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Now put up with it for a while, because sometimes it's just a matter of your own emotions. Maybe you will feel nothing the next day, but if you really keep this state, you may not be able to do your job well. I found a job myself before. I liked it at first, but I couldn't help it. I call my friends every day to complain. The friend said: Do you think you are doing this for salary or to learn something? I think it's right. Part-time job is just for salary or learning something, right? Relax! If it really doesn't work, then change jobs

Zhaopin.com, Hunting.com, boss directly operated Employment.com, and 58 City Leopard grabbed orders.

Different websites face different groups.

Zhilian is a comprehensive recruitment website, where many large enterprises have settled down and released more recruitment information.

Curiosity feeling information is not very large, and the number of updates is limited;

Boss recruitment is relatively direct, but most of them are small and medium-sized enterprises, so it is more convenient to communicate with recruiters online.

58. The people are recruiting security guards, drivers, housekeeping, etc.

If you want to find a suitable job, just like looking for someone, reading the announcement is only the first step. You might as well read more books, so that you can see the pattern and find the right one. ...

I hope it helps you and you can find a suitable job. ...

Don't choose to escape and don't form inertia. Emotions should be regulated by themselves. You can choose your favorite way to relax yourself and then face the work. Take this emotion as a problem, overcome it, believe in yourself, and it will work.

Try to survive.

When resistance breaks out, you are always full of anxiety about your work. Everyone in the workplace has felt this way, including myself.

The old employees of the company ask you to make quarterly planning materials together, and then copy them for you and send them to the department when you are free. This is beyond your scope of work. You said I was a graduate of a key university, and I came to do something valuable, not to run errands for you. Although the surface promised, but all kinds of excuses, delayed. Ignoring the gloomy faces of the old employees, you tell yourself that I did nothing wrong.

The manager asked you to make a summary of the meeting and asked you to finish it before work. I am very angry, so many people in an office call me. Sure enough, people are bullied if they are honest, 100 people are unwilling in their hearts and their faces are long;

There was a temporary visit to the customer, and no one took the initiative to claim it. In desperation, the leader abruptly assigned it to you. You retorted without thinking, saying that you were too busy to work and the leader was unhappy. ......

These are typical workplace conflicts or rebellions. In fact, rebellious psychology is a concrete manifestation of rebellious psychology in the workplace, that is, when encountering difficulties or pressures, the instinctive reaction is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and despise the enemy and fear the heavy.

Resistance makes you unwilling to obey the boss's arrangement and cooperate with your colleagues. Unwilling to obey the arrangement is doomed from the beginning that you can't finish the task and do the work well. Without will and enthusiasm, things will be perfunctory, muddle along and make mistakes.

Many times, we can't finish the tasks assigned by ourselves. You need other people's help. However, because you usually have resistance first and don't want to cooperate with others, when you need the help of your colleagues, no one answers, and you are isolated.

Filled with the first person to do it, unwilling to work, full of resistance, like a frog in a well, clinging to his own thinking, you can imagine what kind of low level his work quality and efficiency will be. In the long run, you will never grow and never surpass yourself. What about personal growth, development and progress?

This kind of resistance is easy to control yourself, such as chronic poison, which gradually works over time, killing enthusiasm a little, unwilling to make changes and unwilling to try again. People who are new to the workplace should be most vigilant and control resistance.

This is not the biggest harm of rebellious psychology, it will gradually affect your attitude towards people, affect your life and manipulate your life destiny.

For example, I heard that college alumni get rich in business and buy cars and houses. I thought I also took a fancy to the small supermarket near my school when I graduated. At that time, the rent was still low and the original funds could be used for several years. It's a pity that the family doesn't give money, and I'm afraid of losing money, so I'll go away. Watching others do foreign trade customer service, talking and laughing with foreigners in fluent English, earning 10 thousand yuan a month, I thought to myself: I passed Grade Four, but now I have returned it to my teacher, and it is useless to take up my present job; Watching others bask in eight ABS or vest line, I thought to myself: I also want to get up early to exercise, but I am naturally fat after drinking cold water, so I can't get up in the morning. ......

For example, if a friend asks you to play ball, you refuse: "No, my level is too poor. I haven't touched the ball for a long time. Go!" " " ; The head teacher recommended that you do well in the speech contest between universities, but you said, "I can't give a speech, for fear of losing face in the class, let others go." " ......

In this way, we always have a subconscious resistance to what we are not good at, don't like or worry about failure, and then we are unwilling to try. We give ourselves many reasons to retreat and escape, even to resist before we start.

In the final analysis, resistance is not that we really don't want to do it at all, but that we dare not do it, dare not try it, do it badly and fail.

No one's life is perfect. The work of "less money and more proximity to home" can only exist in TV dramas and situational games. It is normal to be dissatisfied with reality and disagree with others. Learn to accept your negative emotions, realize that there are emotional fluctuations, don't deny yourself in a hurry, take a deep breath and calm down first. It is also a good choice to try to analyze the current situation objectively and rationally, make up your mind for the time being and adopt the strategy of temporary delay. You might as well ask someone you trust for advice. One should have his own opinions and listen to others' opinions. People who never listen to other people's opinions are called stubborn.

When the boss assigns a task, but you think it is "dirty work", you may wish to change your thinking angle a little and accept it with pleasure: can this job dig out challenging places? What experience and ability can you accumulate from it? What new departments and colleagues can you meet through this project? Can you manage and implement this project with the project management tools you have learned? On the resume, how to package this project and add highlights to the resume? Change your mind and turn a corner, and you can make new discoveries.

Don't let resistance turn you into a lazy person. When you don't know what to do, set yourself a small goal for one day. Whenever you achieve your goal, you will get pleasure and a sense of accomplishment from your work, which needs to be discovered, summarized and refined every day. This process will help you grow.

If you have resistance to your current job, you should first look at what causes it, whether it is work or your own reasons. If it is because of work, we should find the source of the problem from work. If it is because of your own reasons, we must find the crux from the individual.

Because I don't know whether the job you have resistance to now is your first job or whether you have resistance after working for a long time, I will answer it in two situations respectively.

If you just graduated to work, if you have any resistance to your current job, it is because you have not set a good position for yourself in your work. It is very important to find a job orientation. First of all, you should know your pursuit of this job. So, what kind of mentality do you choose to treat this job? What do you expect this job to bring you? After understanding these problems, you will have a new understanding of your work, and I believe you will also have a new position for yourself, knowing whether you have confidence or expectation in your current job. If you are not qualified for this job because of your own ability, then I advise you to plan for your future. In this present job, please ask others to help you or try to find suitable results, for example, read more books on related work in this field, consult some materials and consult other colleagues to make up for your own shortcomings. I believe that through your efforts, you will find that this job will bring you unexpected gains in the future.

If you have been working for a long time, and after two, three, five years or 10 years, you have a feeling of resistance to your current job, then it should belong to job burnout. Job burnout is a kind of psychological expression that everyone who is engaged in work will have, and it is a psychological coping state that a person faces repeated daily work. It should be normal, especially when he is emotionally unstable, he may pour bad emotions into his work, or affect his work, thus causing resistance to his work. This is easy to adjust, because you have worked for so long in three years, five years, 10 years, and you are familiar with your work attributes, so it is easy to deal with the temporary resistance to work, such as listening to music, taking a walk, or calming yourself down, which can make you better cope with the next day's work and dispel your bad feelings. You can also find a friend, confidant or colleague you trust, or someone you trust, and talk about this unusual situation in your heart. Once you pour out your bad feelings, there may be no resistance at work.

In fact, there are many things we have to face in this world. We may encounter some things we don't want to see every day, but in any case, as long as we have the right to live, we should better face tomorrow's life. I sincerely hope that you can get out of this bad mood, face your work safely and work hard for your tomorrow.

You can't do it well with resistance. Think about what you can live without this job. If not, try to adjust your mood, such as taking a few days off to relax.

What is the resistance to work? Ability to work and solve problems that you can't reach? Bullying old employees, being honest and treating yourself like a cow? For an idle boss? Or because you can't overcome your little self-esteem?

If it's because of the bullying behavior of old employees, you'd better change your job. After a long time, you get used to being suppressed, or you become like him. If the relationship between colleagues is good, things can be learned slowly. Find a new job before changing jobs.

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First, I'm really young. People who have just joined the work soon will have such troubles and have no pressure on life. Second, I am too idle to think so much. Third, the salary is not high. Fourth, people around you are not in a good mood at work. However, it is mainly the first point. If you suggest a loan to buy a house, and then pay off the mortgage and debt every month, you will know how to adjust. Of course, if you are a rich second generation, you might as well change your job and open your own house.

It is a very normal psychological phenomenon to have resistance to work. No matter what job you are engaged in or at what stage of your career, individuals will have temporary resistance. The key is how individuals adjust and guide themselves. Therefore, in some enterprises, psychological counseling workshops have been set up specifically for employees' psychological problems. Helping employees face resistance correctly is one of the tasks of the workshop.

In the field of psychology, resistance is more like a signal light: it indicates that some problems of the parties need to be paid attention to and dealt with, such as stress imbalance and long-term work stress, so in daily life, we can actually deal with the emergence of resistance through three strategies:

The spring will lose its elasticity and fail when it is under high pressure for a long time. Similarly, if people are under high-intensity mental stress for a long time and have not been relieved, then the body will also have a "strike" phenomenon, and the resistance to work is a precursor to the "strike". However, the pressure at work is inevitable, and how to change the pressure is the "top priority".

In fact, pressure reveals a thorny problem we are facing at present, such as the drawing of models, the production progress of goods and so on. If this time is not limited to the role of self-pity, but take a step back and regard the problem as an opportunity to discover your own shortcomings, and use this as an opportunity to enhance your work ability and improve your work level. This pressure has become the driving force for progress. Next time you encounter a similar problem, you will be familiar with it and will be relaxed. The more you get used to your job, the more you will reduce your natural resistance.

If we can all finish our work efficiently, especially at the end of the day, our resistance to work will be greatly reduced. Then the question is coming, how to improve work efficiency? One of the most direct and effective ways is to consult the prolific colleagues next door, carefully observe their ways of doing things, especially the arrangement of working hours, and compare them with themselves to find out the points, lines and areas that can be improved. The result was almost immediate. If your work is special and others have no reference, then I recommend the following two books to you, no matter what you do. One is thinking in zero seconds, and the other is working in zero seconds.

At first, we mentioned that working resistance is actually a signal light, but there may be other reasons behind it. So if you want to have a deeper understanding of your resistance, you might as well seek the help of psychological counseling professionals. After professional study and training, they can provide more professional and targeted suggestions and methods, accompany you to face and know yourself, and dig deeper reasons.

I hope these three strategies can help you. thank you