You should learn to be gentle but not weak.

I have been thinking about a problem recently. I want to be myself, but I don't seem to know what I want to be. I need to talk to myself, too many people need to talk to themselves.

? I don't know where to go when I'm confused. I think I'll take a walk in the street without a purpose. The power of walking is infinite. It allows you to let go of all external factors that affect you, let you think about yourself only during this time, let you imagine, and imagination will guide you.

? Some time ago, I was really overwhelmed. The pressure of falling out of love, looking for a job and studying came together.

Take lovelorn as an example. In the first few days, it completely lost the ability to think, but physiologically, it is still rational. In a relationship, both people are happy and victims, and no one is right or wrong. As long as love rat and love rat don't play with their feelings, they will mourn and respect their past feelings. I watched an interview video of Jiang Sida and a divorce lawyer the other day. Have a deep memory. The most terrible thing in a relationship is not disgust, but disgust. What kind of situation can make people in a relationship hate each other, just like cockroaches? If a person manages love like this, it is very sad. I think as a girl, when facing feelings, we should learn to be gentle but not weak. I love you, so I am willing to be gentle and understand you, but this cannot be a weapon for men to hurt women. Girls must not lose their principles in their feelings. Love should be beautiful and natural, and may eventually separate, but don't forget that we once loved each other.

Just like the song "Decent" by former Li San:

Don't pile up nostalgia and make the plot bloody.

Love for many years, why ruin the classics.

All grown up, no delay, no debt.

It is my wish to waste time.

Like a curtain call, the actor watched the lights go out.

It's too late to be vigorous again.

Maintain the dignity of farewell.

I love you, respect the ending of the story, and have no regrets.

Break up gracefully, and no one should say sorry.

What is debt? I dare to give, and my heart will break.

In front of the camera is the old us.

Screaming at the top of my lungs in applause and tears

In order to live up to these years, it is also decent to leave.

A picture of passionate love and serious dedication.

Don't let obsession ruin yesterday.

I loved you cleanly.

? About work, a friend told me about her experience. I interviewed an insurance company the other day. At first, she didn't know it was an insurance company. She was attracted by the Industrial and Commercial Bank of China on the bulletin board. The company is also suspected of selling sheep's head dog meat. She also blamed her friends for not being clear and the company was ambiguous. They informed my friend to go to their company for an interview this afternoon. When they got there, they were taken to a room. A few people said that they would give training first, and my friend wanted to leave. But after listening to their speeches, she was asked to fill out a job placement form. My friend didn't start writing. They have been urging my friend to come to their company, and my friend nodded disapprovingly. Finally, my friend said that he had no intention of leaving. Judging from her experience, I want to learn from my friend and let me leave at the first time. Faced with this situation, she listened carefully to the polite response, calm and gentle without losing herself.

? Learning, people are learning all the time, no matter when and where we should have a learning heart, people will soon get old if they don't study, and life will lose its direction and be meaningless. You said I didn't want to waste time, so I'll do whatever you want me to do, and you'll learn something in the process. You said you didn't know what you wanted to do. Well, go out for a walk, see the world and find yourself. I think it will be clear when you come back.

? There are many ways to live, and the road is simple. It's easy to be anyone, but it's the hardest to be yourself. You disguise yourself, others can't see the real you, and eventually you will lose yourself. Then try to love yourself and let yourself live the life you want. What is tenderness? Tenderness is like spring breeze, summer rainstorm, rustling leaves in autumn and warm sunshine in winter. It is when you feel the beauty of this world and feel tenderness that you want to be gentle. Tenderness is tough, gentleness is strong, just like plum blossoms bloom beautifully in the cold winter months, not afraid of the cold wind.

You should learn to be gentle, not weak.