Dad has bone metastasis after advanced gastric cancer. How should he accompany him in the last time?

Hello, I'm Dr. Li Jichen, an old Chinese doctor who has studied cancer for more than 4 years. It's an honor to answer your question and I hope I can help you.

The non-metastasis of your father's advanced gastric cancer means that the primary cancer has metastasized to the skeletal system, which is generally common in the spine, thoracolumbar vertebrae, pelvis and long bones. Bone metastasis of gastric cancer is a very complicated process. When cancer cells reach bone marrow with blood flow, they destroy bone tissue and release various growth factors stored in bone tissue, so that cancer cells proliferate to form metastatic focus. Many patients give up treatment when they reach the advanced stage of gastric cancer. For example, your father has bone metastasis, so you must want to give up treatment. In fact, no matter whether it metastasizes or not, advanced gastric cancer can't be cured. On the road of cancer, there is no such thing as "cure".

I'm not sure if your father has been treated before, but according to the current situation, your father is not suitable for other treatments, but you can't just let it go. It's not just the patients themselves, but also the relatives! It is suggested to choose a non-toxic and side-effect therapy-"trinity of traditional Chinese medicine", and adopt a comprehensive therapy combining oral administration with external use, local and systemic treatment, viscera and meridian points. Effectively relieve the symptoms and signs of patients, reduce the local focus of tumor, soften hard mass, eliminate tumor and remove blood stasis, improve the general immunity of patients, eliminate pathogenic factors and strengthen the body resistance, consolidate the body and tonify deficiency.

In fact, choosing such a painless way will not only save your father from the pain, but also prolong his life and improve his quality of life. Isn't that better? Please communicate with your father more, and don't make him feel too pessimistic. The mentality is also very important for the recovery of his illness. I am Director Li Jichen, who has been dealing with cancer all my life. If you have any questions about cancer, you can leave a message in the comment area or write directly, and I will try my best to answer them one by one.

let me answer this question. Bone metastasis occurred in the late stage of gastric cancer, so we must respect dad's wishes about how to accompany him in the last time.

First of all, patients with advanced cancer are very painful, not only physically, but also psychologically afraid and unwilling to give up. In short, their emotions are very complicated. So we should give dad a chance to do what he wants, and let him choose. Whatever he likes to do and eat, we must follow him and try our best to satisfy him. The so-called Pepsi filial piety first, filial piety, how to be filial?

secondly, combined with the guidance of doctors. Even in the late stage, some drugs or treatments are needed. One is to reduce the pain of dad, and the other is to prolong his life. This degree is actually difficult to grasp, and doctors, patients and their families need to discuss and decide. So communicate more.

once again, have fun with dad. Being happy is a good mood, and it is also conducive to dad's recovery. Laughter makes you younger. What we have to do is sometimes very simple, to help dad find something that makes him happy and then make him happy.

finally, I want to talk about the early detection of gastric cancer. Gastric cancer actually has early signals. Let's take a look at the following four signals.

1. Obvious emaciation

The whole body condition has changed sharply in a short period of time, the nutritional status has become very poor, emaciation is obvious, and weight has dropped rapidly, which may also be a signal of malignant transformation.

2. Panting and belching in the stomach

Symptoms are fullness after eating, loss of appetite, frequent occurrence of repeated belching, and frequent acid and watery stomach.

Third, unexplained black stool

Patients with gastric ulcer have black stool without warning, or the stool has been bloody, so we should be alert to whether it is malignant.

Fourth, the pain changes

Once the nature of pain changes, it becomes persistent and irregular abdominal pain or is relieved, you should be vigilant.

try eating only fruits and vegetables and taro. Don't eat oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.

There was an old man in his 6s, who died more than 2 years ago. Cancer, surgery, radiotherapy and chemotherapy, all kinds of tossing and turning, just couldn't get over it. He also changed to several hospitals, but Western medicine couldn't cure him. So one day, he pulled the tube out of his body and went home. When I got home, I began to eat only boiled taro for more than twenty years. To this day, he is still alive!

In the advanced stage of gastric cancer, it is estimated that it cannot be resected. Late gastric cancer has bone metastasis. In fact, this shows that your father's physique has dropped too much. All diseases are caused by acquired immune deficiency. Find ways to improve the human body's physique, and you can restore human health.

I have a middle school classmate's husband, too, who was seriously ill more than 2 years ago and couldn't be cured by going to see a doctor everywhere. In the end, he was cured by eating lightly [without oil, salt, sauce and vinegar ]

I feel helpless and reluctant in your heart, but I still need your strength, because my father still needs to take care of him.

Although the advanced gastric cancer is accompanied by bone metastasis, we still can't give up. We should try Chinese medicine while treating. At this time, we have to try everything.

We should be optimistic, but at the same time, we should be mentally prepared. Maybe one day you will watch him lose weight, unable to eat anything, and aching all over. As a child, what else can you do besides accompanying him, besides giving him better food and clothes, and letting him do what he wants when he has some strength? Do you like to watch comic sketches? Look at the comedian. I have a relative who has cancer and watches it every day. He is in a good mental state. If the old people like it, they can watch sketches and listen to music.

I really don't know how to comfort you except to encourage you to face it bravely.

first of all, I sympathize with your experience! Late gastric cancer with bone metastasis does have a limited survival time. How should children accompany them? Strictly speaking, it is not a medical topic but a topic of humanistic care. From the medical point of view, some cases should be treated moderately. If the patient is only a small bone metastasis in imaging and has no other serious discomfort and complications, he should seek the oncologist in a regular hospital to do some targeted treatment (such as anti-bone metastasis). The goal of treatment is to control the disease and prolong the survival time. From the perspective of humanistic care, if possible, spend more time with him, chat with him more, properly reveal his illness and prognosis, and let the old man explain some things in a planned way. Usually, the old man can come as he pleases, for example, if he doesn't want to receive treatment, he will do it according to his wishes. In the process of companionship, it is most important to make the elderly feel good, and encourage them to eat more/eat well. Good nutritional status helps to alleviate illness. If you are in the dying stage, you can be in the hospice ward, or someone can take care of family medicine, and at the same time have more family members to accompany you. At this stage, we do not advocate active treatment, let alone active rescue treatment, and prolong some fearless survival time.

Can you still eat? Can you drink water? If I can tell you a prescription, it's not expensive to buy two kinds of herbs at Tongrentang Pharmacy to treat cancer.

Alas, there is only a sigh. The cancer patients are physically uncomfortable and their families are suffering. You should be prepared mentally, and both people and money are empty! Looking at him every day, life is worse than death. Alas, I have had dying relatives of tumors at home, and that feeling is really unpleasant!

First of all, you should have a strong heart, adjust your mentality, protect your body, and let the old people see that you are happy, happy and happy. Whatever wishes the old people want and conditions permit, they will be satisfied. Do your best to let him leave this world, don't leave any regrets!

good wishes and take care! ! !

First of all, correct a point. Bone metastasis in the late stage of cancer does not mean that life has come to an end. Modern medicine has countless ways to deal with it! Patients and their families should not despair. Regular hospitals will judge how to treat bone metastases according to their location and severity. If bone metastases are serious, they should first deal with the bone metastases. If there is pain, then quickly prescribe some symptomatic drugs in the pain department of the hospital. Don't be afraid of opioid painkillers. Eat what you should, and the quality of life will be higher if it doesn't hurt. Remember, everyone wants to live, and patients are no exception!

If you really have filial piety, get more mint water and rub it all over your body once every half hour. From your feet up, just dip the towel in the water and rub it with a twist to see if there can be a miracle. By the way, try to find a way to relieve it.

Calm your mind and treat it symptomatically. Bone protectants are needed for bone metastases. The main thing is to pay attention to reasonable diet and improve your quality of life. You can choose to inhibit tumor growth and metastasis.