The saddest thing in growing up is to suddenly understand Mr. Lu Xun and recognize yourself.

Each of us once had a youthful, frivolous and romantic youth. Ye Pei sang softly in "The Age of White Dress Fluttering", "When the autumn wind stops at the tip of your hair, on the shoulders of the red sunset; You look at the clear pulse of the leaves, and she falls down. " Xu Wei sincerely felt in "Once You", "I once dreamed of going to the end of the world with my sword and taking a look at the prosperity of the world."

At that time, you and I were both carefree and sunny teenagers, and our hearts were full of glorious and legendary heroic chivalrous dreams or sweet and warm castle princess dreams. When we live on campus, especially in primary and secondary schools, we all believe that when we grow up, we will be able to become scientists, entrepreneurs, or respected people's teachers and people's policemen.

At least, we can also be people who stand tall and embrace ordinary life enthusiastically. However, those little people written by Mr. Lu Xun who are desolate and numb, humble and cowardly, mourn their misfortune and anger their indisputable, we absolutely despise them and feel far away from ourselves.

However, as time goes by, when our parents get old year by year, and we finally grow up step by step, we suddenly realize that in the adult world, there are not so many beautiful and fairy tales, not to mention so many poems and songs, and some are just cautious and trivial, even in a hurry.

In the real world, the word "easy" doesn't exist in the dictionary of adults. What makes people sad and sad is that under the burden and polishing of life, many times, we just live what we didn't like at first.

The friendship between classmates and classmates is the purest friendship. In the simple, happy and carefree campus time, no matter whether you come from remote rural areas, towns, wealthy families or high-ranking children from big cities, there is not much distance or gap between us. Have classes in the same classroom, cheer in the basketball court together, and eat skewers at the roadside stalls at the school gate.

However, less than 1 years after graduation, Xiao Wang, the classmate who always lingers on the passing line in the exams on campus, has easily entered the unit that you struggled to squeeze into because of the arrangement of his parents, and has been promoted early, and has already sat in the position of department manager. And you are diligent and conscientious, but you are often criticized by the leaders for "dragging the back of the unit". Occasionally, when you meet Xiao Wang in the aisle of the company, you will unconsciously bow your head and call "Hello, Mr. Wang".

At this moment, it suddenly occurred to you that this scene is very similar to the "grandfather" that Runtu respectfully called to his childhood friends in the Chinese textbook of junior high school. Runtu used to be such an aura, energetic and smart boy. He stretched freely and should have been able to live a rainy life. However, life is not a fairy tale. His family conditions and growth environment have hampered his development, and he is unable to break the limitations of class and economic conditions. In the end, he can only bend his back in front of life and his eyes gradually lose the light of his youth.

and you, too, had many heroic dreams, like warm lights in the dark. However, in the face of cruel reality, what young people are passionate about and what young people are frivolous have long been smoothed by life. In real life, he is just a middle-aged man who is overwhelmed by the education and pension of his children with mortgage and car loan, but only dares to secretly wipe a tear occasionally outside.

There have been many times when you wanted to rise up and change the status quo, change your bad job and boring life. You visited the recruitment website many times, but in the end you didn't submit a resume, and you didn't have the courage to quit immediately and leave. You always want to improve yourself and keep improving. You bought books for the postgraduate entrance examination and online shopping for counseling materials for civil servants and institutions. But in the end, you forgot to play at the last minute of the postgraduate entrance examination, and you only looked through the first five pages of the information on civil servants.

most of the time, it's hard to change, not because the thing itself is really difficult, but because it's hard to change yourself, especially to change an adult's thinking, habits and behavior patterns. The saddest thing is that you obviously didn't put it into action and didn't go all out. On the contrary, you comforted yourself that others are also like this. It is true to comfort yourself that it is plain and ordinary.

if you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. No pains, no gains. Too many of us just complain about the injustice of the environment and fate, but we don't really want to deeply reflect on our shortcomings and defects. The easiest thing to do in this world is to use Ah Q's "spiritual victory method" to constantly comfort and forgive yourself.

most of the time, it's not that we don't have the opportunity or the ability, but that we think too much and do too little. If we are less entangled in contradictions, less self-paralysis, face difficulties, face reality, face difficulties and continue to accumulate, we will certainly not live a deplorable Ah Q, but will have a very different life.

It's actually very difficult for people to share their joys and sorrows, except their closest relatives. Your sorrow and your suffering may be just a story, or even a hehe, to others.

people's endurance is limited, and no one can easily solve it. But life is like this, and life is not easy. Even if it is difficult, as adults, we can only grit our teeth and carry it hard, and we have to carry it. Telling others about your tragic situation, especially nodding acquaintances or passers-by, can only add trouble to talk with others. Our poverty, sufferings and sorrows cannot be resolved by others, and it is difficult to give us support.

The hardworking and simple Xianglinsao was repeatedly teased by fate and oppressed by that era. Her husband died of illness, her precious son was taken away by wolves, and she was also rejected by her employer. Her spiritual pillar was crushed, and everyone talked endlessly about her misery, but she could not get the understanding and sympathy of others at all. Instead, she was disgusted and laughed at, and finally she died cold and hungry in the snowy night.

Real life is not a fairy tale. Everyone has his own difficulties and grievances. Sometimes, when people are in adversity, it may be true that many things are not smooth and many things are not smooth. People who fail exams, drop out of school, fall out of love, lose their jobs, or even lose their loved ones may all come at us at the same time. However, we must not be Xianglin's wife.

in all kinds of difficulties, only self-improvement and self-reliance. Of course, if our ability permits, we should also have some enthusiasm in our hearts, stick to kindness, and give more warmth to others and society.

Under the pressure of traffic and capital, too many online platforms and information social apps, unscrupulous vendors and stores are making exaggerated advertisements and provocative and seductive tweets to promote health, consumer credit and paid courses.

Some "successful businessmen" say that it doesn't matter what the product is, what's important is that you can convince consumers what it is.

I've seen too many bloggers and personal accounts recommending some paid courses on financial management. The titles are basically very encouraging: "It took me only 21 days to earn 3, yuan from financial management to lying down every month", or "From a monthly salary of 3, yuan to buying a house after financial management sleep, I really understand that making money really doesn't depend on hard work". There are also platforms that deliberately exaggerate the cheapness of consumer credit and the loan to a better life. Do you know how many ignorant teenagers and ordinary families eventually fall apart?

the money in the capital market is like being picked up for nothing, and the money in consumer credit is like being given away for nothing. Do you really have no idea how hard it is to earn money in this market and how high the real interest rate of consumer credit is? These so-called "financial experts" and institutions of Internet consumer lending platforms hope that you can keep a trace of conscience and a minimum bottom line.

Of course, the promotion of human blood steamed bread should be spurned by the whole society. But as individuals, we should at least learn more, know more, polish our eyes, broaden our thinking and horizons, improve our ability to distinguish, and not be deceived or be harvested by unscrupulous traders.

In the online world, thousands of miles away through the computer screen, many times we can feel the coldness and malice of some people.

In Mr. Lu Xun's novels, Kong Yiji's misery is just the joke of spectators; Xianglinsao's pain is just the talk of spectators; Ah Q's anguish is just the pleasure of spectators.

And some spectator groups in today's society are even more irritating than those described by Mr. Lu Xun. When they see online reports that young girls are being bullied, they will leave a message below. It must be that the girl herself has not led an honest and clean life. Even the heroes of the country have to insult and ridicule to attract attention and attention, and it is really chilling to be promoted, drained and out of position. Such behavior lacks the minimum bottom line for being a man.

all his life, Mr. Lu Xun has been fighting for justice and seeking to awaken the people. Even though decades have passed, many characters written by Mr. Lu Xun can still find similar shadows in the real society. Only when you understand Mr. Lu Xun can you truly understand the world of adults and the real society.

Mr. Lu Xun thinks that young people are the hope of the country and the nation. He once wrote in "Hot Wind", "So I am often afraid. I hope that all young people in China will get rid of air conditioning and just go up, without listening to the words of self-abandonment. What can be done, what can be voiced. If you have a little heat and a little light, it will make you look like a firefly, or you can shine a little light in the dark without waiting for the torch fire. "

fortunately, we are now in an era full of opportunities and hopes. Although the world of adults is full of pain and sadness, although the reality is not easy and the ideal is easy to get cold, as long as we work hard with hope and enthusiasm, we will certainly be able to gain something, we will certainly be able to improve and jump our own and our family's lives bit by bit, and our great motherland will surely become more prosperous and beautiful!