How to have a high-quality college life?

1. Don't stick to the platform of the school, learn to go out.

The school is just a small platform. No matter how beautiful you are at school, you are just a hillbilly. Those who can find good jobs after graduation will always be those who don't look at the scenery at ordinary times. They have gone out of school and experienced various social practices. Most so-called "ministers" and "presidents" I know can't find any good jobs. I'm only in two colleges, and I don't know anything about other schools. )

It's not that the "minister" and "president" can't learn anything, but they don't learn much in society!

Instead of staying at school as a teaching brother and sister, it is better to go to the society early and be taught by others.

Don't go with the flow and don't be afraid to be different.

Look at my roommate playing lol. I want to get on well with him, and then we will go to into the pit together. Then I graduated and went to work in my father's company, buying a car and a house. What about you?

Do not do what others do. It is never good to follow suit. Don't be afraid to be different, just do what you want and try what you want to try. It is true that all my classmates will always find the best jobs after graduation.

3. Set goals and make plans

What we hear most in college is "I'm busy recently, I'll watch it later", "I really want to do it, but I don't have time" and "I have to wait for the exam again". In fact, I really don't blame these people for their lack of execution, but they don't know how to set goals.

I suggest that college students set one or two goals a semester, then divide them well, write down the specific things to do every week, and then implement them as planned.

In order to go to Tibet, I prepared for a semester. First, I wandered around the second-hand network for a long time, and then I bought a second-hand mountain bike, Xidesheng's, for 730 yuan. Then deposit 150 yuan every week, and save about 2,500 yuan a semester (2,000 yuan is subsidized by the family later). Run once a week (10km) and climb the mountain by bike. Without such money and physical strength as support, I would definitely not dare to go to Tibet by bike.

4. Be low-key and do high-profile things

There is nothing wrong with being low-key and modest. Arrogant people will only leave a bad impression on others.

When you have an idea in your heart, you can boldly tell others and ask their opinions, and you can also increase your motivation.

5. Raise others and belittle yourself

Give yourself a plan every day: you must praise someone today, and no one will refuse others' praise. I believe this.

To belittle yourself means to learn to laugh at yourself. Don't let others think that you are a serious and difficult person. Learning to laugh at yourself will make you more friends.

6. Master core skills

Medical/engineering/computer majors can really learn something, and your future salary depends on your ability. If you are a student of this type, I suggest you spend more time on your major instead of thinking about communication and making money. Direction is always more important than hard work, and spending time in the right place is king.

One of my classmates, majoring in computer science, often stayed up all night in the computer room and even pitched a tent in the computer room. After graduation, I went to Desai (a state-owned enterprise) to be a programmer, and my salary was really high. It is worth mentioning that Desai recruitment is very simple, basically there is no interview, just send you a test paper, and then directly recruit the person with the highest score.

7. Give up meaningless socializing and carefully consider whether to enter the department.

I'm not saying that the department can't learn anything, but what I learned in the department is far less than what I learned in society. Instead of spending so much time doing free work in the department, it is better to spend more time improving yourself.

When I interview a bank, I can hear people introduce themselves, because they are all in groups. I found that more than 80% of job seekers would say that they were "ministers" and "presidents" in universities, which did not impress hr at all. Therefore, from the perspective of job hunting, departmental experience is useless.

Some people can become ministers because of their own abilities, not because they learned these abilities when they became ministers.

8. Don't try to impress yourself.

I know that many people go to the library after class every day and stay in the library when they have nothing to do, but their grades are not so good, and they still can't find a good job after graduation.

Why is this? Because there is not enough concentration. Many people go to the library just to play mobile phones or read magazines in another place, and they are in a daze and don't know what they want to do!

I suggest that college students do more textual research and read books with a purpose. No matter how many books you read, you will never be practical. I always go to the library when I want to do textual research. After reading for 45 minutes, I will have a rest 15 minutes. The data connection of my mobile phone will be closed directly, and it will only be opened when I am resting, so the reading effect will be good.

9. Try everything

Everyone has passed the closed study of nine-year compulsory education and has no understanding of society at all. Many people even choose their major by their parents. In order to understand my interests, I suggest that I try various occupations and jobs, so that I can find a job that I am good at and like.

10. Communicate with some powerful brothers and sisters.

Similarly, we are not familiar with society. After all, brothers and sisters have experienced it, and they have a lot of job-hunting experience that we really need. Instead of taking the time to find it yourself, ask them.

For example, if you want to take the civil service exam, you must know the registration time of the provincial/national exam and how to review it. How to find information? How to interview? If there is a brother and sister of a civil servant at this time, then these problems will be solved.

1 1. Have a sport that you really love.

It doesn't explain that life lies in exercise.

12. For individual majors, grades are not important.

I am a marketing major, and I ranked 43rd among 54 students in the final exam of my freshman year. When I was looking for a job, I didn't think I needed a GPA for any job. Because all my courses are about learning some theoretical knowledge, I think it is better to practice more than to spend time learning these. Now in the bank, I need professional knowledge very much, so I often read books on this subject. So I can only say individual majors!

But don't fail! My GPA seems to be 3.8, and the GPA of a schoolmaster in my class is only 4.2, which is not much different, but they spend several times as much time reviewing as me. But if you fail a course, your GPA can only start with the word "two", then the difference will be great!

13. You can be decadent, but please give yourself a deadline.

Everyone has procrastination. People can't be full of positive energy all their lives, and occasionally they will be decadent, but please give yourself a deadline. What I fear most is eternal addiction and eternal decadence!

I am a fan of online novels. Occasionally, if I don't want to do anything for a while, I will read online novels. However, I gave myself a deadline. After reading this novel, I will study hard. Similarly, online games are the same, you can play, but don't indulge!

14. Find the industry you want to engage in early and make preparations in advance.

People are most afraid of confusion. If there is no goal, every day is decadent. In fact, four years is very short, and it passed at once. When you are looking for a job in your senior year, you will find that many jobs are required! The biggest fear is that some requirements are obviously simple, but they are not met because they are lazy! This is the most regrettable thing, so find the industry you want to engage in as soon as possible and make preparations in advance!

Here, I want to share a sentence from Cai Kangyong: At the age of 65,438+05, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. When you meet someone you like at the age of 65,438+08, you have to say "I can't swim". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later.

-Cai Kangyong's "Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

15. Don't care about the money.

I know many students from poor families. When I first went to college, I found that the bill was 80 yuan a day, so I was addicted to all kinds of part-time jobs and didn't even go to class!

You can do a part-time job, but I hope you don't do it for money, but for experience and study! The most precious thing in life is time, especially college time. Instead of spending time on such a low-level part-time job, it is better to study more and enrich yourself!

One thing I regret now is that I didn't visit Zhihu in college. I didn't know about Zhihu until I worked. I have found many ways to start a business here, and now I have no time to toss about. So, please cherish your college time, take it out, it's simple, don't take a part-time job, start a business!

16. Learn to think

Nowadays, the media write everything for the sake of traffic, and the content is simply not in line with reality. The terrible thing is that there are always many people who blindly believe it and then become disappointed in China.

My parents' generation was uneducated and didn't understand the Internet. I believe that the so-called "medical care", "friends circle politics" and "social darkness" can all be forgotten. We are all college students, so we should stop being so blind. You should search these materials online first, then think about it, and then sum up your own ideas, instead of being a keyboard man!