Reflections on Fang and Yuan

After tasting a book, everyone must have a lot of feelings about life or things. Why not write a review? But what are the requirements for reading? The following are my thoughts on squares and circles, for reference only. Welcome to reading.

After reading Square and Circle, it is said that this book has long been famous! But it doesn't affect what I see now, because there is a saying: the meaning of drunkenness is not wine!

Apples bitten by insects are generally the sweetest and most delicious! If this statement is true! Then the author of this book should be secretly pleased-almost every pirated bookstall can see it! However, there are some differences between piracy and bugs. The former is for profit. They don't care whether the stolen things have substance in words; Worms are different. The sweeter the apple, the fatter and stronger the worm can eat! In the final analysis, the ultimate goal of profit is to survive. In order to live a fat and strong life, it is understandable to wave flags and shout for stealing! -So what about rotten apples! A layer of gold on the surface is still hot!

This is a good book with a thickness of 200 pages! It is a good book because it covers everything-from the analysis of people's personality to how to do business; From dealing with people and things to enterprise management, the author can easily and calmly analyze it. The so-called sparrow is small and complete, which the author can do best. What's more commendable is that the author begins with the cloud: "A book.

If you only preach skills without inspiring people's quality, this book is low-level! "The original quality is driven! This is probably the biggest discovery in the last ten years! As the saying goes: people are expensive and self-aware! Books are like people, now let's simplify this sentence: books are like people. Isn't this a waste of our hard-earned money on books? !

In order to incite readers' emotions, the author made many impassioned remarks, and his actions were staggering. On page 19, the author suggests: laugh, laugh for the sake of laughing, that's the reason to laugh! We immediately associate Ma Si with laughter. If you really just smile for the sake of laughing, wouldn't it be quick to buy a horse-shaped mask directly? Another example is the conclusion of the 44-page Feng Dao column, which is foggy and incredible! There is no need to mention these. The most shocking is the passage from 192 to 2 16. The author has good intentions-we support him with both hands, and the author immediately added: I can get along with anyone. We will immediately think of clowns in the circus-putting thick glaze on their faces and trying to win the laughter of everyone in the audience! There are also sayings that are not lazy, not hidden, not impartial, not respectful, not stupid, not warm, not soft or hard.

Adam covered his privacy with a leaf-this place can be best explained; Wisdom is wisdom, stupidity is stupidity, and what else is not wisdom or stupidity! According to the movie, it is neither wise nor stupid for Ge You to answer the dean's questions in a mental hospital. Psychopaths are not smart and can fool the dean, so they are not stupid! What Jane Revere Burke did was the most tepid, because it was for people, but all she said was nonsense-ghosts are afraid of fire! So it's not hot. That is to say, the living talk nonsense is the most tepid! As for neither soft nor hard-I wonder if the author thought of a word on a whim-neither soft nor hard, impotence also! Very good, very good!

For all these reasons, the author has been painstakingly lobbying readers not to be mediocre. Please note that this is not what it means! The golden mean will not teach people to be neither wise nor stupid, neither soft nor hard! Our proposition is: be yourself, not yourself! An edge is an edge and an angle is an angle. On page 22 of the book, the author quotes a sentence from Jin Shengtan, which is really a good example: Jin Ge was down and out all his life, but his tough guy image in the crying hole case is still awe-inspiring! As the book says: after reading the book, the quality and temperament can be improved; When is real life-what kind of life is fake? Speaking of stories that we all believe, we don't need to believe such lies!

According to the editor, this book is at least ten years old. I am a laggard. After reading it, I said so much. I always feel that it is immoral to kill a tiger-sorry, it should be an old and weak tiger! After all, 6 million copies have been issued! I wonder if it includes piracy! Therefore, it is worthy of being a tiger, even if it is just a paper tiger. Let's end this!

After reading the model essay, Yuan always likes the golden mean. What is enough between Fiona Fang and how to define it is also a long-term learning. It took a weekend to finish reading this book, which was concise and slightly absorbed, but it was also understandable. The square is the principle and the circle is flexible. The two complement each other and see how to apply them.

Some time ago, I was also very upset because of my work, and my colleagues were very wronged at work. I should have solved the problem for my colleagues, but I could do nothing because of the muddle of my superiors. On the one hand, I yearn for fairness and hope to be consistent with my own standards of behavior. On the other hand, I can only comfort my colleagues, and I can only learn to accept the right and wrong in my work after fighting for it. I don't know if I did it right. After reading this book, I feel a little relieved. As the saying goes, "Change yourself before you want to change the environment." It seems that it will be easier to change yourself than to change the present environment. Work is not always fair. Facing the pressure of all aspects of work, forbearance, progress and adaptation are inevitable processes. The solution to the problem is not necessarily theorizing with reason. There are many ways to achieve the goal, but the original intention has not changed.

In life, I am often described by others as a person who is too upright. I don't know when it started. That's not a good word. I often wonder why it sometimes seems inappropriate to stick to the obvious truth. After all, I still don't know how to get along with people in society. People get along with each other, focusing on human nature and changing methods. The truth is square, and in my heart, it is only the basis for my own flexibility, not the argument with others. I have also doubted whether I want to settle down in this society or go against my heart and be a "bad guy" because of other people's comments and my own loss. But after reading this book, I am more determined. My three views don't have to cater to or even change. We can seek common ground while reserving differences in life, and we don't have to envy or even deny ourselves for the short-term interests of others. Compared with getting material gains, being a recognized person and working hard step by step until the end of this life may be called perfection.

Square and circle are like the golden mean. There are too many combinations of the two.

After reading Fang and Yuan, I feel that "three sides" is the foundation of being a man, "Yuan" is the way to live, and the ideas expounded in Fang and Yuan make people know how to get along with others. Know how to respect others; Know how to face setbacks in life; Know what attitude to treat victory and failure; Know how to learn ... and so on. In a word, reading this book can broaden people's minds, thus establishing an optimistic attitude towards life, cultivating healthy psychology and better handling the relationship between people.

The content of Fang Yu Yuan involves quality accomplishment, temperament accomplishment, humanistic accomplishment, social ability, communicative ability, speaking ability and so on. The purpose is to help you have a happier life and a more successful career. There is a sentence in this book that I like very much, that is, Karl, a famous American educator, said, "No one can teach anyone anything." No one can teach you knowledge. To truly master knowledge and turn it into your own wealth, you can only rely on yourself. The role of teachers and books is only an external cause, and you will always change yourself.

How can we succeed? This book emphasizes stimulating the desire for success. If people want to succeed, they must have an unswerving spirit of struggle. The strength of this spirit really depends on the size of your desire for success, and you must inspire the fire of desire to an incandescent state. Now we don't have it, which is not sad. Sadly, we dare not aspire to have it. The greatest tragedy in life lies in the disappearance of dreams. Once a person has no dreams, it indicates that the romantic drama of his life is coming to an end. Everyone should have dreams. Without dreams, life will be exhausted. Therefore, we should have a desire for development to stimulate our own strength. "To be a man, you must be famous and never be a beggar in life."

The key to success in life is to have confidence, courage and enthusiasm. Don't you think so? Many problems and difficulties in life actually stem from your lack of confidence: once you gain confidence, many problems will be solved. Self-confidence can keep you at your best and help stimulate your potential. Self-confidence will bring you vitality, glow, make you talk freely, and produce a charm that unconsciously infects people; And losing self-confidence will make you look petty and unable to play your own level. Courage makes you invincible! It is not enough to build self-confidence, have a goal and recognize the environment, but also to have the courage to act. Courage is to dare to do something, that is, to show confidence in action.

Make your dream come true, and act now! Full of enthusiasm for life and work, full of confidence in yourself, and courage and wisdom to never admit defeat, you will certainly succeed and enjoy success.

After reading Square and Circle, I read a book every month, and finally finished reading this month's book. How do you feel that this week's books are particularly slow to read? This month's books are slightly thicker than the previous two, which are two.

There is nothing to say after reading it. It doesn't feel much different from the books I read before. The feeling is the same, but the expression is different, but these factors related to success have been talked over and over again.

The biggest feeling after reading Square and Circle is that it is very similar to Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature. Therefore, squares and circles are the human weakness of China's version. The book also discusses many topics that are often mentioned and discussed in the book, such as the great role and infinite power of tolerance, attitude, confidence and belief. What about these books? We should give them a better name, which is a little different from "success".

Many similar books, with similar contents, really make people excited and feel that success is close at hand. However, how many people who have read these books will succeed? If everyone will succeed after reading this book, there will be no "great man" and "creation" in this world. The question is, what about a week, a month and six months after we finish reading this book? The point is that we haven't put our ideas into action yet. If we can ask and force ourselves to stick to our plans, books like this will be useful for life.

There are many kinds of success. I think no matter what you do, as long as you are happy and do it seriously, you can say you are successful. However, our definition of success is often limited to money, reputation, status, identity and other very materialized things. This reminds me of faith, which is also discussed in the book. What China lacks most is belief and value system.

Personally, I feel that no matter which country, nationality or individual, it is inseparable from faith. Faith is a terrible thing. Without faith, people will lack a sense of belonging and security, and their psychology will be empty. Without faith, we can easily pass on these bad feelings to things that pursue material things. Therefore, everyone devoted his life to fame and fortune, and finally overdrawn his life and lived unhappy and wronged. When these material desires are satisfied, life has no goal and falls into another round of emptiness. Schopenhauer, the father of pessimism, once said that there are two great pains in life, one is that material desires are not satisfied, and the other is that material desires are satisfied. Because our hearts have never found a home, then life is not a "walking corpse". Life is for enjoyment, not for abuse.

Rich people in China will be disappointed when they immigrate to some western countries, because no one will bow and scrape to you because of how much money you have, or the president and CEO of a big company, or because of how many houses and villas you have, or even just walk away because you hit someone with a private car. In the United States, even if you are the president, you can't help but respect a street sweeper, because every life is equal, which is also a belief.

I have read some books and met some foreign classmates. I don't know why people in these developed countries are so peaceful and "stable". This is also one of the reasons why I have been longing for European countries. Hehehe, I also want to travel to European countries in my lifetime. Go to European countries for further study if you have the strength. In fact, people who are married and have children are born and raised in China, and there are also many overseas students. It's not about worshipping foreign things, because we really have a lot to learn. Didn't the author of the book also advise us to go abroad as much as possible? Personally, I feel that my vision has broadened and my mind has become very broad.

To sum up, "software of mind" and "cybernetics of life" mostly talk about the role of internal factors in a person's growth and success. In fact, a person's mind is constantly growing and maturing, and it is necessary to really do it.

Life needs ideals and daydreams, so that life will be full of colors. The more we imagine that our ideals will come true, the easier it will be. Pray, pray that the ideal shines into reality and the dream comes true.

Square and Circle is a book written by Mr. Ding. He told us exactly what a square is and what a circle is in the catalogue. Due to the limitation of time and my laziness, I have only read part of this book so far. I feel very cordial when I read this book, because it tells me exactly how to be a man, how to work and live.

"Square and round" is named after an ancient copper coin with an outer circle inside, which means we must be in the outer circle. The book says that the square is the foundation of being a man and the circle is the road to success. In terms of people's quality cultivation and temperament cultivation, if we can properly grasp the square and the circle, we can make our lives happier and our careers more successful. If a person is too square, like a straight piece of wood, it is easy to break, and the water chestnut covered inside is also easy to inadvertently hurt others when interacting with others. However, if a person is versatile and smooth, he always wants to take advantage of everything and profit from it. Over time, no one wants to deal with such people, and such people will naturally fail. Therefore, to be a man, we must be inside the outer circle, square in the circle and round in the square. How can we do that? How can we succeed?

This is the answer that everyone wants. According to my own understanding, I think success depends on whether he has good quality and good communication skills. The most important ingredients of excellent quality are self-confidence and courage. Self-confidence is the first element of success. Self-confidence can inspire a person's greatest potential. If a person loses confidence, he will fail. In dealing with people, of course, communication is essential. The book says that the most important thing in dealing with people is praise and criticism. We should master the power of praise and the skills of criticism. People's need for respect is the hunger and thirst in the depths of human nature. Of course, meeting people's needs for respect doesn't require you to pander to others. Sincere praise is the best motivation to inspire people. If praise is the sunshine that soothes the soul, then criticism is the mirror that shines on the soul, which can make people know themselves more truly. The only purpose of criticism is to help others make progress, but many times our criticism is not to help others, but to vent our anger and dissatisfaction. It is also important to improve yourself by criticizing others. At the same time, it is also important to master the skills of criticism. Maybe the same sentence, in other words, the effect is completely different, and others will be more willing to accept it.

In today's society, if you want to succeed, you must have good quality, enthusiasm for work and life, confidence in yourself and do everything around you well. Let's work together.

I always keep the habit of reading books on my bed before going to bed. I have been reading Square and Circle these days. This book mainly talks about the concepts of square and circle in China's philosophy, and combines a large number of real people and stories at home and abroad to interpret the true meaning of square and circle in simple and vivid language from the perspectives of gain and loss, flexion and extension, advance and retreat, communication, etc., thus uncovering the way of dealing with people.

The title of this book is taken from an ancient coin with an outer circle inside, which reveals the truth that a person needs an outer circle inside to do things. The book says that "square" is the foundation of being a man, and "circle" is the way to live. We should be good at grasping the dialectical unity relationship between square and circle from the aspects of people's quality cultivation, temperament cultivation and behavior. This book only answers how a person can be tactful without accident. When dealing with a thing, should we be honest and ruthless, or should we just ignore it and pretend that we don't know anything? Or find a balance in it?

"Fang" is the spiritual backbone of an upright person and the reflection of people's inner spirit. People's temperament and ability are largely determined by their internal qualities. "Round" is the way of life, sophisticated, flexible and skillful. Square and circle are independent of each other, but they are dialectical unity. Only by grasping the balance point, not only must we have a clear personal orientation and sharp edges and corners, but also have the skills to do things, can we truly grasp our own life and create a new journey in the future.

In work and life, in the process of getting along with leaders and colleagues, we should also fully respect each other, be good at listening, be kind to others, and help others is actually to help ourselves. Don't talk about the length of people, don't offend others, don't pry into others' privacy, learn "psychological plastic surgery" and create a harmonious, United and harmonious colleague relationship, which can be more conducive to the promotion of work.

Moreover, "grounding gas" is a buzzword in the past two years, "follow the principle of human beings and follow nature". "Grounding gas" is also an important concept to tell readers in this book. While maintaining one's ability, self-confidence, courage and enthusiasm, one should also have a positive attitude, integrate into one's own environment, and improve and adjust one's attitude and skills in dealing with others. These changes will benefit people a lot. Learn to appreciate the advantages of others, encounter problems, think of others inexplicably, and see yourself clearly.

There are many skills in the book, but I think "the meaning of drunkenness is not wine." While enumerating many cases and skills, the author also allows readers to increase their wisdom in reading, without deliberately learning and imitating, but at the same time, they are inspired and can be inspired when encountering similar things.

No matter in study life or later work life, the party should be square and round, so that a person can be confident and lose people's hearts and find a good foothold between square and round.

After reading Fang and Yuan, I thought Fang and Yuan was a book about the world or officialdom. When I studied it carefully, I found that this was not the case. This book first expounds the basic essence and general requirements of Fiona Fang's Way, and explains the life wisdom of Fiona Fang blending, Fiona Fang using and Fiona Fang changing step by step, so that readers can understand what is the way to be a man, what is the circle of life, and when it will work. Then, from the aspects of life, social life, work and so on, this paper introduces the skills of being honest, harmonious, square, dark and square. The book integrates theory with practice, with rich and colorful cases and endless coup. Interesting and thought-provoking, it is a life guide book that benefits people in reading and learning.

"Square and Circle", the title of which is taken from an ancient coin inside the outer circle, reveals the truth that one must "be inside the outer circle". "Fang" is the foundation, righteousness, excellent quality and spiritual pillar of being a man. The most popular and beloved figures in the world all have the soul of Fang. One of the important reasons why martial arts novels are so popular is that they admire a chivalrous spirit, where gentlemen do something and villains do something. People who have no "square" soul violate social ethics, will only be spurned by the public and will never achieve the most brilliant success.

However, it is not enough for people to rely on "square" alone, but also to have a "round" package. Only by mastering the skills of being a man and speaking can they be in an invincible position. "Circle" is the road to the world. Is to be sophisticated, smooth and skillful. What does a person's success mainly depend on? Might as well observe the people around you. Are successful managers, factory directors and even highly specialized engineers, lawyers and doctors successful because of their best professional skills? The answer is no. Their success is often largely because they are good at dealing with people and can effectively speak and sell themselves. Just as a happy family is not necessarily a beautiful wife and a handsome husband, a happy family lies in mutual respect and understanding and a harmonious relationship.

The book especially emphasizes the excellent qualities that a person must have in order to succeed: self-confidence, courage and enthusiasm.

The three elements of excellent quality: self-confidence, courage and enthusiasm, which are the foundation of standing. The way to success is to know the dialectics of friends and enemies, the power of praise and the role of criticism.

be sure of oneself

First of all, self-confidence is the guarantee of everything. With strong self-confidence, you will feel confident in everything. Otherwise, once you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you will retreat. How can we succeed? Napoleon once declared that "there are no impossible words in my dictionary", which is so heroic and confident.

courage

Courage makes you invincible. Courage, that is, daring to do something, is the courage to put the plan into action. Always thinking, always talking, but never doing it, just like lava moving in the stratum, but never enough power to erupt. In fact, everyone will have their own opportunities in life. The key lies in how to grasp and whether you have the courage to take the first step.

enthusiasm

Enthusiasm means always maintaining enthusiasm for work and life, and enthusiasm for career. "Nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it."

skill

Good skills can make people comfortable in work and life. We deal with people every day, understand all aspects of human nature, and then treat them separately according to the actual situation. This is the basic way to master skills. We young people, in particular, are willing but unable to do so, and it is inevitable that we will hit a wall.

Square and circle have benefited me a lot. I know how to get along with people; Know how to accommodate others; Know how to respect others, but also know how to disrespect others; Know how to stand in this society; Know how to face setbacks in life; Know what attitude to treat victory and failure; Know how to learn. In short, after reading this book, my horizons have broadened a lot, and I no longer often walk into the dead corner of thinking; No longer often spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain; Don't often say hurtful things, but often praise people who deserve praise; Don't always doubt the people around you.

Reading history can make people wise. After reading this book, I deeply understand how to communicate with people in real life and how to stimulate my potential. Humor can increase your attraction, make you look optimistic and open-minded, and enhance your attraction. Although this book will not change us from short to high, it will change our quality, help us deeply understand this wonderful creature, this complex society and this mysterious life, and teach us how to be a man. As the old saying goes, being a man should be "outside the circle and inside the circle", that is, inside the circle; There are sharp edges and corners, and there are skills to deal with the world. Only by grasping the balance point can we truly grasp our own life and move towards success.

Finally, the square and the circle let me have a deeper understanding of human nature, grasp the weakness of human nature, help me to establish confidence, establish an optimistic attitude towards life and cultivate a healthy psychology. As the book says, deliberately changing yourself to master a certain skill will never succeed, and excellent quality is the decisive factor for success in life. I want to remind myself that if you smile more in front of the mirror every day, you will see a confident, happy, energetic and successful self. "Square and Circle" is indeed an inspirational masterpiece, and "the outer circle is the inner side" should indeed be the motto of each of us in life.

The book "Fang and Yuan" mainly discusses the two kinds of contradictions and opposites between Fang and Yuan from the aspects of people's mentality, will, principles of treating others, self-transformation, thinking innovation and life attack, warning readers that Fang can be round or round. After reading this book, it is also very beneficial to apply it to daily work.

As a monitor, in the usual work management, the "children" in the team are often in a bad mood when they meet unspeakable and unreasonable customers. In the past, I would tell the "children" in the team to try to guide customers to follow you and find a single point to help customers respond immediately. This is part of the circle. After reading "Square and Circle", in the face of such difficult customers, I know that Guang "Circle" will "get used to" such customers, and then let them make unreasonable demands. On the way to the "circle", we should also make sure that Fang's demands can be met within the rules and regulations, and inform the customer that his demands are unreasonable and do not conform to the rules with the attitude of Fang. Customers will feel that this is their unreasonable request. Once the customer is moved by sympathy, in some cases, there is no need to send a bill, just patiently explain and tell the customer and let the customer accept it. "Square" is an attitude and "circle" is a way. "Fang" can shape professional image, and "Yuan" can establish professional quality.

When it comes to management, I am a young fish, but I believe that through hard work, young fish will grow wings and fly high one day. I am the monitor at work, and I am the mother of my children in life. At work, I often bring my mother's identity into the role of monitor. Suddenly, the "children" in the team will be rebellious and will not listen. After reading Square and Circle, I realized that no rules can make Fiona Fang. Only when you have existing obligations can you gain rights. In the future management work, you should not only have your own "party", that is, the in-class system. What is inside the square is insurmountable, and what is outside the square can be "round". The circle here is to convince people with virtue. The ancients said that virtue is the world. Care about the "children" in the team in life and give correct psychological guidance. Fiona Fang united to create the humanities that belonged to his team. Only the harmony within the team can make the team show its own scenery.

"Fang" is an angular symbol, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps in governing the country with "Fang". At this time, when the management team touches something other than "Fang", we, as the squad leader, can no longer talk to it with the attitude of "Fang", and the collision between "Fang" and "Fang" will only spark. I should intervene as a "circle". Let them know why they are wrong, why they are wrong, guide them correctly, and let them know their mistakes in their hearts. Use the posture of "circle" to influence it, so that the "square" it appears will be polished in the running-in with the "circle", and the edges and corners will become round after polishing, and will also move closer to the "circle". Only the combination of circles can roll further, and the friction between squares will only cause military damage. However, in management, we can't just seek "roundness". Too "round" management, like watermelon skin at the foot, makes the "children" in the team slip easily and is not controlled by "gravity". If it is found that the management is loose and too "round", it is necessary to give the management of "Fang" in time, so that the members who "slip" on the way can step on the corners in time and brake in time.