At the age of 5, I have no enthusiasm for my work. I hope to retire. Is there something wrong with my mentality?

I'm glad to answer your question: I'm 5 years old, and I have no enthusiasm for my work. I hope to retire. Is there something wrong with my mentality? Related issues.

I don't think it's a matter of mentality. I'm almost your age now, and I'm about to turn 5. Maybe it's the end of my career, and it's also the day to count my retirement every day.

I also muddle along at work, without any enthusiasm, as long as I can't find anything wrong with my work scope, and I don't want to make progress or get promoted at all.

Now I seem to be muddling along every day, just looking forward to doing something I like and can do after retirement.

Some colleagues my age share the same mentality. Maybe I didn't do a vigorous career when I was young, just looking forward to retirement to realize my dream?

at our age, we used to deal with pots and pans every day and revolve around our husbands and children all day. Now that the children have grown up, we should change our ways.

What we can do at this age is to live happily every day, be healthy and safe. From time to time, I also come to a trip that says I will leave, which is worthy of myself and my family.

well, that's all for today's answer. You are welcome to express your different views in the comments section.

I feel that this problem mainly lies in my mentality. When I am old, I have no energy to do anything. When I am young, I feel full of strength. Our leader is 59 years old and a strong woman. She just came back from studying in Qingdao today and is going to give us a lecture next week. Her husband's terminal cancer took more than two years, so she took care of him in front of the bed, cooking day and night, and eating and living in a thoughtful and meticulous way, which touched all the employees. At the beginning of this year, after her husband left, she was depressed. It took 1 days to start a business trip and study. She is under a lot of pressure, but she always works hard. I really admire her.

I feel that we just need to live a full life, care for the elderly, communicate with the children, do a good job in logistics, be generous to ourselves and our partners, and have a big picture, so as not to be angry with useless people, and our health will naturally be fine.

at 5, people are over 5, and they are half buried. They have seen all kinds of human feelings in the world, and they have experienced vicissitudes, whether they are happy or bitter. Let it go slowly!

The saddest thing is that my brother who grew up together left in front. He was a senior who graduated from the same school when he was a child. He was the closest person in my life and a teacher and friend. He helped me to comfort me when I was in trouble and accompanied me through the hard times. I can't accept his departure until now. When I saw him for the last time, my brother said to me faintly, "Have a good life." Before leaving, I knelt down and thanked my brother for his care for me for many years. In the future, I will say goodbye to heaven and man forever, crying my heart out.

I understand the meaning of life and death, despise money and ugliness. My wife says that I am becoming more and more inhuman and unsociable, and may be stimulated by my brother's departure. Nowadays, people in the world are so bad that they are being cheated, bullied, and feuded with colleagues. The last and most precious emotional brother's departure is the eternal pain in the second half of my life. I can't hear his open-minded relief anymore, and my mind is nowhere to say, as if my soul has nowhere to put it!

There is little time from the Moon Festival to the Mid-Autumn Festival, and people are in a state of mind when they are middle-aged. However, life will not let you stop, so slowly spread your legs and continue to walk. Retirement is also a life, and progress is also a life. Then try it, and you should face the disgusting title again. Say to yourself that it will not be disgusting if you look disgusting enough! Think of what my brother said to me, "live a good life"!

for you city people, retirement is a very happy thing. And it is the most painful thing for us rural people.

I'm 5 years old this year, and I'm still not active there. I'm still working hard to save more pension money. If you don't save enough money for providing for the aged by the age of 6, it's very unfortunate. The rural old-age care now depends entirely on the state, and it's still a little unrealistic. You city people have thousands of retirement wages for one month. Playing cards and dancing in the square dance are good times for you after retirement.

5-year-old city dwellers who are still working, be content! Life can be safe and healthy. It's better to be less than the last, more than the next, and enjoy your old age.

As long as you are not a leader, everyone will have such a mentality. After working for 3 years, you always feel physically and mentally exhausted and look forward to retiring early.

5 years old is an awkward age in the company. In the company, if you do too much, young people will have no chance. If you do nothing, leaders will have opinions. Leaders are much younger than themselves, and it is unnatural to get along.

At this time, I will definitely look forward to a retired life. I will be free with my pension and can do something I want. Compared with the current life of nine to five, it will definitely be much easier.

In fact, 5 years old has not reached the retirement age, and he is officially in prime of life and experienced working age, but he is unable to lift his spirits. I think we should adjust our mentality, stand on guard for the last shift, and re-create brilliance.

a few days ago, a state-owned enterprise made a backup recommendation, and several middle-aged people over the age of 5 saw that their names were no longer in the roster of reference personnel. At that time, I asked the personnel why our names were not on the reference list. The personnel replied that younger people are now engaged, and those over 5 years old are no longer included in the reserve.

after the age of 5, the company has abandoned it, not to mention "future", and even the qualification for competitive employment has been cancelled. If you say to make them enthusiastic, we won't believe you if you kill them. What makes them chilling is mechanism, environment and discrimination. Chicken soup is going to be sprayed again. Who told you not to work hard at the age of 5? You deserve not to be on the list. Why do ordinary people dislike chicken soup? How many people can counterattack because they drink chicken soup? Yes. But, can it become a common law?

fifty people know the destiny, and after knowing the destiny, they still maintain their enthusiasm for "career", which is "high spirits" and enthusiasm declines, which is a natural law.

Look at those rich and powerful people who are still changing blood at the age of 5 and want to live for another 5 years. That's because the hormones of desire continue to burn.

ordinary people, who have been ravaged by life for decades, have long wanted to unload their burdens and live for themselves for several years. What's wrong with mentality? Is it not the mentality of all sentient beings? Not satisfied? Give you a rich and powerful position, do you think you will be full of chicken blood right away?

In the domestic workplace, every company wants to "eat the sweetest middle part of sugarcane" by bullying the old and the young, refusing to recruit those who are young and inexperienced, and refusing to recruit those who are old and burdened. You will say, this is a private enterprise, and people pursue the maximization of interests, but will it be better within the system?

within the system, the division of age is even more cruel. At the age of 34, I couldn't mention the minor course, so I was basically suppressed. At the age of 39, if you can't get a place pair place, your career space will be capped. At the age of 44, my career is over. Especially now, it is advocated to use the post-9 s, and the older people, even the unit advises you not to toss about, is it not good to be at leisure? Keep the treatment and make room for young people. You are also making use of your residual heat and making contributions.

even if you have enthusiasm, the company won't let you have enthusiasm. Many units in the system began to retire from the second line at the age of 45, and they were basically across the board at the age of 5. At the age of 5, I retired from the second line. Some units even left their offices and desks, so I asked you to go home and carry out salary research.

this is the general mentality in society. Not to mention the high-paying Internet and high-tech companies. At the age of 35, they face the risk of being "aged" and kicked out. What about other industries? Are they more popular as they get older? In addition to "experienced occupations" such as doctors and teachers, middle-aged and elderly technicians become more and more popular as they get older, and all walks of life actually expect middle-aged and elderly people to make room for young people. This is a common phenomenon.

There are too many Chinese people, and the young people are screaming. The middle-aged and old people are capable of replacing you at a low cost. It's really that the waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves before them, and the waves before them are shot to death on the beach. Are old people not working hard? That's not true. This is a serious imbalance between the supply of labor and talents, and the contradiction between supply exceeding demand is too prominent. Only middle-aged and elderly people can give up their jobs. Then, without the stimulation of "career desire", who can keep their enthusiasm?

the first one is to "sell" the position automatically. For example, when people reach middle age, their wealth is free, their children and families are happy, and even they have added children and grandchildren. They have worked hard all their lives and want to go home and enjoy their family happiness. This is open, take the initiative to "retire". This kind of person, has been detached, adjusted his mentality early, and belongs to the happiest class of people.

the second is to passively "give up" the position. For example, units within the system retire from the second line at the age of 5, transfer to logistics at the age of 5, and so on. This is a one-size-fits-all mechanism for the unit. Whoever reaches the "point" will step back and let the young people do it. Otherwise, the young people will be crushed one after another.

the third is to passively "force out" the position. For example, enterprises outside the system, 5-year-old people in the workplace, basically belong to middle and high-level or business and technical backbone, and their annual salary is twice that of young people. The young people they have trained can replace them in a few years. Young people are obedient, motivated, low-paid and easy to use. As managers, fools don't want to metabolize.

the fourth is that Buddha treats all this. For example, many middle-aged people have experienced wind and rain, suffered setbacks, and seen through the sadness of the world and the essence of right and wrong. Others have been cheated by their superiors, cheated by friends, and beaten by colleagues, and so on. In short, it is to see through the truth of the workplace, take the initiative to free you, maintain a Buddhist attitude towards work and interpersonal relationships, take things as they are, and stop. There is no need to be "enthusiastic".

the fifth one is pessimistic and disappointed. I struggled before I was 5 years old, and I wanted to do well. Because of my limited ability, I didn't succeed. I was still a small worker, clerk and clerk. I gave up my pursuit completely, and I was just lazy, wishing I could retire early. There are still some people who have the ability, but the opportunity is not good. They missed a promotion, failed to catch up step by step, and were disheartened and gave up on themselves. There are still some people who are capable, but they are squeezed out and suppressed. People who are running away from relationships and giving gifts climb to the top of their heads. They are not convinced and even more uncomfortable, so they simply retire early. Wait a minute.

in a word, forty is not confusing, and fifty knows destiny. Since you know your destiny, you should know what you need. Freedom of wealth, active choice to give up "work enthusiasm" and make room for young people is commendable. I haven't achieved wealth freedom, but I've worked hard all my life and I'm tired. It's no harm to have a rest. It is also worthy of respect to see through the indifference of the world and extricate yourself without causing trouble to the society. It is even more admirable to continue to maintain the passion for struggle and rejuvenate the second spring.

"I'm 5 years old, and I have no enthusiasm for work. I look forward to retirement. Is there something wrong with my mentality?"

I think there is nothing wrong with my mentality. After working for decades, I do the same work like a donkey's mill every day, and every day is repeated day after day, and no one will lose their passion.

Work can keep us hungry, but we can't get rich. Year after year, our best youth is wasted in a monotonous and boring work life.

The world is so big and colorful, why should we live a monotonous life?

what kind of life we want to live, we must try our best to realize our dreams little by little. Otherwise, as we get older, what we reap is not necessarily poverty, but it must be aging. This is a natural law, and no one can avoid it.

But we can make our life more interesting and quality. This requires us to keep learning every day and keep moving forward. When we are making continuous progress, we will continue to discover different beautiful scenery.

after work, we can do things we are interested in, which can inject vitality and vitality into our lives. In this way, every day of life will be fun, not without the passion of life and nothing interesting.

[No matter how old you are, if you keep thinking "Ah, I'm this old ...", then you're finished!

She was once described as "I worked at the age of 71, fell in love at the age of 86, won the prize at the age of 12, and didn't have time to die."

When many people her age are enjoying their old age, she decided to pick up the camera and record everything she wanted. She spent six years traveling all over Japan and interviewing many people.

She later held a photo exhibition and wrote a book about what she saw and heard.

every day, she can't learn English, read and do yoga.

At the age of 1, Sakamoto won the Best Dressed Award.

At the age of 12, Sakamoto won the highest award in the world photography industry-the lifetime achievement award for photography.

The funniest thing is that when she was 96 years old, she wrote a card to express her love to a French sculptor, Charles. Charles didn't reply, so she was depressed and thought she was rejected. She later learned that Charles had a heart attack and died.

I think her mentality should be a few decades younger than her actual age, so that she can still have love in her heart and confess to her beloved.

there is love in the heart, which is the magic weapon for youth to stay. Pursuit will make your life full of passion.

I once saw an old man with a long life. He said that if you want to stay young, you should deal with the opposite sex more. When he was ill and needed an operation, he said to the doctor, "I don't want anesthesia, just arrange a beautiful nurse to stand by." As a result, the doctor really arranged for a beautiful nurse to stand by him, but he simply didn't give anesthetic to let the doctor finish the operation. You see, beautiful women can counteract painkillers.

compared with 15-year-old Yoko Sasamoto, 5 years old is still in the prime of life. When a person's mentality changes, it will suddenly become clear.

To be a person with pursuit and love in your heart will open the second spring of your life.

(The following is a photo of Yoko Sasamoto)

A 5-year-old person doesn't want to go to work and wants to retire. This mentality can't be said to be a problem.

First of all, for a 5-year-old person, the pressure of life is relatively heavy, especially for women, who begin to enter menopause around the age of 5, and there are some physical problems, such as physical strength, physique and mental state. With the advent of menopause, there will be some changes in the heart.

Second, the age of 5 is close to the retirement age. If you retire from a middle-level leadership position, you will feel a little lost psychologically, and it is understandable that you have some deviations in your mentality.

Third, if you are an average employee at this age, you want a relaxed working environment and a harmonious relationship with your colleagues. If there is a problem with one of these two points, it will also make you want to retire, which requires you to reflect and introspect.

Fourth, it is possible that your company will make you feel no sense of belonging, and the working atmosphere is not very good. In addition, the benefits of your company have not met your expectations.

It's not terrible to have this idea. The first thing to do is to carefully analyze the real reason for this idea, and find the reason objectively and subjectively. If it's subjective, you should take it easy and win with a little spirit of Ah Q.