College students’ job-hunting problems stem from frustration in choosing a career.

College students’ job-hunting problems stem from frustration in career choices

Experts suggest that accurate self-positioning is the only way to relieve the worries in your heart. Once you have any knots, you should get rid of them in time

Affected by the financial crisis, college students have encountered a "cold winter" in employment. Finding a job is no longer as easy as it was a few years ago, and employers' requirements are also constantly increasing. Repeated setbacks in job hunting have caused some students to have employment concerns, and some college students have even fallen into some kind of psychological misunderstanding in career selection from which they cannot escape. Experts from the Municipal Mental Health Center said that the psychological problems of college students choosing careers have become educational and social issues that cannot be ignored. But is a job really that hard to find? In a workplace filled with experts, are college students ready to find their true place in the workplace?

Insufficient preparation will inevitably lead to workplace setbacks

At present, the number of college students receiving psychological counseling in the center has increased significantly, and the number of people suffering from depression is increasing. Students who come for counseling have many confusing problems besides Relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., and many are worried about employment. Some college students suffer from psychological anxiety, insomnia, depression and even suicide due to excessive employment pressure.

Intensifying social competition and increasing employment pressure are important factors that cause psychological disorders among college students. Many college students who are not well prepared will inevitably become confused. Experts believe that the pace of social life is now accelerating, and students have poor self-regulation abilities. Some students are unsure of their own positioning, disappointed with themselves, insecure, and do not know where their future will be. Many students still don’t know what they like, what career they want to pursue, or what career they can pursue until they graduate. Some students are afraid of going out of campus and are unwilling to go out to find a job for fear of setbacks.

The role change must be completed quickly

Experts said that many college students have low self-esteem during school and always think that they are inferior to others. They are timid in choosing careers and dare not show their inner feelings. "You should strengthen your self-awareness, analyze yourself calmly, and find out your strengths. The process of job hunting is just a natural expression." Experts from the Municipal Mental Health Center said that you must learn to change your role, from a student in school to a Realistic social job seekers understand their true status and the "harsh" social reality. Correct your position and mentality, and enter the job search state bravely and calmly.

The opposite of inferiority is pride. Some students with good conditions, comprehensive qualities, and strong work ability are prone to pride, which manifests as arrogance, disdain, and hurting the self-esteem of others when choosing a career. Pride will lead to loss of many employment opportunities, so we should pay attention to the reality of our ideals and lower our expectations. In short, we should examine ourselves correctly and do not tell ourselves about our own strength and level.

Only by being confident and adaptable can you gain a foothold in the workplace

Fear is also one of the main worries of job-seeking college students, manifested in the fear of entering job fairs and fear of failure in applying. "How can we have successful experience without many failures? As freshmen, college students should become more courageous with every setback!" Experts believe that setbacks are a good opportunity to exercise willpower and enhance abilities. You should understand the reasons for fear, correctly estimate yourself and others, take the initiative to conduct simulation experiments, and become familiar with it after truly entering the talent market; you should be confident when choosing a career, and you can divert your attention when you are nervous to distract your fear. After a job search fails, you should put down your psychological baggage, carefully search for the reasons for the failure, continuously enhance your abilities, adjust your goals, move forward in a down-to-earth manner, and strive for new opportunities. If you feel that the frustration is unbearable, you can talk to your parents, friends, and classmates to get their support and encouragement.

In addition, you must be good at flexibility. Someone once asked this question: "A weak caterpillar came to a raging river and finally passed the river. How did it reach the other side?" Most people's answer was "Sneak onto a ferry." , or find a leaf, or whatever." But the correct answer is a beautiful and painful way - the caterpillar transforms into a beautiful butterfly.

Change leads to success. Change is an eternal law. Whoever can use it freely will have unlimited achievements. ;