Neighborhood destiny

It is said that meeting is fate, and meeting is fate. I saw a neighbor I haven't seen for more than ten years at the gate of the community tonight. She actually lamented that we live in the same community, and the floors are less than 50 meters apart, but it will take more than ten years to meet, which makes me feel a lot. ...

We first met in April 2009, when I was working in my previous company and was also in charge of personnel management. She came to apply for the position of company buyer. After reading her resume, I realized that she lived in a community with only three buildings in the middle. She lives in seven buildings and I live in 10 building. Once, we went in and out through the same door. She resigned shortly after she came to our company. There is a simple reason. She came to work in our company for less than half a year, and two immediate family members died one after another. Her father and grandmother, as if her brother was in poor health when she left, had been in hospital, so she decided to resign. Whether this reason is sufficient or not, her love for her family moved me!

Later, she left the company and went to other enterprises for employment. The year after she left, I left, too, and was recommended by my friends to my present company. I have been in the company for almost 9 years! In the meantime, we met once shortly after she left her job, and we haven't seen each other since.

It has been more than ten years since we met today. This wonderful fate between people is really difficult to explain clearly. I can only say that she is in the community and I am not, that's all!

I thought of my neighbor Tao again. The three of them live next door to our house. We moved into a new house and became neighbors almost in the same month. As the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor!" The Taos have a daughter, the same age as mine. Both of them go to the same kindergarten. They are classmates in primary school, but in different classes. My daughter is in Class 9 and her daughter is in Class 8. Teachers are all the same teachers except the head teacher! So the two little girls have a lot of * * * in language, but their personalities are completely different. My family is active and careless. The naive girl in Tao Jia is a quiet lady, so they have become good friends who talk about everything! Often two little girls play together, either eating at her house or eating at my house!

Our two families are about the same age and both work in the same town, but different working places, different enterprises and different positions do not affect our neighborhood relations. I think we can exercise together and sometimes even talk with the door open. I think we have broken down the barrier of urban forest, we can connect seamlessly and push the neighborhood relationship to the relationship between relatives and friends. I totally believe this is not empty talk or cliché. ...

Until one day a few weeks later, the door of the Tao family did not open. I thought their family went on a trip in the summer vacation, or went back to their hometown in northeast Jilin. Not for a week, not for two weeks. I knocked on my neighbor's door, and they told me that the Taos had moved to a new home and went to an industrial park. They were in a hurry to move because the house was for rent, so they didn't say hello to me.

All I remember is that I was surprised, and then I got angry. Tao Qi didn't even say goodbye to me, so he disappeared into my world. Fate is so magical. It seemed that we had never met at that time. After all, neighbors go in and out of the same stairs, door to door, hand in hand, standing in a row! We also have a daughter of the same age, and they are girlfriends who talk about everything!

However, fate is really incredible, and it will be broken as soon as it is said. Since then, there has been no intersection, no work, and life has come and gone, which is a natural disjoint collection. So we have been strangers for ten years, and maybe we will never meet again in this life!

Tonight, I met my neighbor and she said we haven't seen each other for ten years! Ten years, life in ten years' time. Where are those people? Although technology is so advanced, but we are not even on the same earth, how can there be an intersection? 2/kloc-Today in the 20th century, we have WeChat, Tik Tok, Facebook, Pinduoduo, Taobao, JD.COM and many other platforms. Wechat group lets us choose in minutes and kill the discount. We are all chasing, but there is no face-to-face communication. I have been in Guangdong for almost 20 years. There are no bosom friends here. There is no pure life communication except work. I finally understand.

Although the interaction with neighbors is just a greeting, I suddenly feel that the world is changing too fast, not only in life, social life, but also in spiritual communication. We must also quickly adapt to the new environment and new relationships. You remember that she used to be your neighbor. If one day Mars hits the earth and fate meets again, it will be enough for us to be close to each other.

When it is difficult for us to have in-depth or long-term contact at present, let it be, just as fate, everything goes with fate!