What's the way to be gay? I look forward to the answer from people with lofty ideals.

Some people think it's easy, others think it's difficult. In fact, it mainly depends on your mentality. Today's society is much more open than before. Of course, many people still don't understand homosexuality and think it is a pathological condition, but I don't think it is necessary to mind too much, because then you will only suffer more. Homosexuality is born, not what you want, so you should face it with a normal heart instead of focusing on finding someone. The more you look for, the more you will only find. Maybe you will meet many homosexuals in your daily life, but you just don't know it. If they really enter this circle, they are no different from ordinary people, but the quality of many comrades needs to be improved.