It is not advisable to ask for a bride price. Netizen's domineering response: What do you think unless the eldest son gives birth to a child?

Since the Third Session of the 13th National People's Congress voted to pass the Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) and the State Code, the whole network became popular.

Among them, Article 1077, "30-day cooling-off period for divorce" and Article 1042, "It is forbidden to arrange, buy or sell marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage, and it is forbidden to ask for property through marriage" caused great concern overnight and became hot topics in the whole network.

Indeed, this civil code law, which will take effect on June 28, 2008, is related to the birth and death of every citizen, especially the divorce and bride price issues that are frequently searched on the Internet, and it is closely related to everyone.

It's just that everyone didn't expect that the bride price, one of the wedding customs handed down from ancient China, was written into the law, clearly stipulating that it is not advisable to ask for the bride price.

As soon as this article comes out, netizens are naturally not calm, especially as a woman, who has anger that cannot be fully expressed in this unsettled situation.

Many netizens responded domineering: unless the eldest son palace and the baby are male.

Telling the truth, as far as the "bride price" itself is concerned, is really a wonderful thing.

Bridal gifts, also known as betrothal gifts, betrothal gifts, etc. , representing the conclusion of a beautiful marriage, also contains the meaning of blessing this marriage. Lang is affectionate, and the girl is interested. She decides on the betrothal gift and ties the knot.

At the same time, "bride price" is also regarded as the most basic construction fund for a small family to start a better life. Look, no matter from which aspect, "bride price" is a symbol of joy and happiness.

Unfortunately, nowadays, this "bride price" has gone bad. It has been given too much material meaning, and therefore, it has long deviated from the purpose of happiness.

You might as well go to the major social forums, because it is not uncommon for bride price to break up.

The reason is the same. Either the woman feels that the bride price is less, or the man is unwilling or unable to give the bride price. So the contradiction is getting bigger and bigger. One lamented that the other party was insincere, and the other mocked whether it was "selling daughters". In this way, two people who once loved each other parted ways.

For those families with poor economic conditions, the bride price is really like a mountain, which makes people breathless.

Some people may say that the bride price is not a symbol of the next date, not a number, but a heart.

Wrong, the fact is not that simple. Since the bride price is indispensable, women will inevitably have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses. In the end, the bride price became each other's chips, but the man could do nothing.

From this perspective, the man should applaud this clause.

However, from the woman's point of view, you really have to be angry.

Indeed, in today's society, the status of women has been greatly improved, and the concept of "son preference" seems to be fading. However, in the game of marriage, women do pay more than men.

Besides earning as much money as men or even more money than men, I still have the heart to sell white powder. Yes, girls before marriage are princesses and spoil everything, but after marriage, most of them become nannies.

Giving birth to a child is not only a "ghost gate", but also a variety of trivial matters such as parenting and housework. To make matters worse, marrying a "giant baby" husband is equivalent to raising an extra child. If you meet a "mother-in-law", you will be tortured in the war of "grabbing your husband" with your mother-in-law.

Just look at the wedding scene, the man's house is bustling and the woman's house is deserted.

From these aspects, the man should really give the bride price, but give more and give less. Within the scope of conditions, it is indeed a sign of sincerity.

The reason is too simple. People have worked hard to raise the best girl and trust you to marry your daughter. Shouldn't it be shown?

Since you want to express it, then money is the best form.

What do people need to live? Money. Although talking about money is the most vulgar, you must never leave. Everyone knows the importance of money. You see, it is sincere to give such an important thing to each other.

Furthermore, the "bride price" also exists as a wedding ceremony. The so-called "matchmaker's marriage" means that the girl gets married after every ceremony is completed aboveboard. Only by cherishing this girl more can she shine, and the girl she works hard to get can make men more kind and husband and wife more loving.

So, if you give, you will cherish. It is for this reason that the woman hopes to have this ceremony and get a bride price, and the number is not small. In fact, she hopes that in the long years to come, the man can be gentle with the girl.

After all, it takes a lot of courage and strength for a girl who is held in the palm of her parents' hands and cared for like a pearl to enter a strange door and become relatives with unrelated people.

Even if the above is put aside, as a guarantee of safety, the woman deserves a bride price. Nowadays, discrimination against women still exists to varying degrees.

For example, the employer must not hesitate to choose between a woman who is about to give birth and a married man. The reason is self-evident. Women have to have children, and then they have to take maternity leave and breastfeeding leave. Even after these special periods have passed, women will devote more energy to their families.

Under such circumstances, women's more sense of security comes from their families.

However, in recent years, the divorce rate has been rising. How easy is it for men to get divorced? Women, whether children or property division, are not guaranteed. There are not a few such women around, just like cousins. Because her brother-in-law cheated on her, she was very angry and asked for a divorce, but later she made a mistake.

The wedding room was prepared by the in-laws before marriage. At that time, because she had children, she gave up a stable and high-paying job and took care of the children at home, because her brother-in-law had promised her and her, and those years were very calm.

The accident came, and my brother-in-law was willing to give her custody of the child, but how could she go back to the past and support herself and her children?

Really, no one or thing is eternal, people's hearts will change, circumstances are different, and impermanence is eternal. Since the future is so unknown, more money means more security for women, so the bride price will be of great help.

Because in today's society, as long as the bride's family does not have to "help her brother", this "bride price" ultimately belongs to a small family and exists as a husband and wife with property.

Although women can rely on themselves after all, these laws only indirectly teach women to be strong. Since no one is reliable, let them become independent and excellent. You know, women's self-confidence is given by money, but since the physiological structure is unfair and the social treatment is not fair enough, why should women abandon tradition and make concessions?

However, please don't misunderstand this provision. The regulation does not mean that the bride price is no longer legal, and the man can ask for it back at any time.

Because the bride price on the basis of consensus between the two parties to the marriage and asking for property through marriage are completely two concepts. Returning the bride price also requires conditions:

Neither man nor woman has gone through the marriage registration formalities;

Both men and women go through the formalities of marriage registration, but do not live together;

Paying before marriage causes difficulties for the payer.

Therefore, these regulations actually indirectly recognize the legitimacy of the bride price.

In short, the bride price has existed since ancient times. If you like, one will be generous and the other will accept it with peace of mind, because it is a beautiful symbol and the hope of a new life.