Do you still have your dream after graduation?

At this time, many college graduates have fallen into the same "burnout period" from the confusion, longing or indifference before graduation. Work, society, family, and relationships have all shown an unprecedented ferocity. The freedom you expected has turned out to be so boring, so day after day, so hopeless, and so hopeless.

After a short period of time after graduation, what remains unchanged will never change, what will change, everything has changed.

When you get your diploma and degree certificate, you find that your workplace can overturn all your previous promises. Internships, probations, regular promotions, establishments, all of these are conditional, but I didn't tell you these conditions during the recruitment process: I didn't mean to hide it from you. Who told you not to ask clearly at the beginning? But as a recent graduate, how do you know so much? As a young person, you just want to be kind to others, believe in justice, the king's law, and the human heart. They are all veterans in shopping malls, and they will not talk to you about justice, the law of the king, or the human heart with you. What can you do?

In fact, not many young couples actually break up during the graduation season. During the period after graduation, the things that should be separated are about to begin. We promised at the beginning that as long as there is love, there will be no problem. At this time, after working together for several months, or after being separated for several months, my parents don't like me, I am impatient, I can't see hope, and I can't wait for the future. He doesn't love me anymore, and he doesn't love me anymore. Anyway, you are right, so I say "bye".

The one who refused to break up, his parents thought he was a foreigner, and his parents thought he had no house or car. His parents fell in love with Ma Wencai, and they took Ma Wencai back home. His parents were looking for life and death, and his parents "this daughter" , This son was born in vain.” So you think, forget it, use your own body and your own life to settle the matter, or in fact, your parents have expressed their true feelings for you, and you are happy to go along with it. Who knows? I was young and ignorant back then, now it’s time to start a stable life!

To put it bluntly, all your hard work after graduation is just to realize the dream of the previous generation. Or rather, the previous generation had no dreams, only desires. However, these desires have been out of date even in China for at least thirty years. What aspirations can ordinary people of that generation have when they become rich "in the field of hope"? Live in a bungalow, eat royal food, and have grandchildren. It's just that today, if you live in a bungalow, sell iron, and use up the savings of three generations of your grandparents, you can only share a big bungalow with hundreds or thousands of other people; you can eat royal food and feed your parents, but not yours. Peace of mind; it is still unknown whether those little bastards hugging grandchildren, old and young, can be as successful as you in the future.

You thought graduation meant not having to study, and not having to study meant freedom: you were so naive.

Tell these to children before they graduate. They will all understand it, but they will definitely not accept it. People's imagination is too poor, and they have to "practice it" to know.

With a monthly salary of two to three thousand or three to four thousand yuan, in a strange city, rent, take out, dress, groom, see a doctor, and take a car. I have given up all those poor hobbies I had in college. I no longer go shopping, no longer date, no longer watch movies, no longer play games. It is difficult to be decent in "moonlight". Nine to five is just an urban legend. Cars come and go for two or three hours. Get up early and work late at night. Single days off are a blessing. Double days off, thank God! In today's powerless era, most companies are very reluctant. When you first arrive, you hear all kinds of lofty promises, but all the boss wants is a cheap and high-quality skilled worker. So you complain every day that you are "tired like a dog", but you don't know which dog can be tired like you!

So, every minute and every second of leisure time becomes a reason to reward yourself. I'm so tired. I've been criticized outside during the day, and I have to nod and bend, smiling broadly. I have to be kind to myself. In the end, you were wasted and turned into a human being who just wanted to be entertained. Yes, all you want is entertainment. You spend your youth and dreams to make a little money, rent, take out food, dress, dress up, see a doctor, and take a car. For the rest, you just want to make yourself comfortable and pamper yourself.

But in this kind of life, apart from getting older, what else can you do?

There are always so many people urging you to go to Beijing, Shanghai, and Guangzhou. There are opportunities and dreams there. The air of the city makes people free, and every hard work will be rewarded. But you don't know anything.

When you were in college, you were busy shopping, dating, watching movies, and playing games. After graduating from college, you are nothing but a human being and a sickly "young man." People who know nothing will have no opportunities, no dreams, no freedom, and no gains wherever they go.

However, you are too tired from working hard. In your free time, you just want to reward yourself, love yourself, be kind to yourself, and find some miserable fun for yourself. If you don't agree, you'll leave, and you'll come and go from job to job, but you still don't know anything.

I feel so tired, let’s go home. I feel so tired, take the civil service exam. I feel so tired, let’s go on a blind date. I feel so tired, get married. I feel so tired, let’s have a baby...

So, all the plans of the previous generation came true.

You have developed the habit of not caring about anything. You don’t care about history, politics, science, literature and art, life, or the environment. You just want to live your life well. It’s a small life, but are you living your “little life” well?

Have you ever thought about how to get out of this dilemma? Did you know that the bigger the problem, the less the answer lies in the problem itself?

However, it is all useless to say that it is too late. You are already at a loss. You neither know how to think big nor how to start small. You only dream about one day putting on a cape and becoming Superman.

This is the helplessness of this era and the cancer of this era.