I am a college graduate, majoring in mechanical design. After learning it well, can I go to the United States for employment or even settle down?

It can only be said that it is very difficult, very difficult, and it is not easy to find a good job in China after graduating from an ordinary university majoring in mechanical design.

However, who can say for sure about this matter of life? I saw a story in Zhihu today, so I'll show it to you. Never set limits for yourself.

The following is the transfer ~

I have a female friend (I am a woman, thank you), and her life is an inspirational drama.

After seeing her, I know that Korean dramas are not all made up ... "Make up your mind and one day you will reach the other side of the light" and other comic ideas are actually true!

Briefly describe her experience:

She is a girl who grew up in an ordinary family without any background.

Because I wanted to go abroad, I studied English in college and went to work in a foreign trade company.

Because I like Love Hotel, I quit my job and went to work at Hilton.

Because I wanted to see life overseas, I worked hard and was finally transferred to Hilton Japan.

I want to be a pilot, because when I saw the Hilton Japan Hotel on TV, a handsome pilot came in with a suitcase and a uniform.

I want to learn to fly because I want to be a pilot.

Because there is no civil pilot training course in China, I asked around and finally found out that the US military stationed in South Korea can, but it is only open to Americans and employees of the US Embassy.

Because she wanted to get the qualification of training in the US military base in South Korea, she went back to South Korea to find a way to apply for the staff of the embassy, but because the university major had nothing to do with politics and economy, she was dismissed.

Because she didn't want to give up, she made a lot of efforts and finally sent an application letter to the ambassador's wife and became her private secretary.

After working for one year, she took part in flight training with the recommendation letter from the ambassador.

Then she finished the Korean part of the course and got a private photo.

Then I went to America, took a business photo and started to work. (I used to rely on my own savings, and then I relied on bank loans. )

After flying for a while, she found that the American aviation market was saturated, and male pilots had not been captains for decades, let alone female pilots.

So she thought of China, which is recruiting a large number of pilots.

However, China Airlines will not recruit a young female pilot casually. They like to recruit experienced middle-aged male pilots in their forties and fifties.

So she thought of "saving the country by curve".

So she passed the qualification of flight instructor.

Then she went to an aviation school in China as a teacher. After getting familiar with the situation, she established her own contacts and began to enter the aviation circle in China.

A year later, she was successfully hired by an airline.

After more than three years and many twists and turns, she finally became the captain.

She can speak, read and write Japanese, English, Chinese and Korean fluently.

She likes playing golf and single sledding, and once won the second place in this project in Korea.

After she arrived in China, she began to study piano and illustration. Now she is invited by a Korean publishing house to do illustrations.

She has a wonderful love life. When her boyfriend has a candlelight dinner, she will surprise him. She will change into a dress and go to the piano to play the piano and sing a song. Finally, she will take out a cake made by herself. The cream painting on it is her and his oath.

I asked her what her next goal was, and she said that she wanted to take part in international golf competitions, and further, she might enter politics and eventually become a female ambassador or something.

I believe she can do it.

I admire her very much, because she told me with her own example, "Never set any" restrictions "for yourself, as long as you work hard, you will always achieve your desired goals", and before that, I would feel naive and unrealistic to believe such words. But after her, I found that it was myself who had long lost my dream and passion for participating in the competition.

So after knowing her, I also made a major decision in my career, bravely changed and transformed, and gave up a lot, but in the end, I succeeded.

Before her, I worshipped many great men from afar, but she was the first person who existed in real life and made people admire her.

P.S. I asked her, how can I learn so much and do everything quite well?

She told me: only care about one thing and don't think about anything else.

For example, if she flies an Airbus plane, she will never care about Boeing's aircraft structure. You know, when I first told her that "Boeing 767 has no winglets", she asked me doubtfully, "Really? "I don't know, how do I feel completely struck by lightning. But in fact, she is.

Update:

My sister has returned to Korea and bought a house in Jiangnan District. It is said that the next goal is to open the ash machine for President Park.

By the way, my sister began to learn Boeing.