Is a 20-year-old Lao girl happy when she marries a 50-year-old uncle from rural Henan?

A Lao girl in her twenties married a rural uncle in her fifties in Henan. Many people are curious. Are they happy? According to informed sources, every anniversary, my uncle will remember to buy her gifts and often cook for his wife. Now that they have children, they can be said to have reached the peak of their lives. So far, this is a very happy ending.

It is a beautiful dream that an old man seldom has a wife. In this dream, women are like water and men are mature and charming. It gives you happiness in the most concentrated and direct way. However, dreams always wake up. It gives you the sweetest dream and the clearest awakening. As time goes on, an old man and a young wife may face the following problems.

First, differences in living habits. Different ages lead to different living habits and hobbies. After all, as the saying goes, "there is a generation gap at the age of three", not to mention in today's rapid development era.

Second, physical differences. Nowadays, many companies have age restrictions on recruitment or extreme sports. This is not discrimination, but the application of maximizing resources. After all, middle-aged people are really inferior to young people in physical strength and energy.

Third, the difference between the three views. The old husband and the young wife have different life experiences and different levels of understanding of the world, which leads to different values, world outlook and outlook on life. These differences are reflected in daily hobbies, behaviors and communication.

Fourth, the contradiction with family. One of the most important problems for remarried families is how to deal with the children left by remarried wives and ex-wives. Because of the sensitivity of the identity of both parties, it is best to handle it properly. Once handled improperly, they will become incompatible.

Fifth, the pressure brought by public opinion guidance. Such couples usually face the pressure of public opinion when they get married. In the old people's or secular cognition, this is an unconventional thing, which can't be accepted frankly, and it can easily become a topic for others to talk about after dinner. For example, "Old cows eat young grass". The pressure of public opinion is terrible. It can always easily destroy a person's strength and disintegrate a person's mind.

In fact, in celebrity circles, people often see the combination of old couples and young wives. For example, Jin Yong and Lin Leyi, Li Ao and Wang Xiaotun, Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan. Why do they look so harmonious? First of all, they are masters, higher than our lives. Secondly, it is based on worship and full support from the rear. Finally, compared with ordinary people, they are more free and pay more attention to spiritual pursuit. Without our practical obstacles, their lives would not be dominated by daily necessities.

In fact, most people in life are ordinary people. Our responsibility is really great, daily necessities, family ties. Remember, it is best to choose the one that suits you best.