My child always doesn’t want to go to school, what should I do?

Parents send their children to school every day, and the children spend this day in school. How did the child spend his day? He doesn't want to go to school. What should I do?

Baidu Experience Editor Shi Shier Mama believes that instead of scolding the child blindly, find out the reason why he is unwilling to go to school so that you can prescribe the right medicine.

Troubleshooting the reasons

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Children who have always had no high emotions about learning become more reluctant to go to school. So, it is probably related to the performance of the school. Related. Parents should go to the school to find out whether the latest rankings have been released, or whether their children's seats are related to the rankings. Some schools like to put students with good grades in the front row and those with poor grades in the back row.

2

I usually don’t have any particular embarrassment about going to school, but suddenly one day I didn’t want to go to school. At this time, parents must first understand the situation. It should be that the child has encountered something that makes him feel afraid and uneasy, such as being bullied by classmates, etc.

3

Some students will feel fear in their hearts when they unfortunately encounter bad kids from other schools asking for money on their way from home to school. , and do not want to go to school. The editor's friend's child is a very beautiful child. On the way home from school, he was harassed by a man and he did not dare to go out again.

4

Children have their own problems. They miss themselves at home and are not subject to the constraints and control of the school; some naughty children have poor grades anyway and cannot understand at school. While you are at home, you can play games, which is more fun than going to boring classes.

Countermeasures

1

If parents usually care more about their children, they can more or less guess or sense the reasons why their children do not want to go to school. What kind of. For those who have difficulties, parents can enlighten their children in a timely manner. With encouragement, children are willing to muster up courage.

2

Parents should communicate more with the school’s teachers and head teachers to understand the reasons. If the source of the child's reluctance to go to school is indeed the school, such as the linking of seats to rankings, which invisibly hurts the child's self-esteem, parents should actively raise opinions with the school and suggest that it be banned.

3

If the child feels that his or her own safety is threatened, there is no protection for such issues. Parents have recently sent their children to and from school together to create a sense of security for them, and then let their children go to and from school together with their classmates. There is a transitional period when the child is no longer afraid.