Tu Lei was criticized by CCTV, and no one understood his public apology. The public image collapsed. Will he burn to death?

In today's developed social media society, some public figures make some inappropriate behaviors in public places, which are often recorded on the Internet and spread rapidly, forming a bad influence. Tu Lei, a famous host, is no stranger to everyone.

Subsequently, Tu Lei began to apologize in the media amid criticism. However, Tu Lei's apology not only failed to calm the matter down, but attracted criticism from others, saying that he made excuses for his misconduct and did not sincerely repent. After all these criticisms, everyone said that Tu Lei had become cold. In fact, on the whole, although Tu Lei's behavior is unsightly, it won't be cool because of it.

After all, Tu Lei's mistakes only exist in daily life. The reason why it has attracted great criticism is actually caused by the media's wave-by-wave ban in order to gain attention and attract traffic. A careful analysis of his mistakes shows that his behavior did not have a huge negative impact on the public. However, as a public figure, Tu Lei made such a move, which is actually related to his personality.

The first is Tu Lei. Tu Lei is an active and distinctive host on the screen in recent years. His sharp comments often have a blockbuster effect and will leave a deep memory. However, when Tu Lei was in charge, he became a monk halfway. He didn't graduate from a regular broadcast host.

Tu Lei, who was born in Jiangxi, looked for a job just like ordinary people after graduating from college in his early years. Tu Lei is a typical man of science and engineering, with straightforward personality and direct speech.

And the early work was not smooth. After graduating from science and engineering, I worked in a bank as a clerk, secretary and so on. Tu Lei had many jobs when he was young, which made his work experience very rich, but none of them had brilliant achievements.

In 2004, Tu Lei ushered in a turning point in his life, and his fate was completely changed because he applied for a job in a TV station. At that time, Hunan Satellite TV's variety show was very popular, with bold wording and various columns constantly updated. In this case, there is a shortage of TV presenters.

As a result, we began to recruit program hosts widely for the society. At that time, Tu Lei saw that the post salary was relatively high, and Hunan TV station was also very powerful. So, he applied for the job with the mentality of trying. Although Tu Lei was born in science and engineering and never worked as a broadcast host, Tu Lei, then 37, had a deep and powerful voice, and his speech speed and voice were very good.

Therefore, after comprehensive consideration, the TV station made an exception and admitted Tu Lei. Then send him to an unpopular program as a host. This is equivalent to providing Tu Lei with an internship opportunity. The TV station also wants to carefully observe whether Tu Lei is suitable to be a host through real experience, and can also learn about Tu Lei's hosting style.

With the passage of time, Tu Lei gained a firm foothold in Hunan Satellite TV, and developed into an emotional mentor, career mentor and senior media commentator according to his accumulated social experience and his own language style.

With this successful career transformation, relying on Hunan Satellite TV, Tu Lei has changed from an unknown science and engineering man to a well-known host with a distinctive style and a household name in the domestic host industry.

Secondly, Tu Lei lost the support of many people. While enjoying great glory, public figures actually mean more severe challenges to themselves. They not only deal with business, but also pay great attention to personal behavior and moral constraints, as well as the details of life. Moreover, when misconduct occurs, it will inevitably face severe criticism.

Perhaps the most striking feature of Tu Lei is his straightforward personality and informal speech and handling affairs. This refreshing style is often conducive to the development of Tu Lei's career. But as a public figure, some practices that are too real are often attacked by people. Just like Tu Lei's action of stepping on the engine room wall, when people criticize Tu Lei, he may not think much, but instinctively give an explanation.

At that time, Tu Lei said that he had a slight varicose vein in his calf. The doctor advised him to pay more attention to "leg lifting" in his daily life. Especially in the case of sedentary for a long time, proper leg lifting is conducive to recovery and health. Therefore, when Tu Lei flew, he instinctively raised his foot and pushed it to his side. In addition, Tu Lei also explained that the slippers he wore on the plane were new and the cabin wall was not polluted by this action.

Tu Lei's explanation, in his own direct thinking, seems to be a complete statement of the reasons. But for many people, it seems that they are trying to justify their misconduct.

Based on different perspectives, Tu Lei's explanation did not eliminate people's misunderstanding of him. On the contrary, after Tu Lei made these remarks, people hated Tu Lei even more. In fact, if you carefully analyze this incident in Tu Lei, some things are wrong, even if you have difficulties.

However, when the public is questioning you, you only need to apologize sincerely and repent actively, which is often better than saying a lot of reasons, and it will make others feel sincere apology and leave a good impression. However, Tu Lei's apology seems a bit "self-defeating". It's really a pity that he lost a lot of good popularity instead of saving his reputation.

Third, even celebrities make mistakes. In fact, judging from what happened to public figures in recent years, there are indeed some things that are morally corrupt, violate the law and have unforgivable behaviors. However, there are still many public figures who actually just make some small mistakes in their lives that are no different from ordinary people.

However, it is precisely because of their high concern that they are caught by the media and netizens, and small things become big things, and the final price paid far exceeds the basic category of the problem itself.

Calm down and think about it. In fact, in daily life, maybe people are sometimes too harsh on public figures. Apart from enjoying the infinite scenery, they are not transcendent saints in their daily life. Sometimes it's normal to make a little mistake accidentally.

Objectively speaking, the punishment should not be too heavy. Therefore, as an ordinary audience, sometimes we should treat the small mistakes of public figures calmly and objectively, and we can criticize them, but we can't exaggerate them.

Four: Tu Lei's "paste" is caused by his own career planning. After this incident, many people said that Tu Lei was "burned". In fact, apart from public criticism, there is another main reason, that is, Tu Lei's appearance rate and the number of times he participated in the program are obviously not as much as before. Indeed, this is also an indisputable fact. However, Tu Lei reduced or quit recording programs not because of the plane incident, but because of his own career plan.

This is actually understandable. Judging from his age, Tu Lei is in his forties this year, and he is middle-aged. He worked hard for more than 20 years before, enjoying his success and fame and fortune. There are old people and young people in the world. The task of supporting the elderly and educating their children is very heavy. Therefore, it is understandable that Tu Lei reduced the appearance rate and left time for life.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) Summary: We can also see that Tu Lei is not as "cool" as some stars who made big mistakes. What happened to him on this plane was not as serious as everyone thought. The reason why he faded out of public view and chose to return to his family was actually an important choice in his life.