Why should learning be popularized?

A professor from Harvard University in the United States made an experiment on how to improve productivity in a factory in Chicago. They found that interpersonal relationship is the key to improve productivity, and the word "interpersonal relationship" came into being. Later, people further discovered that career success, family happiness and life happiness are closely related to interpersonal relationships. Among the factors that affect success in life, professional skills only account for 15%, and interpersonal skills account for 85%. Therefore, it is no exaggeration to say that "studious should also be popular".

Good popularity is the key to leverage. No matter how high a person's quality is, if he only exerts his own energy, he can only perform better than ordinary people: if he can gather the energy of others, he may achieve extraordinary achievements. If you want to borrow people's strength, you must be popular.

Because of this, people with good popularity are paid more and more attention in society. Many companies should examine their interpersonal relationships when recruiting senior managers. Without good popularity and strong ability, you can't be hired. If you have excellent interpersonal skills and good popularity, other conditions can be relaxed.

When Van Treebel was the president of the Bank of new york, when he hired senior staff, the first thing to examine was whether this person had a commendable popularity.

Mollo is the shareholder and general manager of Morgan Bank in the United States, with an annual salary as high as $6,543,800+0,000. In fact, he used to be just a secretary of the court, and later he became a manager of a company. He is really a genius in interpersonal relations and has a great popularity. He was attracted by the directors of Morgan Bank, and became a national business tycoon and general manager of Morgan Bank. It is said that the directors of Morgan Bank took a fancy to his reputation and excellent popularity in the business world. Good popularity brings job and career success to Molo and good business performance to the company.

Gifford was a small clerk and later became the general manager of AT&T Company. He often tells people that he thinks popularity is the main factor of success, and popularity is extremely important in all undertakings.

Why is good popularity so important? In fact, it is not difficult to understand: a person with bad popularity can only do things on his own, and how many things can he do? Besides, people are people in society, and they communicate with people all the time in life and work. Without good interpersonal relationships, they can't get help and support from others, and even hit a wall everywhere, making themselves strong and useless. On the other hand, a person who is good at communication and good in popularity can get help from others no matter where he is, even if his ability is average. Therefore, it is often such people who can achieve their goals smoothly and easily.

With the rapid development of modern society, it is never too late to learn anything. If you want to do something, you can only do it with the help of others. How to get help from others, the most basic condition is good interpersonal relationship-good popularity.

Good learning also needs popularity, which is the knowledge of successful people in the world.

Wang Yingjun, a famous young entrepreneur, said that if you don't want to collapse in the competition, you must know how to make friends and make good use of "feelings".

The handsome trading company led by Wang Yingjun has many foreign friends. Among them, there are both foreign entrepreneurs and some famous foreign figures, such as Si Tong in the United States and Noboru takeshita in Japan.

As soon as Shuai Company was established, Wang Yingjun sent an invitation to Si Tong. He promised Si Tong: I will do anything that is conducive to Sino-US friendship; I won't do anything that will damage the friendship between China and the United States. Since then, Si Tong has visited Shuai Technology Trading Company for many times. With the help of Si Tong, he established extensive contacts with countries all over the world, which laid the foundation for the success of his career.

Wang Yingjun attaches great importance to human investment. Once, Wang Yingjun received a guest from Germany. When he got off the plane, it was raining heavily and the guests were soaked to the skin. As soon as Wang Yingjun saw it, he immediately asked someone to take away the guest's clothes, dry them, iron them ... and return them within 0 minutes. Later, Wang Yingjun had a very smooth business meeting with this guest.

Wang Yingjun also pays special attention to maintaining personal friendship. He often does something beyond official relations to show his personal friendship. Noboru takeshita, a Japanese entrepreneur, once said to Wang Yingjun, "I have been so nervous recently that my hair has fallen out. After returning home, Wang Yingjun immediately bought 20 bottles of hair growth essence for Noboru takeshita. In addition, he gave a Japanese entrepreneur a China porcelain sculpture, and the porcelain box was engraved with the entrepreneur's photo. These gifts are not expensive. They just show Wang Yingjun's friendship. Wang Yingjun called them "brain gifts".

Some people say: life is like a battlefield. But after all, life is not a battlefield. Whether in the shopping mall or the workplace, it is more effective to use your heart than to fight with your wits. To be a man in advance, we should not only pay attention to the rules of the game, but also talk about everything. Just talk about rules and do business with a straight face; Or, blindly talking about interests, pulling up your fingers and calculating carefully, you will definitely not be able to do things well.

The key to building a good popularity is to treat people sincerely, trust and cooperate with each other, rather than relying on duplicity.

In today's society, people are in closer contact and communication, and the problems to be solved are becoming more and more complicated. You can't do great things on your own, which requires cooperation between people, and the strength of this cooperation often determines how many great things you can accomplish and how big your career can be. Therefore, good popularity is the basis of doing things by our own strength, and it is also the ladder of career success.

People always have to make friends. If you don't make such friends, make such friends; If you don't make good friends, you will make bad friends. Making friends is like dyeing silk, which fades and turns yellow. If you make a friend who likes to brag and talk, you are bound to talk wildly with him, and over time, you will become a "chatterbox"; If you make friends who love to play and are ignorant, you will inevitably go for a walk and fight together. Over time, you may become a prodigal son who doesn't want to make progress; When you make friends, you talk about learning and knowledge, and exchange knowledge and experience. Over time, you may be imperceptible, study tirelessly, and pursue true knowledge, then the benefits will be immeasurable.

The first advantage of making friends is that you can increase your knowledge and broaden your horizons. It is essential for friends to talk and learn. When friends get together, they will look for learning problems and knowledge "as sharp as cucumbers and as sharp as grinding".

Through mutual inspiration and infection, we have heard many unheard-of problems, clarified many unknown problems and corrected many wrong problems.

Bai Juyi, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, worked as an idle official in Luoyang, the eastern capital, and had no right to do nothing, so he had a negative mood of being content with the status quo and not doing anything anymore. He wrote a poem to Liu Yuxi, a poet friend, which was full of negative thoughts and inaction. Liu Yuxi and Bai Juyi have different ideological realms. Writing a poem immediately and returning it as a gift is an inspiration, encouragement and help to an old friend.

Liu Yuxi's high spirit of working hard and unwilling to be depressed is a good medicine for his old friend Bai Juyi. When Liu Yuxi died for the first time, Bai Juyi wrote a poem and cried. Liu Yuxi said: "The heroes of a glass of wine are Jun and Cao Cao, and I know the mountains in the article. Although Xianhao is dead, he should be downstream of the tiny land. " Although Liu Yuxi died, his spirit lives on forever, which shows that he is greatly admired.

Another advantage of making friends is that you can discuss your studies carefully, which is conducive to the great progress and success of your career. In history, it is not uncommon for a scholar to have a certain academic foundation and achieve greater achievements through the promotion and help of his classmates.

Zhang Heng, an astronomer in Han Dynasty, invented the armillary sphere and the seismograph, which is a brilliant star in the history of science and technology in the world. Zhang Heng's achievements are closely related to a group of his good classmates. Zhang Heng became bosom friends with Ma Rong, Zhang Dou, Wang Fu and Cui Yuan in his youth. They were all talented young people at that time, especially Cui Ai, who studied astronomy, mathematics and calendar very early. In the communication with Rolling, we often study problems and exchange experiences together, which is very enlightening and helpful for Rolling. Zhang Heng's great achievements in astronomy and physics are inseparable from his classmate Cui Yuan.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Ma Jun, who created the South Guide Car and the New Twill Machine, also received strong support from his good friend Fu Xuan. At the end of Ming and the beginning of Qing Dynasty, Gu wrote The Records of Diseases in the Counties of the World, which is a book with certain water conservancy scientific value. Gu can write this book, which has a lot to do with his good friend Geng Ju. Geng Ju is a person who has a lot of research on water conservancy. When he was a magistrate in Changshu, he dredged Fushantang and xipu successively, and also wrote a book "Water Conservancy", in which he made a detailed plan on how to determine the storage and discharge according to the topography and how to dredge according to the water system. All these inspire Gu. Without this good academic friend, Gu's book "Diseases of Countries" would be hard to come out.

Einstein, a world-famous scientist, also benefited from the help of his classmates. Before he mastered Riemann geometry, he only succeeded in special relativity. Later, his friends helped him master Riemann geometry, which prompted him to discover the wonderful world of general relativity and set up a rare feat in the history of science.

Confucius said, "Learning alone without friends is ignorance." Especially in today's information age of knowledge explosion, the rapid development of knowledge in various disciplines and the emergence of emerging disciplines and various marginal sciences are dazzling. With a head and a pair of eyes, it is difficult to learn the latest scientific achievements one by one, even with advanced computers. Making as many friends as possible is undoubtedly more important and urgent than ever for us to get in touch with all kinds of information, understand and master more modern knowledge and enrich our knowledge structure. Even so, our possession of modern information and knowledge will still lag far behind the reality of rapid development, but it is better than ignorance.

In view of this, it is more necessary and important to make more friends today. As the saying goes: "when glass meets gold, it will have the brilliance of gems;" Fools who are close to good people will also become wise. " We make friends and turn many people's wisdom into our own. Our own development will be faster and we will achieve greater success.