Miracle, that's just another name for hard work.

You might as well take risks with your life, because at least you will lose it. If there is a miracle in this world, it is just another name for hard work. The most difficult stage of life is not that no one knows you, but that you don't know yourself. The following is my inspirational article. Let's have a look!

Miracle, that's just another name for hard work.

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I had dinner with my cousin for a long time the other day. He still looked at the big piece of meat on the plate in a daze. I asked him if there was anything on his mind. He looked blankly for a while and said, I don't know what I should do.

My cousin is six years younger than me. He studied competitive aerobics in high school and became a sports student because of his poor grades. Because of his poor performance in the college entrance examination, he can't go to the physical education institute. He had to study animation design in a junior college in Xi 'an. After graduation, he did several jobs in his hometown, sold products in a supermarket, worked as a secretary in a small company and did campus activities for Nestle, but most of them ended in vain. Later, he had the opportunity to volunteer and go south to Hunan to become a temporary administrator in the office.

This is the course of study and work that he can write on his resume. I asked him at dinner, do you know what he is good at? He thought about it and didn't know. Let me ask you again, do you know what you want to do in the future? He said he didn't know. I then asked, do you have dreams and goals? He said he didn't know. I said if you have an idea, do you know what to do? He said impatiently, elder brother, don't ask, I don't know.

Halfway through a meal, it was deadlocked in an awkward atmosphere. My cousin gritted his teeth and mixed French fries with ketchup. I think he's a little unhappy. I don't think he and I have ever talked about such a serious topic. Later, I whispered, you should have a goal, and you should have self-knowledge.

My cousin gave me a look and sighed heavily. I just don't know what I want. My eldest brother has been a ballet dancer and a national first-class actor since he was a child, and he performs all over the world every day. Now he has emigrated to Australia, where he has love, a big house and a good car. You are great, too. Your advertisement is broadcast on TV every day, and several books have been published. Even my colleagues are listening to your program. I am embarrassed to tell them that they are my two brothers. What do I have? I'm under a lot of pressure myself

I felt sad when I heard these words. I said, if you keep these things in your heart, it will only keep you quiet all the time. You have to do what you want, and you have to seize your opportunity. Don't compare with others. No one is born better than you, but they know what they want and then know how to do it.

Cousin drank all the wine in one breath, put down his glass and looked at me, brother, but I didn't know what I wanted or what to do. I like to communicate, but what's the use of talking? Will big companies want it? I also like to do some programs quietly like you, but the conditions of my life don't allow me to have no software or microphone. I also like to write something, but my literary talent is only junior high school level, so it's funny to write it myself. I don't think I can do anything. Just be a person who knows nothing.

Listening to his words of self-abandonment, I was angry and helpless. There is a famous saying that there is no road in this world. If there are more people walking, it will become a road. According to the modern meaning, it may be understood that the road in this world is always on yourself. See the road but don't walk, you can only wander in the same place. If you can't see the road, you will always be trapped in a puzzle.

Later, I asked my cousin, are you willing to do this? He shook his head vigorously.

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On my public WeChat, I receive news from some friends almost every day. They are complaining about their troubles. Simply classified, they are similar to my cousin. They don't know what they will do, what they want to do and what they want to do. They often don't know how to start, or they haven't really tried, but they are unwilling. In short, they don't know what to do, and then they can only stay confused.

A few years ago, a friend told me that he would rather muddle along all day than accept a seemingly fruitless challenge. He feels that he has no talent and ability, just an ordinary person. He dare not do what he wants, because there is no end in sight. If there is no result, he would rather not start. It's just that such emotions can't be resolved, and I'm very unhappy.

At that time, I could hardly find a reason to refute it, but when I experienced the same confused and difficult days, I felt that such words were just an excuse. Those distant and tall topics will not be mentioned. It's not us bystanders who live day by day, but yourself. Growing up every day is not the help of others, but yourself. It is not other people's eyes that see the future day after day, but yourself. Tell me about yourself first. What kind of person do you want to be?

If you want to be an ordinary person, be an ordinary person. If you want to be a better yourself, take the first step bravely. It is a contradictory topic to think about a bright future with your own ordinary conditions, and then you can't get rid of the ordinary concept and emphasize your own ordinary again. If you want to do better, just do it and don't think about it. If you just stay in an unwilling mood forever, you might as well let go of those lofty ideals and fulfill your present.

I think the significance of hard work is not only limited to making money or winning social recognition, but also includes the embodiment of self-worth, and the most direct thing is to smooth one's own unwillingness. One day, we will understand that it is not easy to get along with ourselves. Dream and reality will always stand in a position of confrontation but balance. The only person who needs to work hard and change most is himself.

Like many young people, I am wandering in a foreign land. The reason why I can accept such a day, saying it is a dream, is only the highest spiritual pillar. In fact, my heart is higher than the sky and I don't want to spend my life in a narrow space. Those young people like me just want to give me an answer and a relief from the past.

No matter what stage we are in now, you can turn yourself into a blank sheet of paper. Since it is blank, I am not afraid of any attempt and failure. We have plenty of opportunities to start, just don't spread this paper but we can't start. Just don't rush to finish before we start.

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My cousin told me that if one day all those ideas were realized, but they were not realized, wouldn't it be a great failure? By then, it will be too late to turn back. I asked him, what is your so-called success? He thought about it, made a lot of money, was recognized and admired by many people, and made his family live well.

I nodded and said it was successful. He looked at me doubtfully, didn't he think it was very utilitarian? I say it is utilitarian, but social identity itself is utilitarian. The most direct criterion of success is what everyone thinks. If you ask too much of yourself with these things, it is more important that you know what you want now. My cousin was silent in thought.

We don't know what the results of our efforts will bring. Sometimes we fail again and again, and sometimes we will succeed gradually. The reason for failure may be that your efforts are in the wrong direction, but it is more likely that you don't know if your efforts are in the right direction. Everyone is on the road, and everyone seems to be working from nine to five all day, but as long as you don't stop on the road, the so-called success is not far away.

As for utility and reward, that is not the key point that should be considered, far less than the enrichment and enjoyment brought by this process. Although we will be excited and excited to see the result, we must understand that this result is the result of countless efforts and struggles. If our efforts are to become better ourselves, even if we take 10,000 steps back, why not start? If we take the first step towards this goal, who says it is not the result of our past choices and courage?

Everything should be done bit by bit. If you don't do it, you will always be obsessed with your own ideas. If you don't try to change the present, your tomorrow will be exactly the same as it is now, or even worse.

This is the terrible thing about life. If a person is content with the status quo, that's good. What he is afraid of is his inner unwillingness, but he is unwilling to change. In the end, the present life is not good and the future is in jeopardy. Don't know how to do it, or go back to the starting point halfway because of an excuse, so life becomes an embarrassing situation, which makes you unable to get on or off, and falls into anxiety between self-doubt and negation, but it's not your ability, but your mentality.

I have read many biographies of famous people, and I have seen some similarities in their stories, that is, action and persistence. A friend once made many plans, such as traveling, remembering many words every day, reading a book a week, reviewing three old movies a week and so on. But after a long time, he gave up again and again, and the reason seems reasonable. Today, I am too tired from work. Colleagues get together today. What you haven't done today, do it tomorrow and make up for it next week.

My cousin smiled. He worked hard and at least had a plan to carry it out. I said yes, he really worked hard, but the result was not satisfactory.

I told my cousin that our road can not be achieved by simple efforts and ideas, nor can it be suitable for you by a few popular rules. You have to know yourself and arrange yourself before you can live step by step. A person's mobility represents his ability. If his ability is limited, don't specify too complicated goals for the time being. If you really make up your mind, push yourself. Your goal is becoming more and more difficult to achieve because of procrastination. From the initial disapproval, you will have doubts about yourself, thus forming a vicious circle, and in the end you will achieve nothing.

The change of mentality is the first step to change yourself. If you practice blindly with the wind, you will only live very tired in the end. Only when you really change your mind will you be willing to do challenges that you have never tried before. If you obviously want to change yourself, but you are always trapped in fantasy, and you are forced to change when you are working hard, then life will tell you that everything is wrong and you need to start over.

At that time, you will find that you are driven between empty thoughts and cruel reality, and you have lost your heart.

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Don't worry about how your life will end or how your future will end. You haven't started yet. How do you know who you will be in the future?

My cousin said I want to be a public relations officer, I want to broadcast, and I also want to write a book. I said, then do it. What are you afraid of? If you are good at communication, do it. Work hard with your existing conditions and don't give up exploring the bigger world. If you like broadcasting but don't know how to start, then I can teach you software to tell you broadcasting skills. If you like writing, read more books, write more and try more, and you will always make progress slowly. However, if you just don't want to do it now, or find some excuses that the conditions are not allowed, you will always stay in the stage of fantasy and self-withdrawal.

My cousin blushed for a while after listening to my words. He said that I was afraid of failure, and in the end, even the present days were gone.

I once read an article saying that there has never been an impassable road and an unattainable goal in this world. As long as you think realistically and do it, you will become a better self. Even if it is really difficult for you to reach the ideal height for the time being, at least if you climb it, the distance will be closer. But if you just look up and sigh at the high sky, you will always look up and never get close to it.

We are all like this. We are reluctant to give up everything in front of us, but we always want to get something for nothing in the future. This kind of emotion will make us ignore the current actions and just wait and see the future. No one's success is groundless, and no one's road is smooth sailing. Even if you see all the successful people now, behind their brilliance, which one has not experienced those indomitable courage and persistence?

My cousin said that I can't be a successful person, and I can't reach their goals at all. I shook my head. I'm not asking you to be them, but to be yourself. People don't live for the so-called success, the real success is to obey their own hearts and be themselves. You are the only one who walks on the road under your feet. The farther you go, the wider you see, so the more successful you are. Success has no end and no end. The key lies in how you explore the process of walking on this road. When you put aside your paranoia and confusion and start to take the first step, then you are successful. The road ahead will only enrich the media of success, deepen your self-improvement and experience, and become yourself in your heart.

It doesn't matter, we have exhausted our strength in our youth to think about our dreams and plan our own path. We are young in our twenties. You still have plenty of time to think about what you want to do, and you have more opportunities to challenge your failure. If you think your dream can't be realized at all, then change to a closer goal and get a little closer to that seemingly empty dream.

The best state of life is nothing more than having a dream in your heart and living your life bravely. Even if you finally pass the age of hard work and return to a dull daily life, it doesn't matter. It's not a pity that you didn't realize your dream and your ultimate goal, but you should strive to have a clear conscience, because only in this way will you get something more important than social recognition in the future, that is, your inner sureness and no regrets. This is your wealth on the long road of life and your courage and strength in facing all difficulties and obstacles in the future.

Because you know that you have worked hard and acted for your dreams, you are not afraid to encounter the hardships of life again, and you will not be caught off guard by those sudden hardships. You know that the ups and downs of the past will not come and go in vain. It will definitely leave traces in your life, become your armor, and go forward with you.

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No one knows what will happen tomorrow, and no one knows what awaits us in the future. If you only think of the worst that may happen and are not ready to start, then the chance of success in life will pass you by. When you look at the light from others, you will regret stagnation or even shrink back.

A person is not afraid to regret what he has done in the future, but he is afraid to regret what he has not done.

Yes, challenges are not terrible, difficulties are not terrible, failures are not terrible, and everything on this road is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you lost yourself because of these so-called terrible things. This road is full of twists and turns, which is nothing more than a war between one's heart and one's own. It is you who will defeat you in the end. Your opponent is not others, and you will always be the only one.

Life is like a rubber ball. You pat it, it jumps. If you hold it, it will only sleep in your mind forever. If you don't push yourself, you have no idea what surprises life will bring you. No matter how beautiful the world is or how successful others are, it has nothing to do with you. Only by being yourself, going where you want to go and doing what you want, will life not be difficult for you. Don't think about unnecessary things, but think about what to do next.

Maybe the future you want is far away, maybe you have been struggling, maybe you have tried hard but made no progress, maybe the reality you see is far from the future you expect, but as long as you know yourself and make choices and decisions bravely, even if others can't understand and agree, even if that future still can't be reached, you can always live a full and practical life, because you know that you are always on the road.

Only the experience on this road is the most valuable and useful, and only the experience can make us truly understand the world and ourselves. We should all experience something we have never seen before. On the way, we will encounter many things, some of which will be unforgettable and some will disappear. But when you know you are brave, even if you look back, you won't regret it. What really makes us unforgettable and grateful is definitely not the bitterness and wind and rain on the road, but the self who bravely marched forward regardless of everything.

There are things related to self in this world: first, find a way that suits you, don't look back and forth, don't aim too high, just know what you want in your heart. The second is to do it bravely. If you want to be a person, you have to experience it yourself. Only by taking every step can you see the scenery you want in the next moment. Third, remember to stick to it. The scenery on the easy road is less, and the road with fewer people is more difficult. What belongs to us is limited after all. Only by recognizing it, bravely going on and persisting can we spend the long night ahead and reap the twilight dawn.

I said to my cousin: If you don't know what you want, then go back to your starting point, think about the road you have traveled, talk to your deepest self and find your starting point. If you don't know how to do it, then slowly sort out your thoughts and try your best to make some plans and arrangements. And when you have your own plan, you must stick to it and work hard. There is no free lunch in this world, and there is no future for nothing. Only by knowing yourself can we understand the world.

Believe in yourself, dream, warmth, love, all your efforts will be rewarded, and everything about you.

You know, your road is not planned for you by anyone. You know, you are not a copy of anyone, nor a substitute for others. Only by being yourself can you live a solid and happy life, and only by truly knowing yourself can you understand what you need.

Nietzsche said it well: You might as well take risks to life, because at least you will lose it. If there is a miracle in this world, it is just another name for hard work.

The most difficult stage of life is not that no one knows you, but that you don't know yourself.

Change your mind, and miracles may happen. As long as you believe, you can work miracles in adversity.