Is it reliable to rely on children and women to support the elderly?

The problem of providing for the aged has always been concerned, but in the traditional mode, children or relatives are often relied on to bear the responsibility of raising and caring. However, the reality tells us that it is unreliable to rely on children and women, and the problem of providing for the aged is facing increasing challenges.

First of all, social changes lead to the miniaturization of family structure, and children live independently as adults, forming an "empty nest" family, which makes the elderly lose their important dependence. Some children go out to work, study abroad, and even emigrate abroad. They are far away from the elderly and it is difficult to give them enough care and companionship. The time for returning home to visit relatives is also getting less and less, leaving the elderly facing loneliness and helplessness.

Secondly, the fast-paced era has brought fast food culture and a lifestyle that lacks physical activity, which makes the health level of the younger generation decline and it is difficult for them to take care of the elderly themselves. In addition, due to economic pressure and personal development, many young people choose to leave their hometown or go out to wander, which makes it difficult for them to take care of the elderly.

Third, the elderly need more professional and meticulous nursing services. According to different physical conditions and psychological needs, professional medical institutions and nursing staff are needed to provide a wider range of services. However, the reality is that many elderly people cannot enjoy high-quality nursing services due to economic conditions and inconvenient transportation, and often live alone or in simple nursing homes.

To sum up, relying on children and women can no longer be the fundamental dependence of the elderly. The government should appropriately raise the level of old-age care, build more public service facilities for the elderly, and improve the level of medical security for the elderly; At the same time, encourage the development of specialized aged care services to meet the diversified needs of the elderly. In addition, we should actively create an atmosphere of respect, care and support for the elderly in the whole society, so that every elderly person can enjoy happiness and dignity in his later years.