What behaviors do others have when chatting that will make you disgusted?

When chatting, I hate the rude words and ignorance of others and expose my bad temper and low quality. A person's cultivation is hidden in his chat, and people without cultivation are the most disgusting.

What impressed me deeply was that I went out to eat with my leader, and a table of people ate together, men and women, but some people liked bad customs and said some dirty jokes at the table, which was frivolous and obscene. After all, it's a public place, and I didn't pay attention to it. That meal made me particularly uncomfortable and I went back to my stomach for several days.

Chatting is to exchange thoughts and feelings, but some people just like to talk things to death. For example, two colleagues are talking about scouring for clothes on Taobao, and another person suddenly interjects that the quality of clothes on Taobao is not good at all. That's dead talk, and it's disgusting.

Chatting with people who always like to complain is always negative and offensive. Chatting with cynics and listening to their cynicism are also disgusting.