The legend of Jianghu hybrids

I'm Ling Xiaoling, born in 1980s, Scorpio, a round girl who loves to laugh. Because he was born at the junction of Jiangxi and Hunan, he often plays jokes on others. I am a "hybrid".

Growing up in the countryside, childhood life was accompanied by joys and sorrows, but most of the memorable fragments were enjoyment. I am the eldest of three brothers and sisters in our family. When I was a child, I used to play house and hide and seek.

In spring, we go to the mountains to pick mushrooms and pull out spring seedlings, and follow our friends to catch loach in the fields; In summer, we catch fish in the stream, and the high mud slope is our slide. We even went to the mountains to steal watermelons. In autumn, we go to other people's homes to steal oranges on bicycles; In winter, grilled fish in the cave, fried popcorn in the field, baked sweet potatoes and baked taro are all sources of my happiness. Every time I look back, I still have a smile on my lips.

Children in rural areas have to work, do laundry and cook, wash dishes and sweep the floor, carry water and transplant rice seedlings, collect rice and cut grass ... At that time, I didn't have great ambitions, but I felt really tired of doing farm work and didn't want to do it all my life. The only way out for rural children is to study, get out of the ravine with the power of knowledge and change their destiny. But I was not smart, and finally I was admitted to a third-rate undergraduate university in Nanchang.

This university opened the door to a new world for me. For the first time, I feel that the world outside the ravine is so rich.

When I was in college, I used various methods to earn pocket money for myself except studying. In my spare time, I work in a restaurant near my school with a few close classmates. Besides making money, I can also have a good meal. Take the money you earn in exchange for material satisfaction, not to mention how happy you are.

I have tried all kinds of part-time jobs. Wholesale socks with my girlfriend, sell them one by one in each dormitory, and set up stalls in urban areas. After encountering the urban management, I experienced a flight-like evacuation. I have done computer training and enrollment, accounting computerization training and enrollment, and later I have been a training teacher of accounting computerization. I have been to Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics and Nanchang University to train students there. I have been to the factory in Dongguan during the winter and summer vacations, promoted the maternal and child swimming pool in Shenzhen, and worked in Chinese and Western restaurants in Shanghai ... These experiences have refreshed my cognition step by step and made me realize how important a stable job is.

Because of these rich experiences and cognition, I attended the campus job fair at the beginning of my freshman year, and finally signed a work contract with China Railway after all kinds of soft grinding and hard foam.

Now think about it, the university laid my restless genes and cultivated my consciousness of making money.

? 20 1 1 Graduated from university and joined the China Railway Port and Shipping Bureau. I was assigned to work in Shanghai-Kunming high-speed railway, Xixian New Area, Shaanxi and Yunnan highway projects for two years. Gradually, I realized that the life on the construction site kept me away from the city and city life, and the whole person became closed. I don't know how to dress up at all, let alone make up. Should I dedicate my life to the mountains at the same age like a flower that should be in full bloom? No, this is not the life I want.

At that time, I was in love and went to the city for a date, at least two hours' drive. After a long time, I began to hesitate and formally had a long-term view on getting married and having children. Swinging from side to side, choosing to resign, but love failed to stay. I'm confused. Because of my rural background and out-of-control figure, I quit a relatively stable job ...

Although I found a job in Spring City soon, I was still trapped in emotional pain. Slowly, I tried to put all my energy into my work. After several months' hard work, I was sent to a subsidiary as the chief financial officer. Faced with a large number of unexposed works, I groped from scratch and gradually faded the pain in my heart.

Private enterprises are not as good as state-owned enterprises in terms of welfare and income. After a month, the expenses of rent, water, electricity and living expenses basically made me a moonlight family. My best friend who works in Shenzhen woke me up. I want to be born with no background, have a diploma, have an image but no image, lose weight quickly, and then go to a big city to work hard while I am young.

At that time, Sina Weibo was in full swing, and I showed my life through Weibo. I posted a blog post when I was at a loss, but I never thought it would be a turning point in my life. I was commented by a fan blogger, and they had a good chat, so they left each other WeChat. The other party works in a big city, and his vision and pattern are higher than mine. After we had known each other for a while, I resigned again-again because of love. This time, I got married with my "Weibo netizen", left Spring City, came to Shanghai, and gave birth to a child.

After coming to Shanghai, I worked in a commercial bank. New city, new job, new environment, previous financial work experience is almost useless, and everything starts again.

The first half of my career was a real low point in my life: my monthly salary was more than 1000, and my quarterly bonus was delayed. Pay salary on 10 every month, pay back the credit card on 1 1 day, and then deduct the rent. The cost of living is not low. I really realized that life without money is extremely embarrassing, and even a basic life is difficult to maintain. I began to doubt myself and deny myself, and my self-confidence was greatly hit. The pressure from all sides makes me hate myself, and it also inspires my fighting spirit of "making more money".

2065438+August 2005, with four or five thousand yuan in hand, I started my WeChat business career, acting as an agent for rimless underwear. The wish of "having a comfortable underwear" is not easy to realize at all. I have tried many kinds of underwear, from the cotton bra in the rural market of girlhood to the steel bra in adolescence, and then to the steel adjustable underwear with higher quality after work, but none of them can really satisfy me.

When I first came into contact with rimless underwear, I felt instantly relieved: I can still be so comfortable wearing the right underwear! Since then, I have made up my mind to let my customers experience this comfort. During the underwear agency, I served more than 200 customers, and I was very satisfied with underwear, which was affirmed by everyone. I feel that I am needed and valuable, which makes me feel particularly fulfilled.

Since then, WeChat business has been my sideline. In 20 17, due to the serious shape loss after delivery, I started to contact the honey trap and gently press the soft shaping clothes under the recommendation of my friends. Under my insistence, my figure has changed a lot, which also prompted me to become a brand agent. Up to now, I have brought the gospel to more than 100 female customers, and my inner sense of accomplishment is unparalleled.

With the development of the times, WeChat business is becoming more and more popular. After doing WeChat business for a long time, I gradually realized that simple friends circle advertisements have already fallen behind the requirements of the times. Such a rude brushing behavior is very unfavorable to my personal brand building. 2065438+I attended some paid courses in May 2009, and the online and offline training always refreshed my cognition. As an old WeChat merchant, I didn't understand until now that the circle of friends of seniors has its own traffic.

In the paid community, I have met many excellent female friends who are positive and full of positive energy, and actively show themselves on various social platforms. As a mother, I want to be a better self and a role model for my children, because I know that my state is the best role model for my children.

Up to now, I feel that my life is difficult to match me. I don't remember whether I have any unforgettable adversity. Maybe it's because I'm naturally optimistic and contented. I would like to take this opportunity to be grateful for all the causes of good and evil, and to meet them!