Rural families have only one daughter. Is it better to recruit a son-in-law or marry a daughter?

There is only one daughter in the family. The first thing to consider is the child's marital happiness, not a better choice between recruiting a son-in-law and marrying out. If the daughter's emotional marriage is not happy, what is the difference between recruiting a son-in-law and getting married, and vice versa.

I can understand the thoughts of some one-child families, especially the generation born under the family planning policy. This understanding is particularly profound. In our generation, many families are only children. Although everyone says that "men and women are the same", in fact, the traditional concept of thousands of years will not change. Many families with only daughters want to recruit sons-in-law. On the one hand, I think some people are getting old. On the other hand, I think that after the daughter's son-in-law gives birth to the child, her and her daughter's surnames are also considered as the "heirs" of this family.

She is free to fall in love with a boy from the same hometown. So they decided to fall in love for four years. Later, the boy's parents went to the girl's house to propose marriage. Boys and girls are very happy. They believe that four years of long-distance running and love of long-distance running will eventually come true. But who knows, the girl's parents are confused about whether to marry or recruit a son-in-law. The last cruel thing is to let boys go to her house. The reason is that the boy has two sons at home. When you say such nonsense, the boy's family naturally disagrees, and the girl cries and asks her to persuade her parents. Finally, the girl didn't convince her parents that the long-distance love run that should have been very happy was over.

? ? If the daughter is unhappy, recruiting a son-in-law may entangle the family and affect family harmony. The daughter is very happy, and getting married outside won't hurt her parents. Because rural families have only one daughter, many parents are trying to recruit sons-in-law. This concept is deeply rooted. Sometimes, when I was a child, I don't want to be stubborn and angry with my parents. I want to dare to pursue my own happiness, understand my parents with love and act rationally, so that my parents won't really make fun of my daughter's happiness.