How should a stay-at-home mother communicate with her child when she wants to find a job?

When children are ignorant and cannot listen to the truth, sometimes they should be more simple and rude.

Tell him directly that his mother is not his servant and that she has to do what she needs to do. Tell him the world doesn't revolve around him.

After he cries for a few days, he will accept staying in the day care class for more than an hour. I don’t think that when parents communicate with their children about their own affairs, everything is told from the child’s perspective. This will make the children have the concept of “Mom and Dad are here to serve me” and even think that they can manipulate their parents. Behavior, if parents don't listen to you, it means that the parents are not good to themselves. It is very scary to form this kind of demanding thinking.

Earning money from work is more considered from the perspective of the entire family. This is more conducive to the stability of the family and the mother's personal development. By the way, the higher the income, the more toys can be bought. If the child can't accept it, you have to accept it forcefully. This is not a discussion with him, but just telling him a decision. Let your children know that some things are for negotiation and some things are not negotiable.