Five proudest things in previous lives

Looking back on my life course of more than 40 years, I am most proud of what I have done. Oh, I'm lost in thought ... what's wrong with our previous way of thinking? Now, Mr. Ma leads us to find what we are most proud of. This really opens our minds and changes our minds. What I think will be exciting and will make me full of strength!

The first thing is to be admitted to a key high school.

I am a child who came out of a small rural area. High school opened my eyes. There are many people who are different from me, and their lifestyles are so colorful. There are swimmers in our class, the English teacher has such a standard pronunciation, and there is a league secretary. There are so many names of class cadres in this class that I have never heard of them. I was surprised at the time.

Sure enough, later our high school classmates had all kinds of talents, all over the country and several countries at home and abroad. Today, my best friend is also my high school classmate, my life guide is also my high school classmate, and my money and energy mentor is still them! Ah, I really benefited a lot. I love you, thank you for coming into my life!

The second thing is to organize class activities for the first time after going to college.

In the first semester of our university, two foreign teachers had a foreign language class with us. Our foreign teacher, one is black Wilcliffe Tai Sen, and the other is white foreign teacher Mike.

Two foreign teachers don't understand a word of Chinese, and we have studied foreign languages for more than ten years, but our oral expression is so poor that people can't understand it at all. Really, we will be together and communicate with each other next semester! So we used our hands and feet, gestured and added a few clumsy words. I used to like English, but my spoken English was not very good. But seeing the encouraging eyes of foreign teachers, I volunteered to be a bridge between my classmates and foreign teachers, and then communicated with teachers. It is the first time to organize our class to take a group photo with foreign teachers as a souvenir. At that time, there were no cameras. We have to borrow a camera outside and develop the photos. These are all made by me and my classmates.

Since then, I have become more and more interested in learning foreign languages. Our foreign teacher often leads us to participate in some social practice activities, such as his friend's wedding to be held in the church, leading us to participate, and experiencing the wedding of separate meals for the first time. The first attempt was to eat McDonald's. After dinner, our teacher Mike took the initiative to clean up all the rubbish and collected it in the trash can. The first time I sang a hymn with my teacher at Jinling Hotel, the first time I went to Nanjing Gulou English Corner to practice my oral English ... The first experience of too many new lives was completed with foreign teachers.

Because there are two foreign teachers and a unique English learning environment, I got the CET-4 certificate in my sophomore year. Grateful, grateful for everything in life.

The third thing: add a speech contest.

Because I have lived in a rural environment since I was a child, my Mandarin is not very standard and I don't have much knowledge, so I have always felt a lot of inferiority. Also in the last semester of my sophomore year, the school will hold a speech contest. I really want to participate in it and express my changes since I went to college. But I have been wondering inside, can I do it? May I? Later, with the strong encouragement of my roommates, I started writing and practicing. Ok, practice your mouth, gestures, expressions and pronunciation in front of the mirror every day. That little girl from Fujian has been encouraging me, saying that we southerners are wasting our efforts and are not as good as your standards. What are you afraid of? It is the most standard for you to speak Mandarin in our dormitory. You can certainly do it.

In this way, with the encouragement of my peers and the expectation of my roommates, I stepped onto the platform and expressed what I wanted to express in one go. Finally, I won the second prize. This gave me the greatest encouragement, which I had never thought of before.

The fourth thing: encourage Mr. Wang to resign from state-owned enterprises and apply for foreign companies.

After graduation, my husband was assigned to a large state-owned chemical enterprise. Although the leader attached great importance to it at that time, the phenomenon of seniority in state-owned enterprises could not give full play to his intelligence.

In this way, he spent half his life there until he was 28 years old. We saw an advertisement in Zhao Yan Metropolis Daily that a foreign company in Shanghai was looking for a service engineer in Shijiazhuang. We were very surprised when we saw it. I felt that his opportunity had come, so we prepared a Chinese and English resume drafting introduction, looking up information and so on, and prepared for a whole week. The night before the interview, my husband called me and said that the recruiter asked to go to Beijing for an interview. He was very upset, worried that he couldn't be hired, worried that no one here would take over his job, worried that the leader would blame him ... In short, he was worried about all kinds of entanglements, and finally said that he didn't plan to go, because it took too long to go to Beijing and the fare had to be paid by himself. At that time, we were so poor that we had to calculate the fare.

I was anxious after listening to it and gave him a lecture. Why do we work so hard to prepare information? Even if you try, even if you give yourself a chance, you have to try, and you can't give up halfway, you know? This is my last warning to him.

Near noon the next day, my husband happily told me on the phone that he was in Beijing for an interview. The recruiter also gave him a train ticket from 50 yuan to Shijiazhuang. That is hope. Wait for the result within a week!

In the end, my husband was successfully recruited by this foreign company. From that moment on, my husband's cleverness and wisdom showed step by step. Because of our recruitment and trying to give ourselves a chance, our career and our economic situation have undergone earth-shaking changes from this moment on. Whenever I think about it, my husband and I will be proud of it and feel full of strength!

The fifth thing: meet the noble people in life ~ Liu Huixin

Liu Huixin is my high school classmate. 20 17 accidentally called her and wanted to know what she was doing. This phone call reconnected me with her fate! Later, I learned that she took a road of spreading love. It is her mission to feel love, learn love and become love, but it is her mission to help 5000 children around her find their own spiritual nutrition. I was deeply shocked by his mission and attracted by her, so I joined the study of family education and psychology, which opened a new door in front of me.

Through this course, I learned a series of psychology books such as Sun Ruixue and Wu Zhihong, and also learned NLP courses. I was lucky enough to take part in the first stage of horse learning, which opened a vast new world before my eyes.

Feel love, learn love and become love! I also want to go to such a road of spreading love!

Grateful! Be grateful for the beauty of life! Appreciate the suffering of life!