Inspirational essay appreciation

Inspirational, not to let the weak replace another person to become a strong one, but to make a weak person equal to the strong, with considerable vitality and creativity. The following is what I arranged for you. I hope you like it.

Pay first, and you will get something.

A young man is going to open a shop in the street where his home is located. He asked his father's advice: "What should I prepare first if I want to open a shop in our street to make money?"

His father thought for a moment and said, "There are many shops in this street, but there are many facades. If you don't want to make more money, you can rent two facades now, put them in containers and bring some goods in. " If you want to earn more money, you should first prepare to do something for the neighbors in this street. "

The young man asked, "What should I do first?"

Father said, "There are many things to do. For example, few people clean the fallen leaves on the street. You can clean the fallen leaves on the street every morning. In addition, the postman delivers letters every day, and it is difficult to find the recipients of many letters. You can also help find it and send it to the recipient in time. In addition, there are many families who need a little help in one hand. You can give them a hand by the way ... "

The young man asked inexplicably, "But what does all this have to do with opening a shop?" His father smiled and said, "If you want to do a good job in business, all this will help you. If you don't want to do your business well, then all this may not have much effect on you. "

Although the young man was dubious, he did as his father said. He cleans the street silently every day, helps the postman deliver letters, and carries water and firewood for several old people. Anyone who is in trouble and needs help will try his best to help when he hears about it. Soon, everyone in this street knew about the young man.

Half a year later, the young man's shop opened. To his surprise, so many customers came. Almost all the neighbors in a street have become his customers. Even some old people across the street abandoned nearby shops and walked a long way to buy things with crutches. He was surprised and asked them, "There is a shop in front of your house, but how can you be far away?"

They laughed and said, "We all know that you are a good man. We are particularly relieved to come to your store to buy things. " Later, he delivered the goods to the door and met some people who were temporarily in trouble. He always asks them to take the goods they need first, and then return them when they have money. Knowing that someone has suffered misfortune, he will take the initiative to come to the door to help generously.

A few months later, many people from the neighborhood also came to his shop to buy things. After more than a year, the whole city knew about him and his shop, so he opened branches and chain stores in other streets, and his business grew. In just a few years, he changed from a penniless young man to an entrepreneur with huge assets.

People who always change their routes will get lost.

If you keep spinning, you will only get dizzy.

My friend has encountered some problems recently.

It was only after everyone described it that they found that the problems they encountered were so similar.

Friend a said, I feel really unlucky. Nothing I do goes well. In my early years, I worked hard to accumulate hard-earned money for more than ten years, invested in setting up factories and doing export processing. At the beginning, the benefits were not bad. But it didn't take long to catch up with the global financial crisis, foreign trade business plummeted, and my order fell through. The factory cannot go on. I studied the market. If a brand of cosmetics sells well, I will take away the remaining money from the factory. It's all used to open a specialty store Not to mention, the cosmetics business is really hot. I calculated that in less than two years, I can earn back the money I lost when I set up the factory. After a few days of unhappiness, I suddenly found that the number of customers coming to the store suddenly decreased. Later, I learned that many online stores are opened online, with low cost and less investment. So the price is cheaper than my specialty store, and it has taken away many customers. So, I opened an online shop. But my online shop opened later than others, and there is no competitive advantage. Now, my online shop can only be maintained half dead.

My friend B looks sad. Although I have not been hit hard by repeated failures like A, I am also confused. After graduating from college, I went to work in a factory. Start with workshop workers, and then step by step to technical management positions. It's supposed to be good to go on like this, but I'm not satisfied with such a boring life, so after working for two years, I will review for the postgraduate entrance examination. Fortunately, the postgraduate entrance examination was successful. I have been a graduate student for three years. I thought I could find a research institute, give full play to my specialty and realize my dream of being a scientist when I was a child. Unexpectedly, colleges and universities have expanded their enrollment in recent years. It is difficult for graduate students to find jobs. I contacted many units and failed.

B is very depressed, saying that knowledge changes fate, but why do I have more knowledge and the road of life is getting narrower and narrower?

Friend c sighed and said, I am an unsatisfied person and always want to change myself. I used to be an enviable civil servant, but I'm not interested in the monotonous life of nine to five. So, I resigned and went into business. I have been in business for several years and made a lot of money. One day, I suddenly felt that I came to this world just to accumulate poor wealth. In that case, how boring life is. So, I ignored the opposition of my family and friends. Resolutely sell the shop to others at a low price and worship a painter as a teacher, hoping to realize the dream of being a painter when I was a child. When I picked up the brush again, I found that it had become a thousand pounds heavy. Although I can imitate ordinary paintings, I obviously lack the aura that art should have. I gave up everything just to become a painter? Of course I am unwilling, but I am also struggling to find a way out.

After listening to their three complaints.

I learned something.

We know that when climbing a mountain, if you go straight along a road, the possibility of climbing to the top of the mountain will be very great. But if you keep changing roads while climbing the mountain, it will be difficult for you to climb to the top.

This truth is actually very simple. When we are confused, what we need is to clear our heads and recognize the status quo. And when we set a good goal, we must stick to it and not give up easily because of temporary confusion.

Otherwise, the fruit of life will only fall on your hasty decision.

Bowing your head is the best gesture in life.

I went to dinner with a friend who just left her job the other day, and heard that she poured a lot of bitter water. Although it's a little puzzling, I still try to sort things out from a mess. Sure enough, it was the expected reason.

This friend's name is Andy, the same name as the strong woman "Andy" in the recent hot TV series, but this Andy is not Andy. They can't seem to find any similarities except the same name.

Andy was born with the sacred aura of "other people's children" and never experienced any major setbacks. She is the only daughter in the family, the moon and pearl in her eyes. She has been very smart since she was a child and has a strong personality. She can learn everything, graduated from bilingual kindergarten and studied all the way from key primary schools to key universities. Her name is the winner of life in uppercase.

But all this, from the day she graduated from college, became more and more strange. She was somewhat horrified to find that the aura she was proud of seemed to be beginning to disappear.

After graduation, she successfully applied for an internship in a top 500 company with the resume of a famous university. She is the only one in the same batch who has a good IELTS score, which obviously gives her many advantages from the beginning: others are working in ordinary sales positions, but she was hired as an assistant to the director because of temporary needs and excellent English.

It stands to reason that the advantage wins the moon first. She will always strive for the director's favor at the end of the internship and naturally stay in the company. But she became the first intern kicked out of the company.

When she poured out her bitter words, she said, "Our director's ability is really average. I heard that he hasn't graduated from a prestigious school, and I don't know how he climbed to that position. Obviously, I did something wrong. I told her, but she still wouldn't listen. If she doesn't listen, she will forget. I have to say that I was wrong. Would I be wrong? My IELTS score is 8.5! That's ridiculous. I am afraid that my ability will threaten her position, and I am self-righteous ... "I was surprised to hear her complain about the boss, but the more I listened, the more I felt that the boss was a little wronged.

You are a rookie, and your work experience is basically zero. Based on the previous typical case analysis, you think you know everything and tell your boss what to do at the meeting. Isn't that self-righteous No wonder you got kicked out. Do you want the company to give up on you?

There are two terrible illusions in this world: one is that you always feel that you have no talent, and the other is that the whole world is against you.

Have you ever thought that if you don't meet your talent, you may not meet it, and the whole world is targeting you because of your own problems?

Andy is actually very typical, and the wayward attitude of newborn calves is not a case. Many couples always hang their posture high, their eyes above the top, thinking that the work at hand is simple, the boss is a vegetarian, and colleagues are waiting to die. They are a clean stream with nowhere to put their dreams and * * *. Wake up, young man. That emotion is called "arrogance".

A few days ago, I saw an interview with Ma Dong, lamenting that he had been awarded a high score. His words made me agree: "The best attitude in life is to put yourself away."

Think about it carefully, this sentence is really a good medicine.

Andy said that there was only one intern left at the end of this issue, who was her classmate in the same school. Of course, in Andy's words, "that man is slow and always works overtime." She only listens to Nuo Nuo when any elder speaks. She can take so many notes in a meeting, and it annoys her to watch. The company is as blind as a bat and knows nothing about the original jade stone! "

Let me translate Andy's words for you: Slow is practical and rigorous, overtime is responsible and serious, and passivity in Nuo Nuo is to know how to respect your predecessors and have high emotional intelligence. Taking notes in a meeting means being open-minded and eager to learn.

Not to mention other advantages that Andy didn't say, these are enough for the company to decide to hire. The recruitment position of the company is an ordinary sales position, which needs a practical, rigorous, serious and responsible newcomer. He can be sharp, but he must also have the corresponding ability. Graduation from a prestigious school is just a stepping stone, not a talisman. Newcomers who don't know how to lower their posture and ask for advice with an open mind are always unpopular.

I've heard a very old story about chicken soup, but the taste in the story is really worth touching by young people.

A young man came to the mountain and asked an old monk for advice. He is excellent and knows how to make greater progress. The old monk smiled and asked him to sit down for tea.

The young man is a little confused, just thirsty. He picked up the cup and drank half. The old monk smiled and added tea to him, but it overflowed without adding much tea. The young man quickly picked up the cup and drank it. The old monk gave him more tea. This time, almost one third of the teapot was used to fill the cup.

After drinking tea, the old monk began to see the guests off, and the young man was inexplicably sent down the mountain without any reply.

Walking, he suddenly understood, turned and bowed deeply to the top of the mountain, and walked home at a brisk pace. At this point, he rose to the top of the world and became a very important figure.

This story actually tells a psychological concept: empty cup mentality.

On the road of life, there is no one who does not experience difficulties. Before starting the next journey, you must remember to put down the medal of honor of the past and forget the scars of past setbacks. We should not be carried away by temporary failures or setbacks, nor by small achievements. Only by traveling lightly can we go more steadily and further.

The "empty cup mentality" is not blindly denying the past, but trying to integrate into the new environment and take the new job seriously with an attitude of emptying the past. It is a sublation of self and an insatiable challenge to self.

In a materialistic society, "putting yourself away" is the greatest protection for yourself, and walking in the world with an empty heart is also a kind of practice.

Dear young man, I wish you an empty cup forever and move forward forever.