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The freshman boy from Zhejiang University of Technology passed Four days of being a father and a mother again

(2005-06-16 01:17:26)

At 6 o'clock last night, Hu Xiao (screen name) and Ai Ai Ten people from the commune website and the Youth Volunteer Association, including Shui'er and Ronin, went to the Zhejiang Provincial Rehabilitation Center for Deaf Children to say goodbye to the "sons and daughters" during the summer. As soon as they entered the classroom, more than 30 deaf children in the room swarmed up and clung to them. They wanted to be carried, hugged, and kissed. Each of them was "burdened" with three or four children. If they couldn't hold on, they would lie on the ground. .

The children fought and shouted desperately, each wanting to take "Mom and Dad" as their own. With sharp eyes, Yu Xiaobin rushed towards Huxiao, grabbed his neck and refused to let go. Xiaobin is the "baby son" that Huxiao brought home during weekends.

The only “loving father”

“The children here are all between 2 and a half to 7 years old and come from all over the province.” Teacher Zhao from the Provincial Deaf Children Rehabilitation Center Said that since 1998, the rehabilitation center has been recruiting caring mothers on weekends from the society. "It is mainly made up of middle-aged people, and there are many laid-off female workers. Hu Xiao is the only male, so he should be called a caring dad." Teacher Zhao smiled. Hu Xiao is a senior majoring in English at Zhejiang University of Technology and is about to graduate in two days. He became a father in April, and then he went abroad for a month because of his internship. With all his plans, he became a father for four days. "The idea of ??applying for the job was very simple. I just felt that I had the ability and responsibility to do something meaningful," Hu Xiao said.

History of being a dad

Homework: Spring weekends

When the child is brought home, the teacher will assign homework to coordinate with the rehabilitation courses in the classroom. April 15th was the first time Huxiao took Xiaobin home, and the homework topic was "Spring". "In the park, flowers are blooming, red flowers are blooming, and white flowers are blooming; I don't pick the beautiful flowers because everyone praises me for being so good." Simple children's songs are one of the language courses for deaf children. I taught Xiaobin to recite the children's songs several times. Later, Huxiao took him to Canal Park to touch the real spring.

Cargo ships passed by on the canal from time to time. Xiaobin yelled and climbed onto the wall to watch. Hu Xiao took the opportunity to tell him that these were "chuán", "qiáo", and "héshuǐ". Xiaobin listened carefully and remained silent for a long time. Hu Xiao kept repeating it, and then Xiao Bin timidly spoke, "This is how progress begins." Hu Xiao was very happy.

When he got excited about playing, Xiaobin kicked over a large trash can in the park. The trash can tipped over and the garbage came out, covering the ground with sugarcane bagasse and lychee shells. When Xiaobin saw Hu Xiao's face, he immediately realized the seriousness of the problem and stood still.

"I told him loudly and slowly that this was wrong. Go pick up the garbage and use your hands." Hu Xiao said. But Xiaobin didn't seem to understand. Teaching by example is not as good as words. In the end, Hu Xiao taught him to hold up the trash can and guided him to pick up the garbage on the ground bit by bit. Then he looked at him and gestured seriously and said, "I will do the same in the future."

For the first time in my life, I wiped my "son's" butt

After returning home from playing, Hu Xiao washed the child's face, but who knew that Bin actually cried. "There were so many tears. I saw him holding his stomach and thought it was a stomachache. When I asked him, he didn't speak or make any gestures, which made me anxious. Later I guessed if the child had to go to the toilet."

Hu Xiao hurriedly helped him take off his pants, moved a small stool, and asked Xiaobin to squat on the toilet. After checking that it was almost done, I handed him a piece of paper, only to find that Xiaobin sat there without moving for a long time.

So Hu Xiao decided to do what all mothers in the world have done - wipe their children's butts. Unexpectedly, when Xiaobin was putting on his pants, he squatted down again without saying a word. It turned out that he hadn't finished pooping... After that, he wiped his butt again, put on his pants again, and squatted down again... After finishing, he wiped again. "I wiped my butt three times in one day!" Hu Xiao couldn't help laughing, "It's not easy to be a mother to a deaf-mute child."

"There are too few loving mothers"

< p>Yesterday, in the corner of the classroom, Hu Xiao looked affectionately at his "darling son" whom he had not seen for a month. He pointed to the watch on his wrist, stared into Xiaobin's eyes and asked, "Xiaobin, what time is it?" "One o'clock!" Xiaobin blinked his single eyelids a few times and said in very non-standard Mandarin.

Hu Xiao turned to the reporter and said that communicating with deaf children is also very skillful. First, call their names loudly, let their eyes look at you, and ensure that their attention is focused on you. Then talk to him slowly, word by word, so that he can hear it clearly. You can start with simple sentences, such as "This is a flower", "Be careful", "Close the door", and also use gestures to match. "These are all things that a caring mother must master." Looking at the caring mothers in the classroom mingling with their children, Hu Xiao sighed: "There are too few caring mothers." He said that these children rarely have the opportunity to contact the outside world. , contact people in society, everything outside is new, and these are very important environments for their recovery.

"In addition to taking care of their daily life, the most important thing for caring mothers is to teach them how to be a human being. The responsibility is heavier than Mount Tai. It would be great if there were more caring mothers." Hu Xiao told reporters word by word. “You do a little bit, I do a little bit, and the world will be a little better.

"Hu Xiao said, this has always been advocated by the Love Commune