My ex-boyfriend wants to see me. What should I do? We haven't seen each other for eight years, but we suddenly got in touch in the last two years.

Okay, last emotional question tonight,

I will answer patiently, but I am more direct, so don't mind.

My boyfriend who broke up before suddenly wants to see you and says he can't let you go. It is estimated that there are two possibilities.

The first type: the novelty of the current girlfriend is definitely over. He wants to chase you and then dump that woman. He may regret it and want to go back to the grass (maybe 50%).

Second: I want you to be a mistress. After all, there are no wild flowers at home, and I still want to sleep with you once, because in retrospect, men are like this (maybe 75%).

I don't think there is a third possibility,

Why does he want to see you when he has a girlfriend? I have already answered you above.

Should you meet him? I think as a bystander, I can only give you advice. After all, separation is very painful.

If he is telling you that you can't live without that woman and your old wounds are still attached, I think it's you who feel uncomfortable. Now that it's been so long,

And he often asks you out, which I think is purposeful. Generally speaking, it is best not to see him. After a period of separation, I always feel that I have talked with my girlfriend for seven years.

We broke up because she wanted to emigrate. It took me two years to kill this relationship. I still want to, but I'm not willing. So what?

I hope there is no future. Or chasing a little hope and expectation? I don't think this is realistic for love,

Now that we are separated, let's live well. It is impossible to meet only one person we like in life, is it? Some people say that time can make people forget everything,

I don't think so. I think time is a sharp weapon to kill a relationship. Can only dilute a relationship, but can't forget it. This is our first memory.

Only you know whether the shoes fit or not. I'm just advising you not to meet him, because after all, if he gets injured in the end, he still has a way out, and you're already in no way back.

4. If we meet, what better way? I think, if we meet from a friend's point of view, of course you will book a place you are not familiar with.

Because places you are familiar with are easy to expose scars. If you want to be with him, find a familiar place, understand?

For example, going to the cinema for the first time, or eating place, is as simple as that.

5, the image need not be so tangled, tidy up beautifully, just change to the girlish style of the natural department, and nothing else is needed.

6. He doesn't ask about your life. I think this is a sign that men don't love you, but everything I ask you proves to be emotional cooling.

I told you to take good care of yourself, which is what everyone said after breaking up. Too ordinary, too ordinary. Since I broke up with you, what right do I have to bless you?

Let you take good care of yourself. You told him that you couldn't take care of yourself at the beginning and just wanted him to take care of you, but he would still leave, right?

In short, he understands all these reasons. Why did he break up with you? Because the novelty has passed, it's as simple as that, and it's the same now. He thinks she is inferior to you.

Actually, I think your problem,

I can tell whether you still like him or want to see him. All your questions revolve around him.

So needless to say,

Actually, I want to tell you that I talked with my first girlfriend for seven years, and after one year of engagement, her family will emigrate, so I can't force myself to break up with him.

At that time, once she ran back quietly, her parents called me, and I forcibly sent her back, because I knew that such entanglement was fruitless.

It will hurt her, so I shouldn't bother her. It's that simple. Without future love, our persistence will only hurt each other more.

Your boyfriend should also understand, but why did he turn around? Because of what? I think you know better than I do. Why did you break up so decisively? You know,

In short, guess whether the shoes fit or not, and see for yourself. My advice is, it's best not to see them, it's hard to forget those injuries.

If you think my answer is helpful to you.

Please don't say thank you when you adopt, but also help me to be happy.

Hey, Edward Zhang, be the girlfriend of an inner man. ~ -XX is the last word of his name.

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