You didn't do it, but your desire was not strong enough.

I have always wanted to travel alone.

But, never.

Because I am timid, afraid of death, afraid of meeting bad people, afraid of getting lost, afraid of my parents worrying.

I was too scared to start.

So I can only look at other people's travel and sigh with envy.

Fantasize that one day, I can also bravely go on the road and try to travel alone.

And then it was gone.

I've always wanted to be a lecturer on stage.

But, never.

Because I am timid, shy, afraid of speaking badly, afraid of being laughed at by others, afraid of holding my breath.

Because I am afraid of too much, I have been thinking about it, but I miss the opportunity again and again.

Therefore, whenever I see the lecturer on the stage, I have unspeakable envy.

Looking forward to, in the future, I have mastered the skills and methods of training, and one day I will become the brightest light on the stage.

To this end, I also signed up for the training class, but I didn't listen carefully.

I don't know when my podium dream will come true.

I've always wanted to learn PS, at first for Meitu, but later I found it was a professional skill.

On the wish list I wrote in Weibo on October 20 12, I wanted to learn PS.

To this end, my classmates specially collected PS tutorials and sent them to me. I didn't even open the email.

Therefore, every time I see that the recruitment conditions say that PS will be given priority, I am deeply annoyed.

I regret that if I had studied PS, I would have another chance now.

However, when I woke up after a sleep the next day, it was forgotten again.

Now four years have passed, and I still haven't opened the PS tutorial once.

God knows when I can get the first picture from PS.

2.

There are always reasons and excuses, and then, there is no then.

I actually hate myself like this, but I can't change it.

Mr Jiang Yang said, young man, your problem is that you think too much and do too little.

I still remember the first sentence written by Hu Sheng in today's junior high school textbook, "Think and act".

"Some people can only dream and can't do things. They think a lot of ideas out of thin air and talk a lot of empty words, but they have never done anything seriously. "

Many times in life, we are better at being bystanders and praised than practitioners and praised.

Therefore, success always belongs to a few people.

3.

Your strong desire has turned into the hardship of persistent efforts, and you will be defeated by negative comfort in a few days.

Your desire for beauty has turned into the trouble of continuous maintenance, and replaced by the boredom of browsing the space in Weibo several times.

Your desire to learn has turned into fragmented learning, but you can't concentrate and wander for minutes, so the gorgeous study plan has ended before it started.

In the end, you will find that you have tried, tried, but still achieved nothing.

So, you tell yourself that your talent is not enough, your time is too busy, and you haven't used it yet, so let it go first, and then let it go.

4.

Your best friend Xiaoru wrote 1.5 million words on a writing platform and became a recommended author. Her articles can be seen everywhere in major media and official WeChat accounts, just like the rhythm of online celebrities.

Your classmate Xiao Jiang used his professional knowledge to set up a financial management class. Now there are more than 200 paid students who follow him to learn financial knowledge and become the hottest financial upstart in the circle.

Xiao Man, your former colleague, knew when you wanted to learn the idea of PS. Later, she registered an account on I want to learn from myself and dragged you to study together, but you didn't go. Now she is good enough to be a part-time Taobao artist. The sideline income is catching up with the work income. You go out for coffee and she won't let you buy it.

And your hair is small, Xiao Qi. You failed English as a child and passed CET-4 four times. You once saw the news that she typed words with scallops in a circle of friends, and you still showed a trace of disdain in your heart. Unexpectedly, last month, after three years of hard work, she finally entered the foreign company she liked, with her salary doubled and her career steadily improved.

At this moment, you look down at yourself lying on the sofa, holding your mobile phone in your arms, with a dull face facing the sky and a gaunt face brushing the webpage, just like watching a monster. It seems that overnight, you have become people from two worlds.

You haven't even figured it out. Are they running too fast or are you waking up too late?

5.

Why, those who used to be on the same starting line with you, even those who were not as good as you at the beginning, are now better off than you?

And you never know how hard they have worked to get where they are today.

Because their desire for life far exceeds yours.

They are not satisfied with their present life, they want to go up a storey still higher.

Their pursuit of career, hobbies and life is stronger than yours.

They are willing to act for their own desires and stick to it.

They can endure slander and pain, as well as hardships and hardships.

They know that as long as they do it, it will come true one day.

Therefore, they never stop running.

In this way, the gap is widening step by step in their persistence day after day and your reckless profligacy.

6.

We don't know.

There's nothing anyone can do.

After listening to so many reasons, I still have a hard time. What's wrong is that you don't want to get better. My internal driving force is insufficient, my desire is not strong enough, and no amount of external encouragement and stimulation will play much role.

It's just labor pains, but you can't keep hurting your spleen.

Stop clamoring to be strong, and first find out your inner desires and needs.

After you really know yourself and understand your internal driving force, you don't need to be reminded and persecuted by others.

I will push myself forward and catch up.

7.

First, calculate your time. Where your time is, your value is there. What you are willing to spend more time doing is your interest and desire. For example, many writers in the world stay up until two or three o'clock to write. They are not sleepy, but they really love writing.

Second, try more things and find your inner happiness. Those things that can make you throw yourself into it and produce inner happiness are your inner desires. The things I listed at the beginning of the article are exactly what I want to do. Because I haven't tried any of them, I don't know which one is real desire and which one is heartfelt happiness.

Third, look at yourself from the perspective of the future and find the direction and goal of your own efforts. From the past and present point of view, it is difficult for us to find our own advantages and ambitions, because we have always been confused and have never really thought about this issue. But from the future, it's different now. What kind of person do you expect to be in three to five years? The beauty of the future can arouse your original desires and impulses, and you are willing to make efforts and stick to it.

One more thing, all the efforts and efforts are hard at first, and there is no simple, happy and efficient shortcut.

What I mean by inner happiness is a sense of inner satisfaction and accomplishment. Every day we live, we are working hard for our dreams and goals, becoming better ourselves and saving energy for the future. This is the inner joy, our initial desire and persistence!

At any time, as long as you start, it's never too late.

If you are afraid, you will never wake a person who pretends to sleep.

This is the deepest sorrow.