Pelvic recruitment

Children are naive, romantic, simple and lovely. Their world is simple and their life is full of beauty. Parents always try their best to protect them and let them grow up as far away from danger as possible.

However, the older a child is, the longer it takes to leave his parents' sight, and the longer it takes for the child to face the society alone. At this time, safety awareness is very important.

Parents need to teach their children to distinguish bad guys and cultivate awareness of prevention, which is an extremely important point in education, and its importance is no less than the compulsory courses such as Chinese, mathematics and English that must be learned in textbooks.

Girls, in particular, should understand the difference between men and women. When they grow up, they should be taught about sex. Avoid physical contact with strange men, and don't be alone with strange men.

But some parents not only don't teach their children basic sexual knowledge, but also oppose others' teaching.

Last year, some netizens shared a case on the online platform, which caused controversy.

The girl is 9 years old and a teacher at school is pregnant. The students are curious about this. The class teacher took the opportunity to popularize the knowledge about the difference between men and women and pregnancy.

As a result, the girl's mother was not happy about it, but very angry. She doesn't understand the behavior of the head teacher. She not only hacked the class teacher, but also sued the class teacher at the principal, and she was outspoken about the teacher's behavior on the online platform.

The mother thinks that her daughter is only 9 years old and should not receive sexual enlightenment at all. What's more, she says that her knowledge of pregnancy is a mess.

The mother threatened: "The child is too young to understand."

Maybe in your eyes, your daughter is still young and a baby. But in the eyes of bad people, 9-year-old children are not small at all, but just right. If she happens to know nothing, the difference between men and women, and what sex is, it is the best for the bad guys.

We have been teaching children kindness, hoping that they have great love in their hearts, love themselves, love their parents, love their teachers, love their friends, respect everyone around them and be kind to others. However, the premise of kindness should be based on the premise of being able to protect yourself. Before being kind, you should also know what a human belly is.

In 2008, a vicious crime occurred in South Korea.

There is a little girl named Na Ying. When she was only 8 years old, she was caught by a demon on her way to school and she was abused. As a result, her pelvis was fractured, her large intestine was necrotic, and many organs were destroyed. She has to hang a shit bag all her life, and there is almost no possibility of having a baby.

This case is the prototype of Su Yuan, an 8-year-old girl in the movie Su Yuan.

Through movies, we can know that it was raining lightly on the day of Su Yuan's accident. Su Yuan met a demon on her way to school. The devil is a tramp. The tramp said he wanted Su Yuan to give him an umbrella. The kind Su Yuan did not refuse, which led to the tragedy.

The tramp committed inhuman violence and aggression against Su Yuan.

The movie itself is disgusting, chilling and depressing, but you and I should both know that the movie is a movie after all, and the reality behind it is often more terrible.

Don't think that tragedy will only happen abroad.

A 4-year-old girl from Heilongjiang disappeared overnight and was sent home by her 54-year-old male neighbor the next day. Her family found that the child was violated and was injured all over, and was sent directly to the ICU for rescue.

Therefore, parents, don't stop educating their children because they are young. Demons don't stop committing crimes just because your children are young. You should start teaching when the children are gradually sensible.

Recently, another tragedy happened. A girl of 17 years old went to play with a male classmate in Yueyang, Hunan. As a result, she disappeared for 7 days and was found dead. Her body was only wrapped in sheets.

We can almost guess what this girl as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade has experienced, but none of us can imagine how heartbroken and desperate her parents should be.

Can't this pile of bloody cases alert parents?

If you are a parent, please tell your children, especially girls, never to be alone with the opposite sex, especially at night, especially strange opposite sex.

People's hearts and stomachs are separated, and you never know who is sitting opposite you and who is the devil.

The best way is to stay away from danger and not to test human nature, which is often tempted and tested.

Lack of sexual knowledge will lead to other tragedies.

From time to time, it is reported in the news that a college student abandoned his baby after giving birth, and even threw the newborn baby upstairs.

The lack of sexual knowledge makes these girls don't know how to protect themselves, which leads to unexpected pregnancy, and even they don't know that they are pregnant at the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know what was wrong with my body until I was pregnant or even about to give birth in June.

While they are angry, they feel more sad.

Girls must know how to protect themselves. Physical differences between men and women lead to unprotected sex. After that, the most painful thing must be the girls.

There was once a girl who didn't care when she went to the hospital to have an abortion. Her mother was crying, but she didn't care. She even shouted, "Isn't it nice to get rid of the child?"

She doesn't know the harm of abortion, abortion and induced labor, and how much harm it does to her body. The uterus was scraped over and over again, thinner than paper. How can she get pregnant when she wants to be a mother in the future?

And how innocent the aborted child was. He was still in his stomach, and before he could have a look at the world, he was ruthlessly strangled.

It is the lack of sexual knowledge, ignorance of the origin of life and lack of reverence for life that causes harm to others and themselves.

China's parents are too reserved and ashamed to spread the gender differences, sexual safety, sexual protection and sexually transmitted diseases to their children, which leads to the above situation.

When children ask their parents how they came into this world, some parents begin to make up something, such as something sent by a fairy, something that fell from the sky, or even something they bought themselves. What a terrible excuse.

Children are precocious than their parents think, and they urgently need this knowledge to defend themselves. Furthermore, your child knows nothing, but people with ulterior motives know everything, which aggravates the child's injury.

Besides girls, boys may also be the targets of criminals.

There was once a case where a person met another person who claimed to be a recruiter while looking for a job. The recruiter took the candidate to the hotel room, claiming that he would not be disturbed here. The candidate was unconscious after drinking the drinks prepared by the recruiter in advance.

When the applicant woke up again, he found that the recruiter had already disappeared. He felt unwell, so he went to the hospital and found that he had been violated.

The reality is so absurd that anything can happen, regardless of age or sex, it is possible to become a victim.

Therefore, parents, whether male or female, should teach their children where not to go, no matter who that person is and how good the reasons are. Try to socialize in public and don't drink drinks provided by others, especially those that have been opened.

Criminals are everywhere, and only by raising awareness of prevention can we stay away from danger as much as possible. Only by knowing more knowledge can we protect ourselves better.

A father once put a box of condoms in his daughter's backpack. He said to his daughter, "When you grow up, your father won't listen much, but you must protect yourself."

Such a simple sentence, seemingly innocuous, is full of a father's insecurity about his daughter, which makes an outsider like me feel sour.

This is a father's bottom line.

Whether you admit it or not, children grow up day by day and drift away, and one day they will face everything in life alone, whether it is good or bad. Parents must educate their children about the most basic sexual knowledge and let them know how to protect themselves.

If you don't teach, when the bad guy comes to teach, he will let your child learn these things at the cost of ruining his life. It will be too late to come back and regret it.

Please let your children learn sexual knowledge as soon as possible. Sexual knowledge is not a shameful thing, but a common sense of life that must be mastered.