’t know what to do, and they don’t think about it. In the end, it’s nothing. It’s just a monkey fishing for the moon! You must also understand how much start-up capital you need to prepare? This is when financial planning requires more than 20% to 30%. You must take into account that house prices will rise, unnecessary expenses of various expenses, etc.; third point, you must consider what your products and customers are? Is your profit model feasible? What is the entry barrier to competition among latecomers? Personnel control risk issues? Regional culture issues? Initial cash flow issues? What are the funding requirements for future development? What is the time cycle for product formation and market share? Product life cycle issues? ...many, many...Don't start a business for the sake of starting a business, that will only lead you into a dead end. Remember, never change the habits of your customers unless you have huge funds like Alibaba. , otherwise, it will be difficult! ...There are many, many more. I am not talking about starting a business here, so I will just briefly mention it. I just want to explain an issue. Plans and goals are not so easy to formulate. There are too many issues that need to be considered. Plans and A goal is a habit, a good working and thinking habit. It cannot be formulated by sitting there for a few days without eating, otherwise it will just be an exercise on paper. It is a good habit of collecting information and resources! This is very important. Some friends say that I am too emotional. That is just a side of my life. Although I am too emotional, it does not mean that I am confused. Being emotional is just a way to vent my emotions. Being confused is terrible!

As for the issue of career development path, finding a good job is not just a matter of sending in your resume and trying your luck. If you do that, you will only eat a lot! Unless you are extremely lucky, but how many people are there like that? Going back to the issue of plans and goals, first of all, you must know that you must make a plan, and you must have at least three preparations: 1. The career that you must rely on for survival; 2. The industry that you are more optimistic about; 3. The career that you like; thirdly You may not have the chance to do the career you like in your lifetime, but you must consider it, otherwise once the opportunity comes and luck comes, you will be caught off guard! To elaborate on the first point, a career that you can rely on to survive does not come by just trying your luck. I told a friend who works in computer design technology that technology does not depend on how smart you are compared to others. No matter how smart you are, you are better than others. Can it beat Microsoft? I am not denying the core competitiveness of technology. I am recognizing the core competitiveness of technology, but the premise is that you must have unique cutting-edge technology, like Microsoft, like Intel, like Boeing... Otherwise, mediocre technology will be used by everyone. , then stop competing on technology, otherwise you will only get a piece of the pie. No matter how brilliant your technology is, the competition will only get smaller and smaller. You must have the mindset to creatively apply your technology to appropriate fields. My university When I was in China, I converted an enterprise's administrative office system into a school's academic management system. I just made simple modifications and adjustments and sold it for more than 10,000 yuan. Some people say this is speculation, but I don't think it is. On this basis , I can continue to improve and finally perfect it into my own product, combine the two and apply it! Innovation is not about creating a new world theory or world-class technology, but about knowing the right creative application!

Back to the issue of career development path! Whether it is an industry in which you are surviving or an industry that you are optimistic about, you must understand the situation of this industry and have a different mindset. For example, on salary issues, how much is it in Beijing? How much is it in Shanghai? How much is it in Guangzhou? Why is there a gap? What does the gap indicate? Does it mean there is a lack of talent or industry saturation? There are still many, many questions. I usually pay attention to collecting other relevant information in this industry, such as those who do design. It does not mean that I do interior design and graphic design, and I only care about other designs, 3D, and animation. I have to understand them all. Even if you are related to this profession, it is difficult for you to fully understand the popularity of today's design. What is it in foreign countries? What is the difference between the north and the south of the country? What is the market situation of the design? Means of operation? Are there other applications? .

.....If you don’t have this information, the best you can do is to be a person doing high-level physical work. In the end, you will still be confused and confused!

So why am I confused? I’m confused because I don’t know. I don’t know what’s ahead, and I don’t know what I have? I rarely think about these issues, so I’m confused! How can we find out? Then you must learn to think and learn to pay attention to many information resources. The Internet has made this generation successful. If you don't use it, it will be sad. Over time, it will be nothing more than working behind closed doors! Some friends will say that we must face real problems and the problem of eating. I still say the same thing. The ancients said: People who have no long-term worries must have short-term worries. There is nothing wrong with taking food issues into consideration, just as a company needs to take survival into consideration when establishing a business. However, if you focus on these food issues, companies will lose their vitality, and so will people, which is terrible! Recently, I get up very late every day. Because there is not much work at the company, many people think that I am sleeping. In fact, I sleep less than 7 hours. Most of the time, I read in bed. I am used to it! Although I am emotional, I am not confused. I know that no matter whether the future development is successful or not, people cannot lose their vitality, otherwise, life will be worse than death! Sometimes, I miss home and am afraid to go home. Although home is warm, it is too comfortable! Every time I come out from home, I always feel reluctant to leave. The emotion is understandable, but it is not good for me. What I need is not comfort, but sorrow. Only in sorrow can I survive, and only in the storm can I grow. There are also those who are lazy, but I often cut off my own escape route at certain turning points because I am afraid that I will regret it! When people are at ease, they are always used to finding many seemingly legitimate reasons to satisfy their own needs. In fact, the road is forced out. Unless you want to live a mediocre and comfortable life, you can only continue to force yourself to do some things. Things that seem difficult, and roads that seem difficult to walk, this is my experience.

I wish you a better future!

I would like to recommend a book and related articles to my friends who borrow the wind.

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