How can I make good use of this precious time in college so as not to let myself feel sorry for myself? I know how many times a month I have. . .

As you know, the university is coming.

Last semester as a freshman, I was glad to hear a word from our senior.

"Your eyesight determines your height."

So I ended my first year of college in a very satisfactory state//Of course, the situation in my second year was quite indifferent. ...

I hope that one year or four years later, you won't regret it like me.

I hope each of you will not waste your time in college.

Of course, it is your right to choose indulgence or decadence, and I will not interfere.

If what I say now can be useful to even one classmate, I think it is worth it!

As a senior three student who is only two years older than you, I wrote these words and established a group. On the one hand, I hope to provide a communication platform for you as a semi-old student to understand the school, but I mainly hope to provide some positive help for your upcoming college life.

Freshmen, please believe me, it is absolutely correct to learn every subject well, especially advanced mathematics, calculus and foreign languages (mathematics majors should learn "mathematical analysis" well), and you will know the reason why I say this later. Now there are students around who failed three subjects in one semester. I don't want you to fail, at least freshman year, never!

As a student cadre, as long as the time is arranged reasonably, the work will not affect the study. If you don't do well in the exam, don't use the student union and activities as an excuse. You can only say that you are not efficient enough. If any subject in your degree program scores less than 75 points in any exam, I'm sorry, your national scholarship and cadre achievement award will be rejected by one vote throughout your college career. It's cruel, but it's realistic ...

If you can get 80+ // in every course, this score is too misleading. The members of our group must reach 90+.

Congratulations: the cadre achievement award and study scholarship are waving to you.

A little better, every door will reach 95+.

Congratulations, you can already live on a scholarship.

Well, if you really do well in the exam, come to me and I'll treat you to dinner (of course, since you got the scholarship, I'll leave the reward to you ...)

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Maybe you will ask me, isn't it liberated after college? Why do you still spell it like this?

Son, I really don't want to ruin your idea that "university is liberation", but reality is reality. I have to tell you that your high school teacher lied to you, saying that the university would be liberated, because I was afraid that you wouldn't make it through the college entrance examination and that you would lose at the most difficult moment of your struggle for it. However, the liberation of the university is a complete lie. There is a blog with a large amount of reprints in the space, called "those things that the university cheated us". I can't find the original author, but it's really good. Space search can be found. It tells you, college, why not spell it?

Then why is there a saying of university liberation? In fact, the liberation of universities is not completely wrong. The so-called "liberation" refers to the freedom of time, but it does not mean that time can be squandered. Freedom does not mean profligacy. Everyone who has studied equations in high school should know.

High school teachers say that universities are "liberated" because students' time is no longer bound. For example, self-study in high school is stipulated by the school. Without the teacher's approval, you can neither play with your mobile phone nor go out to do other things. Even if studying in other places, high school teachers are not allowed. There are homework and fixed tasks in high school. You have to stay up late. If you don't do your homework, the teacher will criticize and the school will interfere. If you don't want to go to class or study other subjects, you have to apply, which is very troublesome. So high school students often stay up until one or two o'clock, especially in PE class. If you don't do it in advance, you may not understand it. Everyone in senior three should understand. However, in college, no one stipulates when you must study, no homework, and no teacher gives you any tasks. This is "liberation"! ! Students arrange their study time according to their own goals, so it is called "freedom", but many college entrance examination students understand "freedom" as "laissez-faire" This is the misunderstanding of the university, and a "mistake" is decades. . .

Many people think that college is very relaxed, and high school is very tired because there is homework in high school. You know what to do, but there is no homework in college. Often you don't know what you want to learn, because you need to find your own problems and arrange your own time to study. Usually, once time is free, people begin to waste it. This is the price of being led by the teacher in high school: the loss of self-study ability.

Many people are full of confidence and ambitious when they first enter the university. As a result, as time goes by, their ambitions are fading and their sex is growing!

In the final exam of freshman year, some teachers don't give the scope of painting. For example, my geometry teacher will say, "The exam only tests key exercises and theorems that need to be proved. Usually focus on key exercises and emphasize theorems that need to be proved. " As a result, no one remembers the teacher's usual points, and no one hears which theorem to master and prove, so I have to do nothing ... so I am determined to be more serious next semester. Memorize all the key points the teacher said, and then ... As a result, the result is another sigh and regret. "I wish I had listened carefully!" ....................., what I want to say is, you have suffered a loss in this subject once, why do you want to come again? If so, what is the original rhetorical significance?

In addition, you can learn everything, and never learn to sleep in class! How many children get the first and second academic warnings in class and sleep again and again! Until you fail five courses, revoke your degree! ! !

Sophomore. Students who are interested in taking the postgraduate entrance examination hope that you can take the postgraduate entrance examination in the summer vacation after your sophomore year. Mathematics students should spend their sophomore and junior years reviewing foreign languages. They must pass CET-4 and CET-6. Don't think that you can pass Band 4. It is difficult for children of band 6 to have a fluent dialogue with foreign students. What is level 4? Many employers directly take CET-6 as the screening standard. Those who fail CET-6 are not even qualified for the interview. What's the use of your ability? Don't think you have more time. Remember, the sooner you finish anything, the easier it will be for you! Freshman should learn English well in the last semester anyway, and make every effort to make the final English score into the top eight of the class, because the qualification of the preliminary test of Band 4 is selected according to a certain proportion of the class ranking, and those who are out of proportion are not eligible to apply for the exam! I remember that despite my poor English foundation in senior high school, I tried my best to qualify for the first CET-4 all semester. I finally got into the top two in my class. I was lucky enough to take the CET-4 and passed it smoothly. This has left enough time for preparing for the CET-6, and my CET-6 score is still anxiously waiting for the result.

This is what I will tell you later. You must get the qualification of Level 4 for the first time. Don't think you can pass it. Those who come out of the CET-4 examination room and learn endlessly have no fighting spirit. What you should consider is not passing, but necessity. What can I do if I can't even pass the small band four in a year? You must get a score of 550 or above to qualify for the national oral exam. This oral proof is very valuable! Of course, I hope you don't retake Band 4 for the oral exam. I hope you can go up for the first time. Of course, at least you have to pass CET-4 first, because once you pass it, you will still take CET-4 the next time everyone else passes CET-6. If you lose face, you will feel inferior. Three people will speak CET-6 one after another. You have a band 4 workbook that others will despise, and you don't even want to do it yourself! ! Moreover, after junior year, many compulsory courses have to be completed, the difficulty of specialized courses has increased in vain, and the number of subjects has suddenly increased. Normal students have to take vocational examinations such as speech and teaching skills. How can they have time to review English? What is even more frightening is that you can learn English once in your junior year, but the vicious circle is getting lower and lower every year, and the final result is to exhaust the test limit or give up directly. I hope you can go out and study together. By the way, it's best to take Grade 8 in sophomore year, because it won't affect morale, and students who have the enthusiasm to go abroad won't affect the progress of GRE and iBT.

//Add now:

Freshman, learn your professional courses well. It is the most important thing to practice eloquence. At the end of the freshman year, the speech skills teacher had a speech exam, and the teacher didn't tell you what the purpose of the exam was, which made you feel that you didn't pay much attention. Many people copied the manuscript, and some even forgot to say a few words, and no one cared. However, this grade is directly included in the file, directly included in your graduation quality certificate, and once scored, it will be irreversible. ! ! ! If you don't get excellent speech results, employment will be a problem in the future! ! ! Entering a big company will also be doubted by the interviewer, because you don't have the ability to put in a good word in front of the whole class. What else can you do? ..... you will feel very strange. Why didn't the teacher tell you that this grade was so important before the exam? Because the school has regulations, how many people must be arrested to fail! ! ! If I really tell you, who will fail in case you really talk big? So please remember what I said today. One year later, in June, you must prepare well for that speech skill exam and get an excellent one! ! Otherwise, your employment will become a problem. ...

In addition, I recommend that you have ideal students to run for the high-quality student union, social association and student union of the school. A freshman keeps asking me what to do if being a cadre affects my study. When our high-quality student union was running for election, an interviewer asked us how to deal with the relationship between work and study. Do you know how I answered the question of how to deal with the relationship between work and study? My answer is: Never mind! ! It doesn't matter. Don't handle it. In fact, I'm telling you, it's completely wrong to think that work affects study! Why should students affect their study? Why will it affect your study? Do you think you spend so much time studying every day? Do you think you will always study without taking part in activities? That's not a nerd. Take me for example. Freshman participated in a student union, a lecture group and three departments and clubs, participated in the 16 competition and traveled three times. Even so, it takes up 1 hour on average every day, or even less. So, what time do you waste every day? Take shenyang jianzhu university as an example. Attention, this is a school! ! ! In a class, 80 people in a big classroom randomly took a minute, about 8 people were sleeping, 20 people were playing mobile phones, 15 people gave up and didn't want to listen, 25 people stared at the blackboard because they didn't understand ... subtract 80 to see how much was left? Someone asked me, why don't they understand Brother Xue? Why? Because I didn't understand last class, I forgot to make up! ! ! It's normal to not understand college courses sometimes, and it's normal to take sick leave. This is nothing, the key is that you have to make up for it! ! It is common to talk about 20 pages an hour in a college class. I don't know when I'm on leave, so I can teach myself or ask my classmates after class. If you don't do this, you won't understand in the next class, because knowledge is related! Then, I fell more and more, and finally I didn't want to make up ... So, in class, there was such a situation: those who played mobile phones, slept, were in a daze, and listened to gobbledygook, and it was a waste of time to "preview" their ......................................................................................... from the first page! Why is the president of the student union busy with so many things every day and still got the third place in the whole department? Because he made full use of class time! ! Because she has digested all the knowledge she needs to master in class! Classroom, this is your foundation! I have no classes for eight hours. After class, I study hard, light a lamp and burn some oil. What's that called? What a waste of time! If you digest your lessons every day and cherish your time, you won't learn much. 90% in science is easy. If you cherish the class time and actively use the scattered time, the first-class scholarship is not far from you. How do work activities affect your study? Is there 440 minutes of activity time every day? Many people usually lie in bed doing nothing. As soon as they arranged a job for him, he said that this time would delay his study. I don't know how much time he wasted in those nights when he couldn't get off the net and in the morning when he couldn't get up. !

Besides, being a school official is not to show off. When you enter an organized and disciplined group environment, you will gain a lot of friendship, a lot of touching and even unexpected love. You will also know what is the cultivation of ability. You will really know how people with dreams need to struggle! I strongly suggest that you read my blog "Yesterday to the Organization Department", look at the photos and messages of our vice minister when he left office, and look at those who are hard to give up. You will know how strong everyone's feelings are in a student union! How indispensable friendship is! One of my classmates asked me why I had so many friends, but he didn't. Some freshmen also asked me if there was any real friendship in college. Actually, I want to say that friendship needs fate and meeting. If your social circle is limited to classes, I dare not say no, but the chance is not great, because such a social circle is too small. A class is not a team. A team is defined as a group of people who share the same dreams and goals. In the class, there are those who take the postgraduate entrance examination, those who start businesses, those who call each other brothers in the society, and those who study hard to be bullies. How can we make everyone have the same goals and dreams? The student union is a team, and everyone goes all out for their own organization and shares joys and sorrows. In college, if you can't make a few close friends, no matter how many scholarships there are, it's meaningless, because that kind of college life is not perfect. Friendship is priceless. Of course, among all student organizations, the quality student union in the school has the best atmosphere.

//Sophomore and junior year is the top priority of your university. Whether you are NB or SB is really decided in these two years, usually it will be decided when you are a sophomore or a junior. Of course, the premise is that your freshman year must be full and complete. Otherwise, there may be no room for manoeuvre. The enrichment and completeness here include your studies, your career as a cadre, the activities and competitions you participated in, how much ability you have exercised, and how much experience you have accumulated (experience in organizing and planning activities, experience in solving troubles and misunderstandings, experience in operating computer systems and complex application software, experience in hosting debates, speech and calligraphy competitions, experience in running for office, singing and dancing, performing cross talk sketches, even helping teachers repair a projection, are all called experiences. Experience and experience are the greatest wealth in your life. It also includes how many connections you have and how many sincere friends you have. So if you don't want to be a B, please hurry up and work hard:)

Many freshmen ask me what it means to work hard. Hard work means that you should always be a hard worker. Some people say what this means. Let me give you an example. I also built a freshman group when I was a freshman (this is my second year and the last time). At first, I answered questions as a freshman, and some freshmen added my friends to facilitate the consultation on enrollment. I was not a QQ member at that time, so the maximum number of QQ friends was 500. My QQ has been set to add verification (there is no verification now). One of the reasons for restricting permissions is that the number of friends is really reaching the upper limit, so it is necessary to limit it. The other is to let all the people who are familiar with me or know me in case someone makes trouble. However, the most important thing is that many people don't know the answer to that verification question! ! At the beginning, my first question was "What is the passing score of CET-4 oral English". Some freshmen use reasons they don't know, and even this is the answer he filled in. Some even filled in "I am a freshman, so I don't know". I was very angry at that time, and I especially wanted to choose the option of permanently refusing to add this person! You are a freshman, so you don't know. Don't you think there is something wrong with logic? Why don't you know? Why don't you know? After the college entrance examination on June 8, my authority is August 8, 60 days! 60 days, sister! Haven't you done a set of papers for the 60-day CET-4? As a student about to enter the university, you don't even know the score of Band 4. Why should I add you? Why should I add you to a person who has no fighting spirit and ambition? You will take the CET-4 in June 5438+February. Do you know that?/You know what? It seems that there are not dozens of days now, right? You can guarantee this state, let alone 550 points? Some people say that just because I do the problem doesn't mean I want to know the score. I don't know what to do until school starts! I want to tell you that the value of the goal is huge, if you don't know the 550 points in CET-4! You can't fight for this. If you don't know that you can take the oral exam after passing 550, you think it's over, no matter how many points! Besides, it's all written in the diary. Some people even said that they read my diary. Why don't they remember? Then what's the use of reading it? Since what I wrote is not worthy of your attention, why should I add you?

I won't say anything else about freshmen and sophomores. You know, what about juniors? In junior year, students who need to take the postgraduate entrance examination can consider quitting the student union or changing the school cadres into school cadres. Because there was a lot of pressure in junior year. If there are a lot of things at school, I'm afraid some of them will eat too much or get tired of my body. Energetic students, I still suggest you try to run for chairman or minister, or you can go back to work in the department. You will find that when you really try to plan an activity, your working ability and comprehensive quality will be improved as never before! Especially your ability to resist pressure, communicate, express, think logically and solve problems! Of course, it still does. Work should not affect your study. When you interview in the future, the ranking of professional courses is a question that the examiner must ask, because it reflects your learning ability and intelligence. Study hard if you can. When in doubt, contact seniors more. Your luck is often this year. Don't waste it, or I will definitely curse you for becoming a b ... haha, just kidding.

Senior, I don't have any special suggestions. Please fight with your own conscience.

//Usually entering the third year of high school, there is basically not much to do. Those who want to do business can start tossing. Students who want to take the postgraduate entrance examination should still be struggling to do the problem. Students who want to go abroad should have got GRE scores by this time, and then someone will prepare to retake G. ...

Usually this time is the harvest season. In the first three years, how much you paid and how much you gained!

So I never envy NB people, and I never envy those who are in high positions. I always like to say, "They deserve it!" !

Yes, they all deserve it. If you have struggled in the university like your seniors and sisters, you are as old as me. At first, you memorized four words in military training, and recited speeches and manuscripts when you queued up for roll call in the morning exercises. I also sleep from 23: 00 to 5: 00 every day. On weekends, I either study in the library all day or participate in activities wholeheartedly in student organizations to exercise my ability. Then, two years later, even a year later, you will feel the same as me:

& lt I have given so much, and I deserve everything I have. Why should those idle people ask for the same harvest and life as me? >

In this way, I can naturally despise those students who have failed in any competition, no activities and no jobs! It's no coincidence that you are outstanding, because you know that in a certain period of time, when they are happy, you are suffering from hardships that only you know.

I didn't feel excited when I took the certificate of provincial excellence and the notice of the successful election of the small class teacher that day, because it was not my expectation, but I thought it was so natural. From being a monitor, I successfully entered the college student union and the school student union, won the first speech contest and set the first school record; I don't think these need to be excellent. This is a process, a natural process, and I can't get the final result if I go wrong.

Maybe you, like me, will suddenly think of what all this is for when you close the book in the middle of the night, and why are you working so hard? Please believe me and stick to it! You'll get something!

Someone asked me, how is your senior? Sorry, not being excellent is a habit and a realm that not everyone can achieve. But fortunately, I have been pursuing, working hard and not giving up for my dream. At least I'm still sticking to my career pursuit, at least I haven't let my parents take me a penny since I went to college! Scholarships and part-time income paid for all my tuition and living expenses. Someone asked me if I was bitter. I dare not say that I am not bitter, but at least I am happy when I am most bitter and tired. I never feel tired when I rush to the library against the morning sun at six every morning! On the contrary, what I am thinking is why the sunshine is so beautiful and why life is so beautiful!

Life is fair. The harder you work, the luckier you will be. Work hard and stick to it. How can I go back to the place I want to go most?

//Want to know what the result will be? I don't know what you will achieve in the end, but what I can tell you is that your achievements will always be directly proportional to your knowledge content, ability and experience! So don't be stingy to say that learning more and taking part in more competitions will waste your time.

I remember when I was a monitor in my freshman year, there was a class meeting to give awards to the champion of a single subject. Of course, I paid all the prizes at my own expense! As a result, a classmate wanted a photo of the class meeting, so I sent him a compressed package to the mailbox. She sent a text message "Sorry, monitor, I can't open the compressed package", and someone sent me a photo of my life, telling me "monitor, I can't send files on QQ" ... I was so angry at that time, you wouldn't, why not? 2 1 Why can't you be a post-90s generation in the information age? Why not? I'm not in a hurry to learn! ! Take the recruitment notice of teachers in Shenyang No.2 Middle School as an example: "Typing speed is above 65 per minute, you can often use computer applications and basic transmission tools and editing tools, you can skillfully use office2003 to make courseware, and you can use cooledit2. 1 to give an uninterrupted seven-minute impromptu speech in front of 300 people ..." If you have studied the recruitment notice, do you still allow these things to be impossible for yourself? Do you know why you don't want to? Because you haven't seen the job advertisement! Take a look, it will scare you. Better late than early to scare you!

I hope this won't happen to you. Don't think that many things are qualified without learning. Remember, you are a college student, and college is an independent era. You won't be in a hurry to learn them! Won't you be proud? The library is so big and the Internet is so convenient that you can't find what you want. Society is a society where the fittest survive, and nothing can stand in society. Haven't you studied the job posting? Don't you feel angry after reading the job advertisement?

Last but not least, observe the rules and regulations of the school. Don't think that if you break the school rules, you will be out of the limelight and arrogant. Remember: the teacher's good impression of you is more effective than anything else.

Don't be late for class and don't skip class easily.

Although what I said may be what your parents said, I think as a peer and an experienced person, you are more likely to accept my opinion.

The above is about your study. The following is about your life:

As the group announcement once said:

Four years is fleeting, before that, please think clearly about what you want!

I hope you can plan your life from now on. At the age of 30, what height do you hope to reach? 40? 50? After 50 years old?

It is said that people should have ideals. Personally, I prefer to call it faith.

Remember, there are only two kinds of people in the world, winners and losers. The middle class is disappearing. If you are mediocre, you will only be killed in the end.

Many people don't pay much attention to life planning, thinking that planning is just a useless thing.

Many students around me feel the same way.

So they are doing nothing, surfing the internet all day, or lying down playing with their mobile phones, doing nothing, sleeping in class, which shows that they are present. Finally, when their test scores are below 75, they still feel nothing.

Yes, you don't care, you take everything for granted, because this is the university, the unfettered university in your eyes!

The first sentence that many freshmen and my QQ friends ask is "How is school?" I am too lazy to answer such a question. Really, what you should consider now is not whether the school is good or not, but whether you can seriously understand what the teacher teaches you in this not-so-good school. Can you cherish the learning conditions and ability training provided to you? The only library in China that won the International Luban Prize has a collection of 70 million books. Can you read it all?

Many comments on bohai university on the Internet are not good, all written by students. He didn't study hard himself. In order to cover up his four years of depravity, he said that the school was not good to him. In fact, there is only one kind of person who is qualified to say that the school is not good, that is, you are both the school leader and party member, and you have won the first prize in all competitions offered by the school, and your academic performance is balanced and perfect. Only such a person has the right to say that the school is not good because he is in charge of everything. So he can say that the school is not good! Because the school can't continue to train him better! If you can't do this, you are not qualified to say that the school is not good, because you don't need it, you can't do it, you can't do it well! Is it worth saying that school is not good?

As I said, I recommend you to read the diary in the library today. Thousands of people waited before the library opened in the morning, and all the study rooms on the two floors were full at 5: 40. Which school can do this kind of learning atmosphere? Can you give me an example?

So what a book and two books, what the reputation of the department, that's bullshit! When you get into the student union, go to the annual job fair with the chairman. As soon as people come up, they ask you directly: What's your ranking in professional courses? Have you ever won a study scholarship? Of the seven items in your quality certificate, how many are excellent? Are you a school-level student cadre? Have you ever been a monitor in a university? Are you a member of the speech group? How many certificates have you obtained for speaking contest and hosting contest? If you can give satisfactory answers to these questions, the answer is yes! And show the evidence, then you basically sign away. Therefore, it is negative and depraved to say that it is difficult for college students to find jobs. It is also meaningless to look at the ranking of their professional employment rate in the school when they enter school. . . Employment depends on your ability, not education, not major, nor employment rate. . .

Do you know why college students can't find jobs now? Because college students can't find jobs, 70% don't set goals, 80% fail courses, 90% don't get the certificate of speech contest or simulated class contest, 95% don't work as a class cadre, and 99.9% don't get "excellent" results in the freshman speech skills exam! ..... The truly powerful people have signed the contract before their senior year. I just hope that all of you will not be examples of running around in job fairs to make a living after graduation.

If a person doesn't have any faith all his life, then he will be very sad, in short, tragedy ... I don't want you to be slaves of money, I hope you can work happily in your favorite posts in the future and get enough money to make you worry about your livelihood.

If you still have a little regret about your muddled high school, please try your best to give those who laughed at your failure in the college entrance examination a revenge smile with your four years of blood and tears!

I'm from Tian Shuo, bohai university, and I'm just his net friend.